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GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Its nice you are still looking..." (yesterday at 2:08am) George winked at you (yesterday at 1:05am) George sent you a message: "Role playing" (12th Jan at 3:05am) George sent you a message: "you are a mystery" (10th Jan at 8:45pm) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane do you want some NSA ..." (6th Jan at 3:41am)

PETER, 76 from Southland

Sex - I haven't been played with for years

STU, 33 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hi! Im an active, adventurous and fun loving kinda guy. With a big love of the outdoors. Into sports, nature and the arts to say a few.

PHL, 60 from Carterton, Wellington

I am told I do have a good sense of humour I do like a good laugh at times. I am mostly happily married apart from one area..... it doesn't take a genius to work out what area that is, therefore I'm hoping for a fling (or two or three) I will for sure be very nervous at a first meeting until I get to know you.... but after that....

JOHN, 67 from Southland

looking for a sexy granny for some fun, love to lick pussy and make you cum, let me know so I can make you

FRASER, 31 from Christchurch, Canterbury

NSA or just hang out not fussed no drama

BILL, 78 from Southland

i REALLY WOULD LIKE TO EYE BALL YOU WHEN IT SUITS. bILL

JONATHAN, 53 from Southland

Jonathan winked at you (Monday at 1:44am) Jonathan winked at you (10th Jan at 2:22am) Jonathan added you as a Favourite (10th Jan at 2:21am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi jane" (9th Jan at 1:14am)

HENRY, 69 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Henry sent you a message: "Gidday" (11th Apr at 4:26am)

TAY, 20 from Southland

Tay has yet to add his profile. Ask Tay for more info.

KELLY, 28 from Southland

Kelly has yet to add his profile. Ask Kelly for more info.

DON, 46 from Southland

i am ready real fun time !!

MICHAEL, 49 from Birkenhead, Auckland

I am a European male, clean discrete, clean shaven. Polite and have manners, just need a little excitement in my life again. Live on the Shore

RICHARD, 49 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Richard winked at you (yesterday at 1:22am) Richard sent you a message: "...." (Saturday at 6:50pm)

PAUL, 38 from Southland

Just a lad looking to spend lots of quality time with a lady.. how about it?

PAULO, 69 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Paulo winked at you (Sunday at 1:18am)

HOND, 32 from Helensville, Auckland

Ready for anyone interested

MARK, 51 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi there. I am an easy going independent person. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm a slim build. Grown up kids. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I have lots of interests including music and biking. Also guitar but I'm pretty bad at it! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants a proper ravaging (in a nice way!), perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapiti areas. Discretion is fine if needed. Drop me a note and say hi, and we'll see how it goes from there :)

SHANE, 48 from Auckland, Auckland

Shane winked at you (7th Jan at 5:07pm) Shane sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (6th Jan at 2:05am)

JAY, 27 from Auckland, Auckland

looking for no string attached fun. Keen to try various activities so i am open to all options :) I am a gym regular who like to keep in shape and take good care of myself.

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