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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange their most intimate thoughts and desires. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.

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Kea, 20 from Orkney, North West

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Tiaan, 54 from Four Ways, Gauteng

Just a normal on the earth guy nothing to write home about, wanting to meet female friends around Gauteng. Chatting or meeting eventually. Sharing our fantasies and dreams Looking for some daytime adult fun with a mature female, personality counts the most. I would love to meet for coffee/drink and get to know you first(visa versa) and then we can decide what and how we do it next, if there is a chance at all. If it does not work after the first meeting then we know but at least we had the experience and maybe can stay friends...

Amanda, 28 from Gauteng

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Angelique, 51 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I...

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