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Anneri, 33 from Eastern Cape

Curvy lady looking for someone to chat to and connect with... if we can connect mentally maybe we can physically too... Maybe a little game of HOT or NOT... I have an eye for WHITE guys only, NO married guys please respect my preference as I will respect yours. x x x x x

Snookums, 36 from Pietersburg, Limpopo

Interested in dogging and casual encounters with no strings. Do not want a relationship, just adult fun once in a while. My husband knows I play. He loves watching and sometimes if I am comfortable and safe we can play alone.

Schalk, 49 from Heidelberg, Gauteng

I would like to forfull my wildest fantasies ..........I live on a small farm alone and are just looking for some fun

Busi, 44 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I am loving,caring,honest,hate lieres nd fakers,I love having sex with one I love ,I am wide minded ,I love myself always look decent, Im still hot and active ,I like outgoing,travelling and explore with my partner also like gymnastics to keep my body fit and strong andy for healthy life, in my spare time I like to spend time with one I love,reading magazine's or newspapers,romance novels,watching movies,cooking and studying as Im a life long learner."Please notime for nawty fun online sory" one interested can inbox me,will not respond to nawty msgs..l will also not respond to married guys.

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