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Thembzee, 47 from Randfontein, Gauteng

Thembzee winked at you (Monday at 5:32pm)

Kc, 29 from Western Cape

Kc added you as a Favourite (Saturday at 5:45pm)

Smonz, 39 from Germiston, Gauteng

Smonz has yet to add her profile.

Lux, 29 from Western Cape

I want to have hot steamy.......pls note my preference is white and Indian men only.

Cleo, 28 from Moreletapark, Gauteng

looking for discreet fun. around Pretoria. Let's c whr this leads and enjoy it. I'm very open minded and independent but enjoy a gud time. But it needs to b discreet Only black guys

Hopem, 33 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Juss need some good time...

Lalie, 50 from Western Cape

Im looking for some one that can appreciate my face and a good conversation

Shannon, 30 from Bedfordview, Gauteng

I'm looking for nsa fun and friendship. I'm looking for men aged 28-39 only. White, single men only. This this my preference. Please respect my preferences. I respect yours

Loveydovey, 26 from Strubens Valley, Gauteng

I might talk alot but am shy.I am playful.you wouldn't hold a serious conversation with me, I will joke about it or just go okay with everything you say.why should I always hold down a nice convo lol.let's laugh and be stupid.this is me.if you don't like it move over.I have extra meat everywhere.i like receiving lol i lost my sex drive maybe you can help me find it.hala at me if you think you can lol.you will be doing me.I won't be doing you lol..be honest and tell me how it was and I will do the same.if bn honest is hard for you f off lol.love you all.

George, 40 from Western Cape

I am a fun loving guy, a little shy till I get to know you. I also enjoy naughty chats, outdoor sex, role play and more. Recently divorced from a sex starved marriage.

Amber, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I'm married so all we do will be between us and the sheets! Won't take too much of your time but will make it worthwhile. Make me laugh and unwind while I make you lose yourself.

Charmi, 53 from Western Cape

I'm a kind friendly woman

Molebogeng, 29 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Molebogeng has yet to add her profile.

Shania, 45 from Rivonia, Gauteng

HI guys, I am a Transgender girl, please guys not a she male there is a veery big difference. I was born this way. It was not a choice. Anyhow why am I here. Honestly I don't know Lol!. Guess I am looking for a loving relationship or even just great friends. I am a very loving and loyal person, down to earth and full of fun, I have a great sense of humor. I am very social and love being around people. I love the outdoors and very family orientated. Also love animals and playing the piano. Please guys if you only want to chat because you are just curious about a Transgender girl, please rather use Google. Luv and hugs. Shania

David, 31 from Western Cape

I am your Guy Next door. NSA sex with Lots of fun , Feeling safe around me is guaranteed Would prefer ages from above my age , or same , I will fulfill your wildest dreams Ready to give someone lots of fun if you can keep me around Mature Ladies ONLY(I believe they understand life concepts with the level of maturity)

Alicat, 31 from Western Cape

I'm looking for a discreet relationship. Not into playing games either.

Casper, 56 from Centurion, Gauteng

Love to play with my tongue all over, oral, and doggy style, looking for NSA encounters

Karin, 48 from Centurion, Gauteng

Single female, looking to have some uncomplicated fun with 1 partner. No married men No black men

Yenzi, 36 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I'm sweet, lovely and love being in a "company" of a neat, matured and strong African gentleman. I don't believe in NSA but I don't want a very serious relationship, I'd love to chat and check up on you since I have a caring personality, we can dine out and talk. If you have same interests.

Catharina, 56 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Am a big woman with a warm personality, and insatiable sexual appetite. No married men please.

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