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Melo, 23 from Northern Cape

Im pretty bad at writing about myself.... but lets give this a try. I'm very straightforward and call a spade a spade. Not into endless texting back and forth lets meet in person for coffee or a drink (I'm only available on weekends) and see if we click. I'm fun, outgoing, outspoken, very self assured. I consider myself as mature very sure of who i am and the type of people i want around me. Lets see if we click and go from there.

Andrea, 33 from Northern Cape

Looking for a friend to chat about my problems. Serious people and whites only please. Only email exchange, or my husband might see

Jazz, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Jazz winked at you (22nd Nov at 5:23pm)

Nicolene, 38 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I am recently divorced. I am single.Looking for friendship and mabe more. I love fun and I am open minded about sex and exploring new things. I play safe and I am not into multiple partners. If You like what you see contact me. Please only white males. Tx

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