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I am open minded person looking for fun. California City California, USA , 27

I love to travel more often , I love outdoor stuff like surfing and hiking.

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Smut books have led me here Lodi California, USA , 31

I’ve recently opened the door to all this from all of my smut books. I’m still very new but very open

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Looking to meet a new sub for a relationship Sacramento California, USA , 38

I am Dom seeking a sub for my satisfaction, my 3 holes are ready for my sub, I am willing to try new things and see where it lead us to

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Welcome and Kneel before Mistress Vicky Daly City California, USA , 37

I'm 37 years old, living in the Daly City region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person, sub or a man aged between 18 and 90.I'm Asian with a Average body shape Blonde hairI drink socially I don't smoke

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It is hard to describe myself but I will try. I believe I am a kind lady, very o.. Atherton California, USA , 45

I am writing these words from my heart to a man who is looking for life changes and is ready to let a real woman in his life. I will fulfill our lives with passion, love, care, romance and lot's of positive emotions. I am good looking, intelligent and successful in my profession and have a variety of interests. I am at the age when I clearly know who I am and what I want. I have a passionate heart and curious mind. I am trying to become better each new day and discover now things. Christian foundations are important to me.

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Im 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Santa Clara California, USA , 51

I'm 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 82.

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. San Francisco California, USA , 44

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bdsm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.

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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. San Jose California, USA , 46

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 89.

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now San Jose California, USA , 37

Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship

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Hello everyone here, I’m just new on here and will be glad to meet new people wi.. Dixon California, USA , 31

I'm 30 years old, living in the Miami region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 30 and 90.

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Loving and adventurous Dom looking to explore with a sub. San Francisco California, USA , 41

Dom mistress looking for a sub to enjoy the pleasures of this alternate lifestyle with. Also seeking a long term relationship.

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Im 41 years old, living in the Folsom region. Folsom California, USA , 41

I'm 41 years old, living in the Folsom region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 99.

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Im 39 years old, living in the San Francisco region. San Francisco California, USA , 40

I am a simple single woman looking for fun and pleasure.

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Think about what you have to offer in a relationship. Mistress looking for a su.. California City California, USA , 26

Have contact with new friends and get to know them more better

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I’m new here seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest.. California City California, USA , 43

I’m seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest person who is ready to love

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Lonelyheart need some fun and love San Jose California, USA , 37

Being treated right, and being cherished and loved

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Seeking a relationship with age appropriate person someone I can relate to commu.. Oakland California, USA , 71

Sensual Senior 69.
Seeking a Bi Guy or Gal, TS/CD & Hermaphrodites need  too! lover for Long Term Relationship Likes to be open in expressing ones self verbally in intimate situations.Taboo Role Play fantasy. I find Big Clits & Small Dicks hot. Mommy likes mFm.

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. California City, California , 35

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.

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A BEAUTIFUL MISS WANTS TO EXPLORE HER FANTASIES Fremont California, USA , 34

I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore…pegging and so on

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Looking for and older one and somehow who I can rekindle the flames in me mus.. California City California, USA , 49

Like exploring  this lifestyle  to its very best foot fetishism extreme  bdsm

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Soy mexicana inteligente y bella Santa Rosa California, USA , 30

Soy una mujer discreta, sensual, dispuesta aserte feliz..

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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Fremont California, USA , 46

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.

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Im 38 years old, living in the Plant City region. Talmage California, USA , 38

I'm 38 years old, living in the Plant City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 99.

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I’M WILLING TO OWN A SUB TO TRAIN AND OWN AS MINE San Jose California, USA , 36

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/ lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like pain.

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hello guys i am here for a serious long term relationship i am not a full member.. California City California, USA , 62

i am new to this internet dating stuff i want to find an honest loving faithful trustworthy caring man if you aint serious about me please stay far away from my profile i want something serious on here

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