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BOB, 46 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Hi, I am looking for new adventures, knowing new landscapes, people, and tastes. My philosophy is that we have to provide our best for each other because our time for happiness is limited. I used to be a sportsman and still have some strengths. I am looking for an age appropriate relationship, but openness for experiments and kind personality are the most important factors. I am discrete, clean and reliable.

MARE, 34 from Waitakere, Auckland

Nice guy, very respectful and funny

HUGH, 53 from Saint Clair, Otago

be happy weekend and nice away weekend

DICKENSIAN, 36 from Hamilton West, Auckland

Hey there. I can't guarantee you that we already have a lot in common - but if you read on and find out we do - you should message me! I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same. It would be nice to have someone who would enjoy going to Movies,Church,beach,Shopping place,Reastaurant etc... and of course trying out local eateries. There's nothing like a good dinner and then going for a walk with a great companion at sunset! But it's give and take too, and I won't complain when you take me along shopping at the mall or while I sit in the waiting room when you get your nails done. :) I understand that being together is the most important part of a relationship no matter what we are doing (besides communication, of course). I'd like to think I'm a simple-no baggage guy. I have a great career, but my biggest weakness is probably to much caring and honest. I'm now looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I've been in a relation twice, so I'm pretty sure it won't kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I'm totally OK with that. You had to leave him in order to find me right? :) Anyways I think I wrote enough for now. Anything else feel free to ask or save for the first date ;) Don't be bashful!

TELB, 38 from South

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LANI, 30 from Auckland, Auckland

Im a naughty girl with a bad man who likes to see me being pleasured and enjoyed by other like minded dirty individuals.. pre de tour by nature ill submit to dick like a good little girl and miss behave like a filthy little whore.. were all out adventurous and open to any worthy propersitions..

WILL, 50 from Auckland, Auckland

Manly and friendly, sex hungry professional looking for horny goddess 'to fill my diary' - day or night! I'm not here for a long time but a good time.

MARY, 54 from Auckland, Auckland

GSH essential... I'm fun and spontaneous. Love to laugh. Love to go out to restaurants and bars as well as curled up on the sofa watching a movie. If you wish to know more message me and I'll gladly answer

UMUSTBFIFTY, 40 from Browns Bay, Auckland

Here's your chance to describe yourself in your own words. Remember to make it interesting, around 100 - 150 words. This is a good opportunity to tell other members about you and what you are looking for in a partner

ROSS, 46 from South

Mature 46.i don't talk rubbish or lie.i dislike confrontations.jealousy.and gossip. I live 30 minutes south of Auckland. Enjoy talk and as I have no wife or girlfriend, hideing in the garden shed

BEN, 38 from Masterton, Wellington

Hi Wairarapa people , drop me a msg ..

ADRIAN, 30 from Grafton, Auckland

Adrian sent you a message: "Heya!" (9th Apr at 8:11am)

KOLINIO, 38 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

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JONO, 54 from South

I am a good looking, well hung experienced Dom. I am on the lookout for a sub to share some safe and sane kink experiences on a regular basis. I am an oral devotee, and have been told on numerous occasions that I am excellent at eating pussy and ass tee hee. If you are inexperienced, I am happy to teach you the joys of kink in a safe environment with the upmost discretion. If you want an a play session that will spin your wheels, message me :-) Cheers Jono x

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (23rd Apr at 8:58pm) Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm)

PAULO, 70 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Paulo sent you a message: "Jane," (yesterday at 5:49am)

MAURICE, 61 from Pukekohe, Auckland

I am 59 years young looking for some fun I am one of those guys who likes to buy a lady flowers an sexy thingings to wear treat like a specail person an I am a romantic it is nice to cuddle up I am not sure what else to say

LALA, 49 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Small, active open to new friends, to enjoy fitness, fun, play, pleasure ..... looking for causal, no strings .....Wanting to try wild situation while be hired ie, being the cleaners, that's bent over the table fucked, or a topless hairdresser ..... like to play with toys, extra friends ... like to be sub, interested in learning more about it ....... Need a deep throat teacher also ........ exercise classes a good escape .........

KEENTODO, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Keentodo sent you a message: "Happy new year Jane" (Thursday at 3:49am) Keentodo sent you a message: "Hey there" (21st Dec '16 at 1:11am)

BOB, 44 from South

Bob winked at you (7th Jan at 1:21am) Bob sent you a message: "is jane up for some fun?" (6th Jan at 1:46am) Bob winked at you (5th Jan at 1:18am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (4th Jan at 1:51am) Bob winked at you (3rd Jan at 1:27am)

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