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Kevin, 38 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a strong, clean, confident and sexy gentleman with a face to match my body. I can be rough, if that's what you like. If you like being treated like a lady, then I'm your man. I can definitely spoil you by treating you like a queen as I am courteous, kind and caring but on the other hand passionate and a little bit of a freak, OVERALL very well balanced. Looking for daytime fun with a female of similar characteristics. If I don't get back too you soon, I will definitely do so in the near future,...

Lynx, 50 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Creative artist and thinker. Yin and yang between introvert and extrovert. Would love to share good times with naughty relevant other.

Nadia, 54 from Mpumalanga

I am a very feminine, intelligent woman looking for a fwb. I am well groomed and said to be attractive, with a great sense of humor. I prefer tall men, well groomed and intelligent and of course, very discreet. I am not into 3-somes or orgies, and anal is not for me. Age group 40 to 55, and please, if you cannot send a decent message, rather leave it. Let's see what happens ....

Bee, 35 from Paarl, Western Cape

I'm a single down to earth, know what i want lady. Hygiene is highly important to me and i expect it from the person ill be with, I want one regular well hung friend , if you not that person dont waste my time and yours. I love the outdoors , hiking, camping generally life itself .Unfortunatly i dont host. Hope there will be someone out there wanting the same.

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