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LALABANANAX, 38 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Lalabananax has yet to add her profile.

ROSS, 46 from Epsom, Auckland

Mature 46.i don't talk rubbish or lie.i dislike confrontations.jealousy.and gossip. I live 30 minutes south of Auckland. Enjoy talk and as I have no wife or girlfriend, hideing in the garden shed

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 10:42am) Kerry winked at you (Tuesday at 5:47pm) Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)

LALA, 49 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Small, active open to new friends, to enjoy fitness, fun, play, pleasure ..... looking for causal, no strings .....Wanting to try wild situation while be hired ie, being the cleaners, that's bent over the table fucked, or a topless hairdresser ..... like to play with toys, extra friends ... like to be sub, interested in learning more about it ....... Need a deep throat teacher also ........ exercise classes a good escape .........

KEENTODO, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Keentodo sent you a message: "Happy new year Jane" (Thursday at 3:49am) Keentodo sent you a message: "Hey there" (21st Dec '16 at 1:11am)

MARY, 54 from Auckland, Auckland

GSH essential... I'm fun and spontaneous. Love to laugh. Love to go out to restaurants and bars as well as curled up on the sofa watching a movie. If you wish to know more message me and I'll gladly answer

TELB, 38 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

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WILL, 50 from Auckland, Auckland

Manly and friendly, sex hungry professional looking for horny goddess 'to fill my diary' - day or night! I'm not here for a long time but a good time.

GRANT, 43 from Shannon, Wellington

Love to explore the female form and am a generous lover. Interested to see what out there, and open to any possibilities. Would like to have some fun, I'm a very sexual person and like to have sex regularly although I guess ultimately it would be nice to find someone who I could settle down with and live happily together in our little love nest.

BEN, 38 from Southland

Hi Wairarapa people , drop me a msg ..

KOLINIO, 38 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

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DICKENSIAN, 36 from Southland

Hey there. I can't guarantee you that we already have a lot in common - but if you read on and find out we do - you should message me! I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same. It would be nice to have someone who would enjoy going to Movies,Church,beach,Shopping place,Reastaurant etc... and of course trying out local eateries. There's nothing like a good dinner and then going for a walk with a great companion at sunset! But it's give and take too, and I won't complain when you take me along shopping at the mall or while I sit in the waiting room when you get your nails done. :) I understand that being together is the most important part of a relationship no matter what we are doing (besides communication, of course). I'd like to think I'm a simple-no baggage guy. I have a great career, but my biggest weakness is probably to much caring and honest. I'm now looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I've been in a relation twice, so I'm pretty sure it won't kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I'm totally OK with that. You had to leave him in order to find me right? :) Anyways I think I wrote enough for now. Anything else feel free to ask or save for the first date ;) Don't be bashful!

JOHN, 48 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

John winked at you (Friday at 6:52am)

TTAN, 39 from Southland

Ttan sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Ttan winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)

ALLEY, 33 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Happily married and comfortable with hubby having fantasies which i have come to realise that after 14yrs its ok to spice things up jus a So looking for man toy or lady toy to play with and im not talk dildo baggins/vibratornator lol About me: Well im not boney, blonde or made up with makeup like barbie, im a curvacious maori/hawaiian maidan, long black hair, brown eyes..A little shy but warms up quickly n relaxes, ready to have to some N.S.A funtimes!!! All in the safe viewing of hubby front row bedside hehehe...

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (Monday at 1:06am)

ARBE, 38 from Auckland, Auckland

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LANI, 30 from Southland

Im a naughty girl with a bad man who likes to see me being pleasured and enjoyed by other like minded dirty individuals.. pre de tour by nature ill submit to dick like a good little girl and miss behave like a filthy little whore.. were all out adventurous and open to any worthy propersitions..

MARE, 34 from Southland

Nice guy, very respectful and funny

MAURICE, 61 from Pukekohe, Auckland

I am 59 years young looking for some fun I am one of those guys who likes to buy a lady flowers an sexy thingings to wear treat like a specail person an I am a romantic it is nice to cuddle up I am not sure what else to say

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