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Samantha, 51 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Looking for fun times. Regret that I will not reply to anyone who is not within my ethnic group and no over 50's

Tasha, 33 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Hi So I have been on this site for about 6 weeks and it's been interesting to say the least, I'm going to give it one more go before I give up lol So a bit about myself I'm fun easy going spontaneous I get along with most people and don't take people at face value, I'm a little shy when I first meet someone but once I'm comfy with you and get to know you better all shyness disappears, because I'm newish to PE I don't know how to meet new people I'm not a sit in a...

Faldelah, 38 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Well let me say I'm on a dating site but seem its one big site with lots of sites I'm not looking for a one night stand or a 1hour cheap hotel thing so if you that guy move on I'm a bbw lady not bad looking and I'm her to date or just meet up for supper or a movie don't like a cheap man so if you are cheap don't chat to me I'll just ignore your msg I'm not being nasty just being open and honest

Dilyne, 23 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

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