Welcome to South Africa's sex contacts website

Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange their most intimate thoughts and desires. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.

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If you have made it this far, you are probably interested in meeting local fuck buddies in Theresapark or maybe further afield. Don't be shy, sign up for a free trial account and take a look around today.

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Get started instantly with our free, quick sign up form. Simply enter your details to got instant access to genuine, horny singles in South Africa and see how easy it really is to find casual sex, local affairs and one night stands in Theresapark or anywhere else in South Africa for that matter.

We like to be different

A quick internet search will return thousands of adult personals websites, how do you know who to trust? We have been in the business for a long time and have seen many adult dating site come and go over the years. The downfall of many of them is poor customer service, a disregard for the security or members personal details or simple fraudulent behaviour like fake user profiles and activity to encourage membership upgrades. We do not believe in these practices. Everyone you meet on My Bed or Yours is a genuine member looking to either meet other members for sex or the find people for some harmless online flirting or web cam sessions. Our dedicated membership support team is available online. If you are not satisfied, you can speak to a real person and request a no-quibble refund. We can't say fairer than that.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

• Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
• Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
• Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

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