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For many people, a serious relationship or long term commitment just aren't what they want. The reasons for this vary from being too busy with a demanding career, being fresh out of a long term relationship and not wanting to jump back into another one to simply enjoying lots of sex with different partners. My Bed or Yours offers a safe service that helps you find sex partners close to you. All of our members are actively looking for casual fun so you'll be able to find a partner looking for the same things as you. Finding a sexy girl or guy is easy. You can search for people in Elim or search nationwide then arrange to meet for sex with no complications, commitment or drama.

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A quick online search will return thousands of adult dating services, free online personals and a loads of hook up apps but how do you know which ones to trust? We have been in the business for a long time and have seen many adult dating sites come and go over the years. The downfall of many of them is poor customer service, a disregard for the security or members personal details or simple fraudulent behaviour like fake user profiles and activity to encourage membership upgrades. We do not believe in these practices. Everyone you meet on My Bed or Yours is a genuine member looking to either meet other members for sex or the find people for some innocent flirting or one on one cam sex. Our dedicated membership support team is available seven days a week either by email or phone. If you are not 100% satisfied, you can call up, speak to a real person and request a no-quibble refund. We can't say fairer than that.

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That's right. Every female member who registers for a free profile gets instantly upgraded to premium membership giving them unlimited messaging so they can send and receive as many messages as they like any time of day or night. This is just another way we go the extra mile to ensure all our members are completely satisfied. After all, what's the point of a sex contacts site with no women?

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Nico, 48 from Witbank, Mpumalanga

l am LOOKING FOR NSA FUN no strings

Gerda, 51 from Elim, Western Cape

We are a married couple who loves to live out our fantasies and we enjoy the excitement and adrenalin rush that nsa fun brings along.We are not into chatting but rather to meet people and have good juicy same room sex.Regrets, no one on one encounters and whites only.

Nichole, 34 from Durbanville, Western Cape

I'm looking for a normal guy. To have regular sex.

Tinkie, 42 from Brits, North West

ME AND BF LOOKING FOR COUPLES,LADIES AND MEN TO JOIN US FOR KINKY FUN....only whites pls!!!!

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