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STUART, 55 from Southland

Hi there and thanks for checking my profile. I'm on here to have some hot fun and to hopefully find some one for a little more as well..who knows? Just looking for a one on one at this stage with NSA if that what you want Im a young minded guy with a great sense of humour...chat and find out some more

KATRINA, 43 from Rongotea, Manawatu-Wanganui

Katrina has yet to add his profile. Ask Katrina for more info.

HARRY, 25 from Southland

Harry sent you a message: "Hey jane" (yesterday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (yesterday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (16th Feb at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (12th Feb at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (12th Feb at 1:38am)

WILLIE, 66 from Mornington, Otago

Well, here I am attempting to describe my self, my needs and desires. I am a happy well adjusted person who loves life but is showing the signs of age--my knees.. I have been on my own for over 10 years after my marriage ended. I have dated a few ladies but I have not been to bed with any of them. That was not my idea of where things should have gone but that was how it was. I think I am a sexy man and I do have a very good sex drive, so I am hoping to meet a lady or two on this site who is keen to have sex with an older man. I certainly hope so. I also want to do my very best to satisfy the lady's wildest fantasies.

MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "Chatting?" (20th Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (17th Feb at 1:18am) Bob winked at you (13th Feb at 1:46am) Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (9th Feb at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am)

JOHN, 48 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

John winked at you (Friday at 6:52am)

ASHERS, 34 from Tuakau, Waikato

Here for a good time

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (yesterday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)

JONATHAN, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 2:48am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Ello!" (21st Feb at 4:20am) Jonathan winked at you (21st Feb at 4:20am) Jonathan sent you a message: "." (17th Feb at 4:26am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am)

ARBE, 38 from Auckland, Auckland

Arbe has yet to add his profile. Ask Arbe for more info.

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Luke winked at you (13th Feb at 8:13am) Luke winked at you (1st Feb at 1:07am)

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George winked at you (yesterday at 1:07am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 12:44am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 6:47pm) George winked at you (Wednesday at 1:57am) George winked at you (21st Feb at 1:05am)

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 10:42am) Kerry winked at you (Tuesday at 5:47pm) Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)

ALAN, 56 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Young at heart. Love experimenting..romantic at heart . good libido. Looking for similar . Few drinks lots of fun no dramas. Who knows where it goes.

INDY, 35 from Hamilton, Waikato

No strings attached simple fuck n days it

RIKKI, 21 from Atiamuri, Waikato

Rikki has yet to add his profile. Ask Rikki for more info.

INDY, 35 from Hamilton, Waikato

Indy has yet to add his profile. Ask Indy for more info.

MICHAEL, 81 from Nelson South, Nelson

with sixty years of Karma Sutra experience you wont know what your missing until you try me !!!!

ALEX, 67 from Auckland, Auckland

Alex winked at you (yesterday at 10:37am)

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