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Updated profiles
Jules, 43 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am here to enjoy lots of sex and muffing from women of all races...

Sam, 32 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Oh boy...I hate talking about myself ...just ask..

Marge, 56 from Bedfordview, Gauteng

I'm an independent woman, great sense of humour honest and discreet. I am 1.61m 54kg green eyes.intelligent conversation is a must

Lilly, 37 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

I am here for fun, I love to laugh and enjoy good conversation. I appreciate a guy feeling comfortable about himself and who do not feel the need to pretend to impress. I am down to earth, have a good career which I love and spending time with me is always entertaining and I am open to experience New and naughty things...... should you feel like to "let your hair down" let see if we connect

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