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Busco hombre que quiera disfrutar de el cuerpo de mi esposa Couple 39, 39 from San Jose California, USA

Deseo ver a mi esposa teniendo una bna comida enfrente de mi y besarla hasta que la agar llegar


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I’m new here to meet new friends and lovers to get to know more Female 37 from Union City California, USA

I like when a man has a good sense of humor. I am very talkative so we will find a lot to speak about. You will never be bored withe me! If you are every bored or upset, I hope you will like my kisses. I do not have any special requirements to my man. I just want you to be yourself and open your heart to me!


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Looking to find that special someone. Female 50 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 50 years old, living in the Bates City region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.


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Hello I’m sure down for fun with a horny man.. let’s play Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m in for fun and sure fun to be with.. let us get to play.. I only need a loving and mature one..


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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Hey there everyone! I am new here. i am a sound and open minded woman, i am qui.. Female 35 from Sheridan California, USA

I love to go for walks on the beach. I have quite a few likes. I am open to dinner nights and movies as well. I love reading too.


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I am a lovely and a very understanding woman. Female 41 from Milpitas California, USA

I am very tender, caring, sociable and easygoing woman who is looking for a true love. And if I love a person I belong him totally and can bring for my man a pure bliss. I want my relations to be harmonious. I adore white long roses, chocolates and serenades during the first months of our relations and I know how to escape the argues and misunderstandings during the rest of the time. I know that romance is an essential part of any relations but there is life itself that shows the real face of the person.


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Dominance is a trait I find amusing, it is often times misunderstood but if you’.. Female 43 from American Canyon California, USA

I am a dominant woman, and with me you’ll derive pleasure in ways unimaginable, we’ll explore ever there’s to explore..I’m talking to you, yes you.


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Im 28 years old, living in the French Camp region. Female 28 from French Camp California, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the French Camp region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 72.


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Hello am looking for a serious relationship Female 43 from California City California, USA

Well am new here and am looking for a serious relationship that will be ending in marriage, but best friend first to know more about each other and see where it goes from there


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Hi, Am here for something casual adult fun FWB with loving mature man meet regul.. Female 53 from Oakland California, USA

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i’m Findom Goddess Mistress and i seek for a real time relationship with a sub h.. Female 25 from California City California, USA

Let’s start with this: I’m Dominant Goddess Mistress. Very Dominant. I’m glad that’s been cleared up. Are you curious about being tied up and gagged? Let me show you how it’s done. I’m experienced Dom with toys to play withI live in Tucson Arizona, and yes, I’m a real person. I’m originally Swedish, and i’m a cosmetologist. If we click, expect to be tied up, gagged, and...well, whatever else we can come up with. I do tend to like older men.I’m here for a real time relationship, and marriage. I’m not here for one night stand with a sub. I’m kinky and ready to tie my sub up, gag him, spank him, choke him, and fuck him.Anyways, let Me know if you are available to learn how to be a good sub to a very passionate, kinky and dominant woman.


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Am new here single soul looking for a soulmate Female 39 from California City California, USA

i want a good honest man who wants a good woman as a wife


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hello guys i am here for a serious long term relationship i am not a full member.. Female 62 from California City California, USA

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It is hard to describe myself but I will try. I believe I am a kind lady, very o.. Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, I'd love get to know you better but i'm not always online here. text me…


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Im an experienced dominant female seeking submissive ones for pleasure. Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a kinky female with a lot of experience as a dom. I enjoy a lot of fantasies and definitely open to trying new kinks and subs


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I’m on here to chat and have fun Female 42 from California City California, USA

I’m on here to chat and have fun and have some sweet things done


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Looking for my soulmate and hope you are here? Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!


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Aren’t joking here and am here for fun if you’re interested hit me up now Female 30 from California City California, USA

I’m available for any kind of kinks Also a professional mistress Hit me up only the serious


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Slim beauty looking to fulfill your fantasy Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m a beginner Willing and ready to learn new things.


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Dont Miss out, I could be your cuddle buddy. Female 59 from Palmdale California, USA

Let's make it real, I'm tired of being lonely, I'm loving, caring, educated, fun to be with and I've got a good heart to humanity, Text me if you wish to know more about me as soon as you see my hands,


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LOOKING FOR A SUB TO DOMINATE? Female 30 from Santa Clara California, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.


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Im looking for my long time adventurer partner Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a mistress of high class,I personally seek a nasty partner I can serve and someone to satisfy me.someone who can fuck real good no games


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Hi there , Im living in the Dallas Area. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm open to new experiences . I would love to learn on here too...


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