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After a while a long term relationship can sometimes loose something in the bedroom department. Whether you're looking for something discrete with another person to re-light your flame or want to add someone to the bedroom we can help you find them.


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It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

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ROD, 56 from Cromwell, Otago

Hi. I work in the Entertainment business. I used to do Cabaret and Variety shows both Live and on TV, but now mainly write Radio, TV, and Movie scripts, as with the powers of the Internet these days I can do all this from Home ! I enjoy going out of good meals, travelling ,and having sex. All of these are very important to me. I could write a lot more, but I think this will do for starters !

JOHN, 60 from Pirimai, Hawke's Bay

All Im looking for is a little afternoon delight no strings or comebacks Im no to bothered about size. Shape. Colour. Age. Etc. Weather you look like the photo in your profile or not. As long as you are happy sexy clean Loving I am an older person. So I take my time. I love foreplay and leaving my Lady happy satisfied Im very Discreet as I want my lady to be Discreet to

MARK, 62 from Tokoroa, Waikato

Enjoy sensual touch giving and recieving. I'm married and in a genuine open relationship that has grown stronger over the last 35years so i'm not looking for a wife. Love meeting new people and enjoying their company sometimes that leads to some very sensual encounters and other times a great friendship. Try to enjoy life and not worry about what others think. Would like to meet a lady/ladies who are happy in their own skin and will except that my relationship with my wife won't change.( you can use me then send me home)

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