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Updated profiles
Thelma, 29 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Thelma has yet to add her profile.

Curvedup, 25 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I just need sum fun in my life

Gielie, 34 from Sandton, Gauteng

Gielie sent you a message: "No profile" (9th Apr at 6:29pm) Gielie winked at you (9th Apr at 6:28pm)

Zeepho, 30 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Wat u see is wat u get straight talker.absolutely no time for timewasters and people who don't know wat they want..

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