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Morare, 42 from Thabazimbi, Limpopo

Come lets do it to the best,you'll never regret

Jeff, 42 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

NSA...fun times with any woman...any race...any age...so a couple of pics for a sneak preview...da rest can b felt or seen personally....lolz

Alichia, 21 from Eastern Cape, Eastern Cape

Alichia has yet to add her profile.

Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

Fantazycatz, 49 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.

Trish, 28 from Kwazulu Natal

I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...

Pv, 37 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

Pv has yet to add her profile.

Licious, 53 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.

Jamie, 26 from Kwazulu Natal

Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx

Jennimatt, 32 from Centurion, Gauteng

We are both 32...looking for white guys to have threesomes with. Nothing multi-racial please.

Truly-Sweet, 28 from Alberton, Gauteng

I'm just a lonely bored woman who needs to be entertained throughly, completely. Stimulate my mind with your intellect and will surely stimulate other parts of me.

Angelique, 51 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I have honed more than my literary skills during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, the sign around my neck, now reads: Girlfriend Available, as I am not wired for NSA nor being the Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with my needs having changed, it is time to look elsewhere, for whom and what I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will return occasionally to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather ambivalent and need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere..... LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!

Brian, 61 from Kwazulu Natal

I am very young single (divorced after 33years of marriage)61 year old who gyms regularly and keeps in shape,but not fanatical,however my health is important to me.I have a high sex drive and love sex.Iam looking for a regular lover to develop a mutual passionate and very hot relationship and who knows where this will lead to. I am adventurous in the bedroom and will do almost anything to please my lady.I love the bush,game parks,4x4,hiking and is only made better with a willing passionate lover.Sorry but no smokers please a real turn off. Another passion of mine is cooking so I will please your taste buds as well as pleasing you in the bedroom.

Kea, 20 from Orkney, North West

thick homosexual.

Hudson, 40 from Kwazulu Natal

I am unhappily married and am looking for a friend to chat to, possibly leading to more. I am kind and respectful and expect the same in return. My real name isn't Hudson for obvious reasons that is my fake name. I am discreet and wish to stay that way.

Alec, 28 from Middelburg, Mpumalanga

Single guy looking for nsa fun.

Phindie, 37 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Hook up with me, matured, open mimded and funny..you'll love every moment. Must be NSA and very discreet. Love to explore anything possible.

Jacky, 34 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm single African,independent hard working and fun.i enjoy reading and meeting people.I think I'm fun to be around ,wouldn't mind trying new things ,never shy to say No. I like gentlemen, respectful preferably professional, mature somebody. I am not after anybody s cash gentleman. This is me trying to own my pleasure. I'm here for fun.if you happen to do one or two things for me it's entirely your choice.

Amanda, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Amanda has yet to add her profile.

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