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Are you looking for a bit of fun rather than a long term partner or a serious relationship? Times are changing. More and more people now use the internet to meet new people for sex or fulfil their sexual fantasies.

For many people, a serious relationship or long term commitment just aren't what they want. The reasons for this vary from being too busy with a demanding career, being fresh out of a long term relationship and not wanting to jump back into another one to simply enjoying lots of sex with different partners. My Bed or Yours gives our users a secure and discreet way to meet new people looking for the same things as you. Finding a horny girl or guy in Mpumalanga is easy. You can search for people in Mpumalanga or search nationwide then arrange to meet for sex with no complications, commitment or drama.

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Missy, 24 from Mpumalanga

Clean responsible fun... After a long day or week of trying to save the world its nice to be taken control of and saved... Save me

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Tony, 35 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Hi, my name is Tony, I am completely new at this, so here goes.... Im keen to broaden my horizons... I really like to please the girl I'm with, nothing does it more for me than pleasuring a woman... Mmmm :-) that does it for me!! Was afraid that I will be missing out before I get too old... So thought what the hell lets give this site a go! Like to keep active indoors and outdoors, fun loving young at heart gentleman looking for naughty discreet fun.... Drop me a line if you are intersted it will be...

Fantazycatz, 49 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

OK, yeah I'm all the blah blah things like everybody else, but then I'm also soooo much more hmmmm . . . . . . . . I am k for cats and I like 3003 and g-males, oh them I love, so what do you think, would you like to drop me a mail . . . . . . . .

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