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Taylor, 36 from Western Cape

Straight to the point and as subtle as a sledgehammer. No married men and Caucasian men only. Anybody younger than me need not message me. Kindly respect my personal preferences.

Natalie, 23 from Western Cape

I'm a young African girl and I'm a university student. An introvert who loves food. Bookworm too! I'm just looking for some fun and I'm interested in white guys :)

Hannelie, 39 from Boksburg, Gauteng

Here to meet likeminded guys and girls for NSA adult fun ... MMF and MFF threesomes. Guys must be well hung, 17cm+ ...

Melody, 41 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I like to play

Bee, 35 from Paarl, Western Cape

I'm a single down to earth, know what i want lady. Hygiene is highly important to me and i expect it from the person ill be with, I want one regular well hung friend , if you not that person dont waste my time and yours. I love the outdoors , hiking, camping generally life itself .Unfortunatly i dont host. Hope there will be someone out there wanting the same.

Happiness, 30 from Tembisa, Gauteng

Happiness has yet to add his profile. Ask Happiness for more info.

Sabre, 42 from Germiston, Gauteng

I am a down to earth person that like to live life and experience new things. Looking for a friend to have fun with and to spoil in the bedroom, to take time out and just enjoy.

Jhoanna, 33 from Douglas, Northern Cape

I am not your everyday type of woman...am too full of life and positive minded, I just want one caring and naughty man... let's just give it a try ;)

Carel, 67 from Kuruman, Northern Cape

........always nice to experiment!!!

Bestiana, 42 from Orange Grove, Gauteng

ABOUT ME- am black single curvey woman, clean,healthy, have a full time job,don't drink,don't smoke,searching for that special Single,any time anywhere guy,tall,clean,decent,professional,dress smart,stay alone, to be my regular fucked buddy, you must enjoy sex positions my favourites positions are THE RISiNG MISSIONARY ,THE SLIDE POSITION. Size doesn'tmatter, what matter is ,how you use it.let chat more .single guys please.

Eunice, 27 from Western Cape

Wat u see is wat u get dear but if u broke n stingy dont even think of wanting me to meet u or guys that will say please borrow money then i give u back thanks be a guy that can spend on me n i will keep ur bed spinning be a that knows his story please

Sassyd, 30 from Benoni, Gauteng

Decent lady looking for fun...

Niccirose, 25 from Western Cape

I am here to have fun and try new things.

Logan, 38 from Milnerton, Western Cape

Logan sent you a message: "Hi" (Wednesday at 4:52pm)

Nadia, 54 from Durbanville, Western Cape

I am a very feminine, intelligent woman looking for a fwb. I am well groomed and said to be attractive, with a great sense of humor. I prefer tall men, well groomed and intelligent and of course, very discreet. I am not into 3-somes or orgies, and anal is not for me. Age group 40 to 55, and please, if you cannot send a decent message, rather leave it. Let's see what happens ....

Issayonce, 23 from Four Ways, Gauteng

got off a four year relationship. Been single for 4 months now in trying to heal. However I can not feel sorry for myself all my life. I realise I have to dust myself and get up cause after all life goes on. I was sceptical coming online but I saw a couple who met on tinder get married and I believed theres hope when we waste "data" lol....oh that was not funny. I'd be lying if I say I want something serious. A coffee here and there would be sweet. I do have my reservations seeing the whole thing that's been happening in the country. Girls get killed so suddenly. Thus far every lil message has been sweet and overwhelming. I do hope our lil conversations will strengthen our friendship. God bless and safe cyber. Xx

Lynx, 50 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Creative artist and thinker. Yin and yang between introvert and extrovert. Would love to share good times with naughty relevant other.

Charmain, 50 from Western Cape

I'm a lady who loves oral sex, enjoys gardening, fast cars, love animals, looking for a young guy between 35 and 45 to join us for some fun, must have manners, knows how to treat a woman, well built, black hair, has tattoos, love tattoos

Andre, 49 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Middle aged man. Has a lot of fun to offset stressed job. Outdoor hobbies combined with academic interests. I play many different sports, all badly. Enjoy hiking , fishing , reading. Enjoy kinky sex in mild doses. My best sexy asset is my pierced dick, something different! Looking for ladies with similar fetish interests, to make up 3 sum

Ps, 31 from Centurion, Gauteng

Ps has yet to add her profile.

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