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Phumi, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I like meeting new people and experiencing different characters. I am married, so I'm not looking for a boyfriend or husband. Just looking for interesting people to interact with. People who can hold a decent conversation and engage, at a basic human level. Open to meeting for the odd drink or lunch. I do not speak hip-hop and I can't read sms short-hand. Please dont bother contacting me if you are that kind of guy. Same goes for those with their privates on their profile pictures. I'd rather engage with a faceless guy than your "package".

Ahnutty, 32 from Maclear, Eastern Cape

Strait-talker, optimistics and naturally reserved. If itz kinkiness u looking for, um not da ideal person for dat

Thandeka, 28 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Im sweet cool friendly lady who likes to meet new people and make new friends im an easy going person

Delores, 51 from Four Ways, Gauteng

Discover what's going on in my head and you might just get to explore my body

Dossy, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Looking for great n safe sex

Lolop, 56 from Boksburg, Gauteng

humble always smiling and i love my lips and im looking for a friend only 1 and see what will follow later , im not here to look for sex please, i know there some out here who thinks like like me .

Ester, 51 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Ester has yet to add her profile.

Vongani, 25 from Eldoradopark, Gauteng

Vongani has yet to add her profile.

decapote, 30 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

decapote sent you a message: "well howdie there partner" (30th Mar at 5:51am) decapote winked at you (30th Mar at 5:51am)

Motlafela, 38 from Soweto, Gauteng

M looking fr sex partner .around johannesburg or soweto..m single...anyone around me or far is ohk.i hv a big cock..I lov sex n I enjoy it. Feel free to .contact me..anytime m free..

Jeanette, 69 from Centurion, Gauteng

Ek is 'n Afrikaans sprekende, alleenlopende vrou wat n alleenlopende (non attached), nie rokende, BLANKE man soek wat naby my bly om op 'n gereelde basis te kuier en om mee uit te gaan, na flieks, braais, ens. om die eensaamheid te verdryf. Nie noodwendig om te trou/of saambly nie. Maar ek soek ook nie one night stands nie. Hy moet hou van cuddle ens. Ek bly in Rooihuiskraal Hou daarvan om meer van die rekenaar te leer, werk in my klein tuintjie, groei so bietjie van my eie groente, en kyk TV.

John, 43 from Sandton, Gauteng

John winked at you (29th Mar at 2:45am)

Goddess, 36 from Halfway House, Gauteng

I'm bored, lonely and unhappily married , looking for a discreet relationship. I'm fun, witty and can stimulate your intelligence. I'm not only looking for sex but also for a companionship with a great man, ideally in the same situation as me. The man I'm looking for should be mature, intelligent, generous and have a great sense of humour. He should know how to please an African goddess's needs in all areas.

Jonathan, 48 from Alberton, Gauteng

Hi my name is Jonathan Just want casual sex no relationship,although u never know,any race .Lets enjoy each other. Im good for anything that pleases a woman i love giving oral sex and im not a 15 minute guys lol i can go this distance and wont stop till my woman is satisfied,,so if u bored contact me i will satisfy u...i promise I love missionery style cos i love to hold my woman and hear her breathing and move in a perfect rythm together .If we connect we can see.... But for now if u wana have a nice sized cock to fill u.....its me. Im a gentleman and respect a womans opinion.Respect mine too please

Lala, 25 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I love good life stress less good things and good to places

Rachel, 33 from Western Cape

I'm just that lady, you can't forget and won't..

Tebo, 24 from Halfway House, Gauteng

Saucy,naghty little number who will take your breath away,love being spoilt and Il spoil u back,into older blacks SA males ,40 and above,I'm very open minded and naughty,let's chat first,swap a few pics and see if we get along.

Martin, 34 from Randburg, Gauteng

I joined here because I find mature women incredibly sexy and attractive. However, that is definitely not saying that I wouldn't want to meet younger women or women of the same age too. I consider myself to be quite adventurous and open-minded, and I am always willing to learn something new or to share my experience with someone. I'm keen on casual encounters with the possibility of making such encounters a regular thing. Anyone interested in exploring the possibilities with me should be sincere, and you should have good manners and personal hygiene. I do my best to look after myself and to respect others, so I believe it is fair to expect the same. If you are interested to know more, please contact me and feel free to ask any questions you like. I will answer all sincere correspondence as best I can. I look forward to meeting new people, and to hopefully put a smile on your face.

Yolie, 36 from Milnerton, Western Cape

I love old matured guys

Babydee, 26 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Voluptuous ebony goddess looking for a good time. Respect is a must so if you see women as objects please move along. Looking for well groomed, well endowed gentlemen to have kinky fun with. Willing to try almost anything at least once ;)

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