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Anna, 54 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

ok Iam looking for a straight guy, please no womanisers, a guy who is wise, single and would like to share some special moments. I don't know if this is the right site, but I would really like to meet someone and perhaps fall in love with? U might think me old fashioned, but who knows there might be a guy out there who would like the same?

Jayme, 31 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

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Amber, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I'm married so all we do will be between us and the sheets! Won't take too much of your time but will make it worthwhile. Make me laugh and unwind while I make you lose yourself.

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