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Lisa, 43 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Lots of NSA attention to give to the right kinda man

Jonathan, 48 from Alberton, Gauteng

Hi my name is Jonathan Just want casual sex no relationship,although u never know,any race .Lets enjoy each other. Im good for anything that pleases a woman i love giving oral sex and im not a 15 minute guys lol i can go this distance and wont stop till my woman is satisfied,,so if u bored contact me i will satisfy u...i promise I love missionery style cos i love to hold my woman and hear her breathing and move in a perfect rythm together .If we connect we can see.... But for now if u wana have a nice sized cock to fill u.....its me. Im a gentleman and respect a womans opinion.Respect mine too please

Liz, 27 from Witbank, Mpumalanga

How Much Fun Can This Be? Sexy? Maybe more then sexy...! Hours of Fun... Naughty Action... The word sexiness comes to mind, that is what I want, soft, cute, nice, fun filled sexiness! Thinking of the wild side of it, how wild can this get? Want to explore, sexy - fun - laughter - wild- sense of humor - maybe some craziness - intense, wow the list can go on and on. Bring out the wild side of me and you. I am Witty, Cheeky and Very Straight forward, a happy girl with a wicked sense of humor!! Unexpected fun as I am not a big planner and don't like to over think... Fun will never make you the odd one out!! Lesson well learned from the site, be who YOU are, put away the seriousness and let go... If you can't be open, full of fun, then you are on the wrong site honey bun! ;-) I am not looking for a Romeo and Juliet love story, as I write my own memories and story! Yes, I am a over weight, but it doesn't mean that I am a bimbo with no class! You can buy a Barbie Doll at Reggies. ;-) !!! I can also do normal meaning, I like rugby, I love having a braai, I like to have a glass of wine when ever I feel like it, romantic nights when ever, where ever! So before I write a novel, drop me a line. NO what's app as my number is my privacy!! P.S. White Guys ONLY! ;-)

Cheryl, 44 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for someone to chat to, lets see what happens... Oh and watch your mouth, it can be used for more delicious activities. So here are my preferences, no offense intended. I feel its only right that I tell you. So here they are: Only men from 37 to 49yrs. No men of African descent. I appreciate a profile pic. Even the penis pics. There are so many on this site, they all starting to look the same.....lol.

Lerato, 26 from Centurion, Gauteng

lets have NSA fun..............

Noksy, 48 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Simple lady who loves laughing. Married but.... Would like to have a friend for chatting and more. A bit shy. Loves movies and reading

Kaya, 37 from Western Cape

I am clean black mature married professional guy who is very laid back and not pushy but very open minded and naughty too when required. Highly intelligent and can hold a decent conversation and looking for like minded lady for long term mutual relationship. Marital status and race not important Interested lets chat further.

Nicky, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

White young men only for NSA I am a high maintenance kind of lady. If your profile is fake do not message me I have no time for childish games.

Johannes, 46 from Alberton, Gauteng

I love having sex outdoors, with the risk of getting caught just adding to the excitement. If you fancy a tumble then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun." love experimenting in the bedroom and other places too. In fact the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned... any time, any place, any where... as the saying goes.

Leonie, 37 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I'm an outgoing, friendly woman that is looking for a regular NSA arrangement or once-off hook ups (if that is your preference). Please single WHITE men only - no married, separated or guys in relationships. And please guys, don't lie about your looks or your age- if I can put my real self out there, it's only fair that you do the same. No chancers please! Hope to hear from you soon ;-)

Cuan, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Cuan has yet to add his profile. Ask Cuan for more info.

Dee, 35 from Western Cape

Cool quite girl, enjoy wild sex, love reading & writing, watching movies. If you're up for a fantasy you've never had then hook me up

Bigd, 40 from Western Cape

NSA. Daytime One on one.

Petro, 47 from Gauteng, Gauteng

We are a married couple looking for some fun with other couples friendship , if you are married and lonesome do not both.er we are only intrested if you are a couple

Janine, 34 from Western Cape

Fun loving couple always exploring , we do everything with love and Awesomeness

Joanne, 52 from Klerksdorp, North West

I once had sex in my friends lounge, no doors..................... I would like to meet fun friends online that doesn't want strings attached. Chat only. No calls. No meetings yet. Yes im not single, but I do like to have sex, but "oupa" don't! I would like to get naughty online, and would like to talk to someone who cant see my face, and give him a dream of a blowjob!! The prize? If he tells me he had to go and clean up after he had a awesome orgasm!

Janey, 42 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have taken the time to write this.... Surely you can take the time to READ it!!! Looking to spice up my life. Need some excitement !! I love sex, i love the idea of meeting a stranger and having a good fuck. Experimenting and playing with toys is great !! I enjoy watching a guy touch himself. I have a bit of a naughty side and am a huge flirt, so be warned. I have a great sense of humor and I love to see that in another person .....so please show me yours. If you can laugh with me and most importantly laugh at yourself you most definitely have my attention. Seduce my mind and my body will follow. Please remember: Looks, size and ability DO NOT nullify common courtesy, even on an adult chat site !! I am financially independent and I expect the same. Life can be such a fantasy if you want it to be. I am not your Honey, Dear, Sweetie or Darling. Don't assign me 'pet-name' unless you get to know me first. Do NOT send me your BBM / Whatsapp / phone number / email / Satellite Dish Code / Dogs date of Birth. I will no contact you off site unless I get to know you first.... very well !!!

Audry, 42 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

WHITE Only.....MMF or FFM. Love it. CFNM, great, tease men, watch them in the heat of passion, playing with themself... Great. Hubby always to watch, but always love him to join. Any woman that whants a permanent lady friend, with occasional man to assist, this is the place to be. No complications or jealousy.

Janey, 31 from Cape Town, Western Cape

am a young sexy diva and wanna meet friend here and see how it goes am a student am honest, and i want to meet honest men here,i love to swim,i love to be kissed from head to my toes i love men to beg me for sex..i love to ride on men like a horse i love big cocks and love to be licked deep lol

Kinkyvixen, 31 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Hey there I am a care free and easy going girl looking for some laughs and fun. If you are keen pop in and say hello ;)

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