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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Clare based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Looking for sex in Clare

Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.

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Ann, 30 from Cork, Cork

just like to have fun and enjoy kinda everything

Patrick, 30 from Multyfarnham, Westmeath

Looking for some NSA fun...Must be discreet...

Jax, 32 from Oldcastle, Meath

If you have a pic of ur bits as a profile pic, pls don't bother leaving a msg... Happy go lucky type of woman, looking to be appreciated for a change...

Lisa, 35 from Cavan, Monaghan

New to this so a little unsure...just dipping a toe in the water so to speak!

Aisling, 45 from Dublin City, Dublin

Single lady looking for a single man which may lead to something more permanent. Genuine lady looking to find single man I am easy to talk with so friends tell me, In all honesty I am looking for someone I can trust, talk, laugh and be happy with. Not a high maintenance woman, the cinema or dinner out occasionally no big gestures needed on me. Please don't wink at me as I won't reply. if you want to talk to me just do it, I don't bite :) And please don't think I would be interested in anyone under 45 very minium

Carolina, 38 from Dublin, Dublin

apart from sex, I enjoy cinema, travelling, reading, writing, theatre, drawing (though I'm awful at this, but relaxes me nevertheless) I also like endless and pointless conversations...

Esme, 45 from Arklow, Wicklow

Please only single man!!!!! Dutch woman, plain, big, wearing glasses, 45, but ready to experience her submissive side and very open minded;) not much can shock me. My master needs to be single, looking for a fulltime submissive as i'm looking for someone who will try my boundaries, but who wil take care of me in every way....

Detta, 53 from Baltinglass, Wicklow

i am on the wrong site and i tried to take my profile off but they wont let me......i check in regularly to read my messages out of curiosity but the think is i am not looking for a one night stand for se aone and i am not looking for saucy chats or emails i am looking for my soul mate and for a long term relationship. While i am on the site untill they eventually honor ny request to have my profile removed from here i would just like to make that clear,,,,exactly what i am looking for! I am sure there are some very nice gentleman out there but i know what i am looking for and it doesnt seem to be available for me on this site.......x

Rebecca, 33 from Galway City, Galway

Horny woman seeking experienced man

Julie, 34 from County Donegal, Donegal

Hey guys,i am a 5'2 blonde,curvy;-) lukn for a guy r a couple to hav sum fun wit me while hubby watches!!!! LOOKING FOR SOMEONE IN LETTERKENNY TO JOIN US FOR AN HOUR R SO... ;)) 13/2/15

Carolinet, 44 from Clare

I'm a happily married 44yo size 18 BBW with dirty blonde hair, that likes to fuck. Only did this a few times and he came with me to watch though he has joined in a couple of them(got him to suck cock for me)a real turn on. We cant accommodate as we got kids at home So if any of you guys can accommodate give us a shout lets see what can be arranged. ps Also open to a foursome with another lady We are also both smokers(just in case that could lead to problems)

Dean, 22 from Clare

Looking for discrete fun with females or couples into cuckolding.. Very open-minded with great stamina.. Want to know more then just mail me :)

Carol, 27 from Dublin, Dublin

Hi, I just want to fuck hard and wild.

Suzie, 40 from Stonybatter, Wicklow

My favourite word is 'more'...

Neil, 33 from Dublin, Dublin

hiya, im lookin for a like minded girl to meet and have nsa fun with on a regular occassion if we get on. im outgoing and like to have a laugh, dont take myself too seriously. if u think im for you get in touch

Samantha, 40 from Fox's Castle Bridge, Waterford

Hi my name is Samantha- based in Waterford - I am looking for a man or woman to participate in THREESOME . If you can travel and are genuine we will be in contact - anybody WITH NO PICTURE won't be considered so don't waste our time . I am 40 and experienced and my partner is 45 and experienced. You will be expected to leave a contact number if you are considered and NO COCK SHOTS . Can do hotels in waterford as well as accom. I and look forward to hearing from all genuine people

James, 33 from Clare

Looking for some REAL fun. I'm looking for some NSA fun, but if it leads onto something more, it would be good too. I'm up for all kinds of encounters and I am a bit of a performer. Message me if you want a REAL man to do a good job

Lorraine, 36 from Glenmore, Kilkenny

Not looking for anything serious...... Girls just wanna have fun right ;-) Discretion is an absolute must. And I am not able to accommodate, so please don't ask. If you think you can satisfy my desires, then message me and we'll see where it goes :-)

Sharon, 44 from Clare

Hi guys, Looking forward to lots of chats and maybe more.

Kevin, 23 from Dungarvan, Waterford

Well I will say I'm a very horny person and I really love mature women and I do have a job

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