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Before services like MyBedOrYours..com there just wasn't a way to reliably find people who want to meet just for sex. The only real way other than approaching strangers in bars or clubs was the personals sections of local newspapers and specialist magazines. Back in the day, many people successfully met other people for sex this way but it was a long, drawn-out process between posting the ad, it being published and receiving replies not to mention the fact that it was quite hit and miss as you often didn't get to see a picture of the person beforehand. Times have changed and so have the ways people find sex. Now you can register in less than a minute with nothing but a working email address, post a photo and description and instantly meet loads of like minded people in your area looking for sex. Once you meet people who take your fancy you can communicate in real time with them, share photos and videos and arrange to meet. You genuinely could go from creating your first adult dating profile to meeting someone in Northern Cape for sex this evening, it's that simple.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

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Hanley, 20 from Brakpan, Gauteng

Hanley has yet to add her profile.

Sweetp, 29 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Just a simple lady looking for safe nd clean fun. Im a bit picky though when it comes to looks, my preference! Can I find my perfect match....

Natty, 41 from Phalaborwa, Limpopo

I am a 41year old married white female, blonde hair and dark brown eyes and I love sex, I have only had one man in my life so this is a first for me too. I am looking for attractive white men between 39 and 50 who wants to chat and maybe more...

Jonathan, 35 from Northern Cape

Looking for a lonely, matured and clean lady who needs a company of a gentleman and be satisfied sexually.

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