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My Bed or Yours is a discreet, easy to use adult contacts site for open minded adults to meet other adults for some naughty fun, a bit on the side or a regular fuck buddy. If you are looking for a good time without the commitment or dramas that come with a serious relationship, My Bed or Yours is your new best friend. Search online for new sex partners in Mpumalanga or slip it in your pocket with our latest mobile app and find casual sex wherever you are.

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Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

Adult dating has really taken off recently and we're proud to one of the most active sites around. Part of the reason we've managed to become popular is because we believe that our members deserve a good service and aren't just an open wallet. To demonstrate this we give everyone a free trail with no credit card requirement and no lock in subscription - you get to try the service on your terms. We are also constantly improving our service to give you the best experience. We recently launched our mobile app so you can use the site easily on your phone or tablet privately. We've also revamped our location based search to make it so much easier to find the people who are actually close by. No hunting through endless pages of search results. This is all in addition to our social messaging platform, picture and video profiles, flirts and dedicated support staff.

In under a minute you could have access to 100's of people in Mpumalanga who are horny and looking to get laid. We know it sounds too good to be true, but you'd be amazed at people's inner desires when they have some anonymity. With a free trial account you can see who's online now and start your search for the perfect fuck buddy. Don't worry - they only personal information we need when you're creating an account is an email address. That's it. 30 seconds and you're a member.

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Hazel, 27 from Waterkloof, Gauteng

I'm looking for discreet relationship, I don't like jumping from one bed to another, I only need that one man I can meet on a regular basis and have some good,clean sex LOVE MY COFFEE BLACK AND STRONG WITH BROWN SUGAR

Ellavrabec, 34 from Mpumalanga

Best orgasm ever mmm.....

Busi, 44 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I am a loving,caring,honest, like having fun,hate lies.Employed as an Educator ,holding Bachelors, I wish to meet some one to share life with

Pierre, 49 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Me and my Mrs. Want to put a 3some to the test. We are looking for a Bi lady that will join. Must be clean . Sexy and classy pref nicely shaven. Pls if the is any ladys out there for some fun pls let us know ONLY WHITE LADYS PLS

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