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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current South based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Every day of the week, new members sign up in search of some sexual excitement, passionate affair or just someone to chat to. Whatever your tastes, experience or lifestyle choice, our huge database and easy to use search features will get you connected with people who share the same needs and desires as yourself.

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JON, 57 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Jon sent you a message: "Hi from Wellington" (Friday at 12:53pm)

JORDAN, 25 from Manakau, Auckland

I love having fun with my family and friends, I play tag and rugby league , I work hard and party harder , lol if you would like to know more feel free to ask :)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Luke winked at you (1st Feb at 1:07am)

SURF, 41 from Auckland, Auckland

Surf winked at you (12th Apr at 11:19am)

JAMES, 68 from South

Jimmy, x military pilot,,airforce, navy,Vietnam vet,home lake edge lake rotoiti, 33ft launch on jetty,spa,sauna, cruising, fishing, nookie,o/nighting on launch remote bay bbqs,have some battle scars but on outside not inside!!! Successful businessman.

MAX, 58 from Albany, Auckland

Max winked at you (25th Mar at 6:47pm)

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris winked at you (22nd Jan at 8:58am)

CAMPBELL, 65 from South

I am a 65 year old man, young at heat who loves to laugh. I am happily married with a wonderful wife, but we have not had sex for many years. So, with her understanding I am looking for a fuck buddy to complete my life. I love to play, tease, receive GIVE oral. I know how to satisfy a woman, but don't expect marathons. Discretion expected, and guaranteed this end.

SAM, 29 from South

Sam winked at you (22nd Mar at 12:06am)

LEE, 48 from Takanini, Auckland

Lee sent you a message: "Don't be shy" (yesterday at 1:12am) Lee winked at you (yesterday at 1:08am)

WILL, 46 from South

A well payed working man who needs a good woman to have fun with now n then! My place or yours..it's not a problem!

MASON, 28 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Mason has yet to add his profile. Ask Mason for more info.

PAUL, 58 from South

Paul winked at you (24 minutes ago) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

SCOTTIE, 40 from South

Scottie sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:17am) Scottie winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)

SNIPERS, 42 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking for excitment and adventure, a escape from daily life, would be great to meet someone for some hot horny fun

PAT, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Pat sent you a message: "Are you keen." (4th Feb at 1:14am) Pat winked at you (4th Feb at 1:12am)

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia winked at you (Thursday at 1:00am) Bohemia winked at you (Wednesday at 1:43am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia winked at you (16th Jan at 6:05am)

STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "Hi Janes." (Friday at 1:46am) Steve winked at you (Friday at 1:31am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi Jane." (Thursday at 1:09am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi jane" (Monday at 8:57pm) Steve winked at you (Monday at 8:56pm)

CRAIG, 54 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Very kinky love bondage and cross dressing looking for what ever!!

KELLY, 28 from South

Kelly winked at you (23rd Jan at 8:29am)

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Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

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