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Christine, 38 from Kuruman, Northern Cape

We are a fun loving couple looking for discreat encounters and long relationships.

Rogertherab, 39 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm a maverick that respects all mankind's (or should Isay womankind's?) choices and actions as long as they are respectful towards others.

Kirsten, 26 from Sandton, Gauteng

Naughty farm girl, new to the scene. Sexually energetic, bit of a nympho I guess. Not into the pub and club stuff, a romantic dinner turns me on. If the chemistry is there, you are in for the time of your life. Looking for single guys my age interested in some adventurous fun, I am the outdoor type. My messages are filtered and a wink will simply get you a "not interested" response.

Jo, 44 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I am a 44 year old woman. I am married. my husband and I have our own friends. we are very open minded about it. gents and ladies are welcome to have a chat.

Vicky, 35 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Here for fun:) I'm fuller figured with lots of energy and passion. I love to spend time with someone pleasuring each other in whatever way we need. I can travel but not accommodate at all. Maybe a quicky in the office? Or hours in a secret bed somewhere? I have the time if you have the stadium... I'm not interested in cyber porn or skype. I want touching and feeling and actual sex. Kissing, licking etc. So unless you live nearby, no point in contacting me please:) Happy hunting everyone. X

Jonathan, 35 from Kwazulu Natal

Looking for a lonely, matured and clean lady who needs a company of a gentleman and be satisfied sexually.

Nadine, 38 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Wow so many options.... Thinking of setting up a questionnaire.....you know to speed things up.... Just kidding guys.... But not joking about all the options. Thank you for reading my profile. Looking for mutual respect with a flair of NSA on the side. Talking and sharing stories and fantasies and being treated like a woman, not just a sexual object... yes this site calls for raw sex but lets do it with sensual passionate intentions... mind blowing is always better than wham bam thank mam *wink* Please guys, if you dont feel confidant to put a picture on your profile or to fill in your thingies so that I can read and see a bit then please move along as I like confidant men. xoxo

Rosa, 45 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm a sexy, confident, intelligent and extremely open-minded woman who wants to try just about everything at least once! I'm at my sexual peak and therefore has sex on my mind 24/7 and I would like some NSA fun with a mature and confident man. I keep fit and exercise 4 days a week, but that doesn't mean I have a perfect body..... because I don't. So pls, if perfect is what u looking for then I'm not ur girl and by all means..... keep looking. I do have an extraordinary mind though, which is perfectly in tune with my body and this, maybe unfortunately, means that I definitely need mental stimulation before I'll even consider meeting up with anyone because that is what turns me on. Please note that I'm not interested in married, involved, or whatever u want call it men. I've tried it and it just doesn't work for me. WHITE / CAUCASIAN MEN ONLY PLS! And I do NOT have to apologize for this.

Doreen, 56 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Independent, self sufficient and have no need to be validated by a man. I know what I do or don't want from life. It is all about "Chemistry" so do not be presumptuous and assume that because I am on this site that I am easy. I am here to chat and have a few laughs, if it leads anywhere I will consider it a bonus. To sum up the above - No promises, no demands and no expectations = no disappointments I am NOT here to exchange naughty pics.

Toue, 42 from Kwazulu Natal

I am a gym regular, like ti keep in shape and take care of myself. Stout stout

Nicole, 41 from Allen'S Nek, Gauteng

Intelligent, Feminine, Sensual, Sexy, Independent, cheeky, very honest and expect nothing less from a man. I enjoy masculine, adventurous and confident men. Only contact me, if you are very single, I don't do extra marital, nor side line. Please my preference is English speaking and Caucasian gents, who do have some intelligence, humour and know how to treat a woman in every sense of the word.

Evelyn, 51 from Kwazulu Natal

Am looking for someone who is real, true and honest, like minded and ready to play! May be not the beauty queen you wanting, i love my body and respect it and hope you will show it the respect my body deserves! Open minded! Love all and more Am a hot, sensual, orgasmic lover Condoms a Necessity Sorry only CAUCASIANS WITH PHOTOS How ready are you to take the p!unge? Your call, send me a text Horney 24/7 Professional Loves outdoors and life Has a passion for the kitchen In my own cottage Look forward to hearing from you You won't be dissapointed.......

Cleo, 41 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

We all know what we are looking for, so not to waste either your or my time here are some guidelines: Men ages 39 - 55 I will not reply to messages with no profile picture, Only Caucasian men please, also taller than 1,78m....oh if you have a 6-pack, that scores extra points,......... About me: I am looking for discreet relationship, not one night stands. A man who knows how to treat a woman and appreciates a woman. Important thing to me is hygiene, I look after my body and expect the same from my partner. I enjoy the whole part of foreplay, but seduction is an art. I like to be in control at times, but need a partner who knows when to take control back,.... I can be impulsive and spontaneous, and also enjoy long slow hot sessions.

Kevin, 38 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a strong, clean, confident and sexy gentleman with a face to match my body. I can be rough, if that's what you like. If you like being treated like a lady, then I'm your man. I can definitely spoil you by treating you like a queen as I am courteous, kind and caring but on the other hand passionate and a little bit of a freak, OVERALL very well balanced. Looking for daytime fun with a female of similar characteristics. If I don't get back too you soon, I will definitely do so in the near future, if you do tickle my fancy. I'm not really into playing games and am rather genuine, and would expect the same from you. I am looking for a long term No Strings Attached(NSA) FRIEND-WITH-BENEFITS to have lots of fun with and to spoil, so if you think that you have what it takes, inbox me. I will not respond if you do not have a profile pic or if you do not want to swap pics, so please don't waste either of our time. If you would like pics of me, just forward me your email address. Looking forward to hearing from SEXY you.

Chocolate, 39 from Kwazulu Natal

Looking for fun Boredom is dangerous

Nonozie, 28 from Kwazulu Natal

Im a black gal likes going out, receiving and giving oral looking 4 a sugar daddy like relationship

Elizabeth, 54 from Centurion, Gauteng

Finally resorting to modern technology's evolutionary way of dating. Back in circulation and dying to meet a good friend, social partner, activity buddy and whatever comes with it. In in good shape, aside from still smoking, something I'm determined to quit for good, I live a healthy lifestyle, love all forms of physical activity, ;)- I'm independent professional woman with a public profile, though I'm not married and am not interested in married men, my public image cannot be tarnished. Please respect this.

Marietjie, 44 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I would like to think of myself as a classy lady, yet I am a T-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I have a good self image, and I think that I am not too bad looking for my age. Sexy, good looking younger men gets me hot. The wildest thing that I've ever done is having sex with my husband on the balcony of our holiday flat.

Tinks, 51 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Hi there, I'm NOT here to have fun fun, but a more meaningful relationship, ALTHOUGH not asking to get married, once is enough!!!!!!!! Now it can be perceived as 2 meanings so u decide which would suit you. My choice of man is WHITE, Its my choice so DON'T question it, RATHER respect it. The world might be a changing ----but what I want and like, the WORLD cannot change. We live in a world where something or the other is wrong in our present life, some lacking at home that has lead us down this path to seek that fulfillment from you, THE STRANGER, to fill that void. This does NOT mean I'M DESPERATE, but know that the ultimate end result will be with the ONE that chemistry RADIATES. If u don't get a response from me, THEN know u have an incomplete profile and I'm NOT interested. DON'T send me those PATHETIC auto messages PLEASE , JUST DON'T BOTHER THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I play ALONE, meaning alone, if you want to know what my hubby thinks, I suggest you ask him directly. PLEASE I'm NOT into Blacks................RESPECT MY CHOICES!!!!!!! PLEASE NO UNDER 40'S

Irgshaan, 31 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Hi all just a regular guy that loves eating pussy ;)

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