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STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "I hope you can imagine this. A..." (Wednesday at 6:59am) Steve winked at you (Wednesday at 6:58am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 4:14am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 1:13am) Steve winked at you (12th Feb at 7:45am)

CHRIS, 56 from Papamoa, Bay Of Plenty

Active older guy looking for some clean fun with a like minded woman

KINKY, 21 from Manurewa, Auckland

Kinky has yet to add her profile.

NEAL, 41 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi I'm neal, I'm looking for some casual fun and great conversation. No judgement here, I'm open to all sizes, age and race.

ECUPSKINKY, 25 from South

Ecupskinky has yet to add her profile.

KATIE, 30 from South

Looking for discretion. Have a very high libido so try to keep up :)

RACHAEL, 33 from South

Honest type person like to hangout have some fun outdoors less complicated the better could lead to more see how things go

WINNIE, 24 from Hamilton, Waikato

Winnie sent you a message: "Here For Nsa Fun Causal Discre..." (Friday at 12:15pm)

BRIGITTE, 50 from Westown, Taranaki

I like having fun

GRANT, 49 from Manaia, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

RHYS, 23 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Rhys has yet to add his profile. Ask Rhys for more info.

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (4th May at 1:52am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (3rd May at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (29th Apr at 12:19am)

FOREPLAYS, 29 from South

I will start by holding you close so that i can feel your soft body touching, then i will start kissing on your soft neck while moving my hands on your soft body, then i will start teasing and more..... I am into couple swaping, threesomes, role play (dominant) ;)

MARK, 51 from Orewa, Auckland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

STEVE, 56 from South

Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot lady is how I like to spend my spare time. So really it's a No strings Fuck buddy for now and see where things go.

JOHN, 49 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

John sent you a message: "Hi" (Thursday at 6:39am)

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)

RICHARD, 44 from Waverley, Southland

Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Tuesday at 7:47am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Monday at 8:23am)

BRUCE, 56 from Te Puke, Bay Of Plenty

Seperated, free to do whatever. Happy for sure. All options considered. Cheers Bruce

LUCKY, 31 from Grafton, Auckland

Lucky winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

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