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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Western Cape safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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Cleo, 41 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

We all know what we are looking for, so not to waste either your or my time here are some guidelines: Men ages 39 - 55 I will not reply to messages with no profile picture, Only Caucasian men please, also taller than 1,78m....oh if you have a 6-pack, that scores extra points,......... About me: I am looking for discreet relationship, not one night stands. A man who knows how to treat a woman and appreciates a woman. Important thing to me is hygiene, I look after my body and expect the same from my partner. I enjoy the whole part of foreplay, but seduction is an art. I like to be in control at times, but need a partner who knows when to take control back,.... I can be impulsive and spontaneous, and also enjoy long slow hot sessions.

Ruben, 47 from Durban North, Kwazulu-Natal

No lies, no false pretences, no promises, no moonlight and roses......just a great time in bed. If you've never totally been satisfied in every possible way before this, then let's chat

Andre, 50 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Outgoing love pets and nature and like to go dance and enjoy with friends

Soso, 32 from East London, Eastern Cape

Hi there boys,Im matured,good looking and very naughty. So if you know u'r story then talk to me....oh I prefer swinging & 3some's...so you best have your woman coz I will be with my man.

Joel, 25 from Western Cape

I am a typical nerd a ravenous sexual appetite. I'm looking for something very casual yet satisfying to both parties. I have only known the pleasures of one woman and I feel like I'm missing out. I hope to meet like minded individuals interested in casual encounters

Meruza, 38 from Pietersburg, Limpopo

I a single lady at my late forties I' love , outdoor Life and outgoing, I want to get laid so hard by a guy who can make me cum many times and squirt if possible

Mechelle, 34 from Pietersburg, Limpopo

I am a big girl looking to have some fun

Jeanette, 67 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

Ek is 'n Afrikaans sprekende, alleenlopende vrou wat n alleenlopende (non attached), nie rokende, man soek wat naby my bly om op 'n gereelde basis te kuier en om mee uit te gaan, na flieks, braais, ens. om die eensaamheid te verdryf. Nie noodwendig om te trou/of saambly nie. Maar ek soek ook nie one night stands nie. Hy moet hou van cuddle ens. Ek bly in 'n Estate langs Roodeplaat dam waar die diere tussen die huise rondloop en hier is nie eintlik mense van my ouderdom om te ontmoet nie. Ek stap elke dag en kry gewoonlik bokke, zebras en af en toe kameelperde op my roete, maak my eie gesondheids kosse. Hou daarvan om meer van die rekenaar te leer, werk in my klein tuintjie, groei so bietjie van my eie groente, en kyk TV.

Lianne, 45 from Sandton, Gauteng

Play with me! Definitely a good idea!

Saads, 32 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm vibrant fun and confident. I keep fit and work out..Love pleasure..I have no hang ups and not clingy. I want to meet Caucasian individuals that are good looking,open minded, sexy, athletic or muscular physique with a relative amount of substance and personality . You should have class and confidence. .i will be unapologetic for implementing these filters. Please do not ms me if you do not fall within the above factors...I am not here to settle .....I'm here to make hot steamy fantasies with hot ppl. .. any abs and vee muscles will get preference..

Jannie, 37 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Jannie has yet to add his profile. Ask Jannie for more info.

King, 25 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Mmmm what can I say.. first I'm not so good with words as far as I know. But I would like to believe that I'm a fun, loving n respectful guy who knows how to treat and satisfy a woman. Love meeting new people and experience new things. Looking for nsa fun or a long-term friend with benefits.

Shazz, 24 from Mamelodi, Gauteng

I won't say looking but wondering about a mature(not old) man with a sensitive mind and down to earth, looking for an affair of essence and true friendship. Who values respect and know how to treat a woman... did I mention grounded? yeah I think that's it, does he exists?

Vicky, 35 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Here for fun:) I'm fuller figured with lots of energy and passion. I love to spend time with someone pleasuring each other in whatever way we need. I can travel but not accommodate at all. Maybe a quicky in the office? Or hours in a secret bed somewhere? I have the time if you have the stadium... Guys, don't leave your profiles blank. Tell me what it is you prefer and what you want. If it says 'so and so hasn't updated their profile yet...' What must a woman make of that? Tell me what you want, what you like and how you want it. I'm not interested in cyber porn or skype. I want touching and feeling and actual sex. Kissing, licking etc. So unless you live nearby, no point in contacting me please:) Happy hunting everyone. X

Eunice, 55 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am God fearing woman I am not perfect woman but who is striving to perfection, i believe in trust, honesty , good communication, respect, compliment ,forgiveness and many more. I believe that in the thins I have mentioned starts with me for example I I don't respect myself how do I respect someone.so these I some of my values if you fear God that will make you respect other human being ,I am looking for a right partner who believes in the same values i am not here to play games if you are God's send please drop me any email and we can start chatting

Marietjie, 44 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I would like to think of myself as a classy lady, yet I am a T-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I have a good self image, and I think that I'm not to bad looking for my age. Sexy, good looking younger men gets me spicy hot. The wildest thing that I've ever done is having sex with my husband on the balcony of our holiday flat. Please message me, maybe I could make one of your fantasies come true as well.

Poison, 26 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Hiiii all I'm not a straight girl but I am lesbian who likes to make friends and sometime do stuff with only if I feel like it I live in pta, east lynn...

Marietjie, 44 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I would like to think of myself as a classy lady, yet I am a T-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I have a good self image, and I think that I am not too bad looking for my age. Sexy, good looking younger men gets me hot. The wildest thing that I've ever done is having sex with my husband on the balcony of our holiday flat.

Stella, 34 from Western Cape

Let's chat and see what happens

Nicole, 41 from Allen'S Nek, Gauteng

Intelligent, Feminine, Sensual, Sexy, Independent, cheeky, very honest and expect nothing less from a man. I enjoy masculine, adventurous and confident men. Only contact me, if you are very single, I don't do extra marital, nor side line. Please my preference is English speaking and Caucasian gents, who do have some intelligence, humour and know how to treat a woman in every sense of the word.

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