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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Casual dating in Southland

Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Southland for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

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BILL, 49 from Southland

Just a genuine normal guy. Back on the market after 20 year's. Out meet new people. Out to explore this new world an experience all exciting things it has to offer.

JIMBRUCE, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Jimbruce winked at you (Friday at 1:17am) Jimbruce winked at you (12th Apr at 2:14am) Jimbruce winked at you (5th Apr at 1:13am) Jimbruce winked at you (2nd Apr at 7:27am) Jimbruce winked at you (1st Apr at 9:03pm)

ANDRE, 23 from Longburn, Manawatu-Wanganui

Here for casual fun.....

BABY, 30 from Nelson, Nelson

Lady in the streets and a freak in the bed

ROBBIE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Robbie sent you a message: "." (27th Mar at 3:16am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (18th Mar at 9:22am)

CHELSEA, 35 from Southland

Hi people. I am an open minded girl and life is short so I am hoping to have some extra fun. Feel the need for some adventure and enjoy a good fucking. Too many favourite positions to list....

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

ANDRE, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Andre sent you a message: "???" (4th Apr at 9:15am)

JELTE, 39 from Dunedin, Otago

Jelte has yet to add his profile. Ask Jelte for more info.

NICK, 31 from Southland

I love having sex outdoors , getting naked when its raining and having some fun with someone in a random place. spontaneous sex ..... love it

JONATHAN, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

SCOTTIE, 40 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Just curious truka lookin for a chat n maybe more

HONE, 28 from Southland

Let's see what happens

HAWNYAZZ, 25 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm here for some fun;)..cute polynesian guy lol holla if ur in the Auckland area...

JESS, 23 from Massey East, Auckland

Chunky girl need fun :-)

GLENN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi, I am after some discrete intimacy with a like-minded woman - preferrably married. My wife lost interest in sex after kids came along, but I still have the sex drive I had in my 20's. Ha! I just had a look at the list of 'interests' and didn't even know what most of them were! There is so much I would like to try and be taught...are you up for teaching me?? I am fit and athletic, go to the gym regularly, healthy, clean and completely drug/smokefree. Drop me a message and I will get back to you. I often travel out of Auckland so distance isn't really a problem. Thanks, Glenn xx

ERIN, 42 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ask and I might tell. Looking for very mature male, male/female to have discreet fun with. Would prefer over 70. I want to be pampered. Keen interest in massage...mainly receiving Im not looking for a life long committment but will consider a permanent long term play couple/thing . Married but lacking the most important aspect of human nature....touch

PREET, 27 from Auckland, Auckland

Preet has yet to add his profile. Ask Preet for more info.

DAVE, 37 from Southland

Hi there I like to play and party - up for anything really - I hope you are too :) I am on here to meet some hot chicks and hook up love having sex in new places with new people - there's always a bit of excitement when someone might catch you :) I am also well hung and love to fuck All the best - look forward to your messages :)

BLADEZ, 42 from Levin, Manawatu-Wanganui

Bladez has yet to add his profile. Ask Bladez for more info.

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For that extra little incentive, we're automatically upgrading the memberships of any women who register with us to our full Premium Status, allowing them to receive and send messages without any limits whatsoever. Why? Well we're all here for a good time, so let's make sure there's plenty of people here at the party!

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