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Poplap, 33 from Nelspruit, Mpumalanga

I am married in a complicated relationship, if this doesn't work for you don't contact me, I am not looking for a new husband.......

decapote, 30 from Eastern Cape

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Judy, 51 from Bronkhorstspruit, Gauteng

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Zeepho, 30 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Wat u see is wat u get straight talker.absolutely no time for timewasters and people who don't know wat they want..

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