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Manglad, 46 from Alberton, Gauteng

Manglad winked at you (9th Feb at 8:50pm)

Fantazycatz, 49 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.

Jason, 49 from Benoni, Gauteng

White male looking for a white female for fun times...drama free....I am keen to meet someone to chat about any subject... or someone who enjoys a decent restaurant ....or someone who just wants nsa sex...or someone who wants all of the above...the person has to be White...apologies to other races but respect my wishes. In the Jo'burg area... I have no interest in flying to Durban/ Cape Town for a chat or a quickie. Thank you Ladies....Jason :)

Amanda, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Amanda has yet to add her profile.

Trish, 28 from Paarl, Western Cape

I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...

Sam, 47 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Here to see and experience what excites me.....not the boring normal stuff.... NSA please....no hangups and no bs.... Pls I do not cross the racial barrier ....just my personal preference . I try to stay in shape and prefer guys that look after themselves too. Good sense of humor, intelligent and easy going.... A FWB would be acceptable...since I don't like hopping from one guy to another.... ...this means I need you to be available after hours ( sorry no married men then).... I need a lot of your time......so not only once a week quick fuck either.... ........

Sharon, 25 from East London, Eastern Cape

Let love lead!!!

Jacky, 34 from Western Cape

I'm single African,independent hard working and fun.i enjoy reading and meeting people.I think I'm fun to be around ,wouldn't mind trying new things ,never shy to say No. I like gentlemen, respectful preferably professional, mature somebody. I am not after anybody s cash gentleman. This is me trying to own my pleasure. I'm here for fun.if you happen to do one or two things for me it's entirely your choice.

Alichia, 21 from Eastern Cape, Eastern Cape

Alichia has yet to add her profile.

Licious, 53 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.

Pv, 37 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

Pv has yet to add her profile.

Mariska, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

I am am a 31 year old woman living in Sandton, I have no children and am not married. I'm am interested in having an affair with a married man. I love to travel, and experience the finer things in life. I'm a fun girl to be with and am really good company. I'm very selective in who I spend time with. I'm looking for classy gentlemen age 40 to 55. I will not reply to anyone who don't meet my standards. PLEASE don't expect me to reply to your messages Immediatly. I will do so in my own time. Don't bother to message me if you under 40 or older than 55,unmarried or not half decent looking. I am not on here to look for just sex. I want to be friends first. I'm also not into any weird sex, fantasies or threesomes. I'm just a down to earth girl looking for company. And yes my photos are very much real.

Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Jennimatt, 32 from Western Cape

We are both 32...looking for white guys to have threesomes with. Nothing multi-racial please.

Jamie, 26 from Soweto, Gauteng

Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx

Zama, 26 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Zama has yet to add her profile.

Harley, 45 from Randburg, Gauteng

Laid back easy going crocodile castrator, interested in life, death and all the exciting stuff in-between. Looking for someone whose demons can play well with mine! So youre still here, great! Get in touch and who knows worst thing is that we each make a new friend or we hit it off and we have something that makes people around us wonder why we are smiling for no reason.

Nirvaan, 40 from North Riding, Gauteng

Nirvaan has yet to add his profile. Ask Nirvaan for more info.

Jules, 43 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am here to enjoy lots of sex and muffing from women of all races...

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

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