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Claudia, 39 from Randburg, Gauteng

Married bored and lonely looking for some fun please white men only sorry my preference

Carol, 48 from Western Cape

l prefer older mature men(50+ and white) One that takes control. They just know how to treat.a woman I was build for comfort not speed I like to role play I don't like skinny men. They must be able to keep me warm.

Nicole, 27 from Western Cape

Im a young lady , whose interested in having fun in and out of bed. A whore behind the closest doors yet a decent lady on a coffee table. I respect people's privacy so i deserve the same manner. Im very humorous, open minded yet very fussy very funny with nonsense. Strictly NSA

Rudie, 40 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

I am looking for a lover not just a wham bam. Yes I am married . I do not cross the racial barrier.

Eunice, 27 from Ermelo, Mpumalanga

Wat u see is wat u get dear but if u broke n stingy dont even think of wanting me to meet u or guys that will say please borrow money then i give u back thanks be a guy that can spend on me n i will keep ur bed spinning be a that knows his story please

Clark, 36 from Umhlanga Rocks, Kwazulu-Natal

Upmarket, easy going,decent guy... with a fun side :)

Tebogo, 24 from Western Cape

Extremely naughty,you gotta be extra naughty to reach my naughtiness level, imagine the fun .......xoxo

Khaya, 36 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Khaya has yet to add her profile.

Issayonce, 23 from Four Ways, Gauteng

got off a four year relationship. Been single for 4 months now in trying to heal. However I can not feel sorry for myself all my life. I realise I have to dust myself and get up cause after all life goes on. I was sceptical coming online but I saw a couple who met on tinder get married and I believed theres hope when we waste "data" lol....oh that was not funny. I'd be lying if I say I want something serious. A coffee here and there would be sweet. I do have my reservations seeing the whole thing that's been happening in the country. Girls get killed so suddenly. Thus far every lil message has been sweet and overwhelming. I do hope our lil conversations will strengthen our friendship. God bless and safe cyber. Xx

Mandy, 45 from Jan Kempdorp, North West

Looking for someone that also want an adventure. Whites only and really guys looking for fun. I am hot and always horny.

Craig, 35 from Randburg, Gauteng

Well hung by Asian standards.... Looking for a bit of excitement, chats amd possibly meet up

Johan, 43 from Highveld, Gauteng

Ek is n man wat hou van gesels met dames, lief vir sport. My vrou het ongelukig belangstelling verloor om intiem te verkeer. Wil graag iemand ontmoet wat graag wil fun he, ek is beskikbaar deur die dag vir diskrete fun, ek hou van massage gee en hou van bietjie eksperimenteer. Hou van ouer dames maar jong dames kan ook chat, wil graag stout wees, threesomes graag probeer. So ook om op snaakse plekke stout te wees. Ons kan ontmoet eers en dit daarvan af vat. Skoon diskrete fun.

Hannelie, 39 from Boksburg, Gauteng

Here to meet likeminded guys and girls for NSA adult fun ... MMF and MFF threesomes. Guys must be well hung, 17cm+ ...

Elmarie, 42 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Slowly building tension, feelings of raw emotions running up and down your body, release seeking explosions......captivating enticing expectations.....

Plunder, 54 from Western Cape

I'm just a normal straight guy that loves sex. I'm intelligent, discreet and very mobile. I love women that has a sexy mind and uninhibited.

Precious, 25 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Serious relationship with someone willing to be friends or get to know each other forehand Someone to take care of me.

Samu, 37 from Boksburg, Gauteng

I'm a lady looking for fun sex in bedroom I'm willing to learn new tricks. I wud love to meet a guy who knows his story who is willing to teach me new ways in bed someone who wi Give me all I've ever dreamed about in bed. I love all kinds of dicks as long as u know how to use it. U must be the one who will book the place and pay for it.drop me a line lets hook up guys.condom users only please

Riri, 26 from Claremont, Western Cape

I'm a big black girl looking for some excitement, sensual and passionate encounter with men who are into wanting other black women. I am wild, experimental, outgoing and in need of some spice that has been lacking lately and because I'm a single mom of 1, I hadn't had the time to indulge as much as I want... If you know how to pleasure a woman, love my chocolate curves, then hit me up. Extra points for those who love to be dominant in the bedroom. It's a huge turn on.

Linda, 26 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Im coloured Fun loving smart sexy outgoing en real. Into older white matured matured man. Should also have a goo dick game.

Charmain, 50 from Meyerton, Gauteng

I'm a lady who loves oral sex, enjoys gardening, fast cars, love animals, looking for a young guy between 35 and 45 to join us for some fun, must have manners, knows how to treat a woman, well built, black hair, has tattoos, love tattoos

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