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Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl...

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Looking for someone to have fun with until I've reached my limits. Really want to try two at a time if I get the chance :)

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