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Hannelie, 54 from Louis Trichardt, Limpopo

Feminine and well groomed, intelligent with a great sense of humor. Interested in men between the ages of 45 and 55. When you get to the age of 54, you certainly lived, but I have never been with a woman, not interested in 3-somes, orgies or anal. I am an Aquarius, if that means anything to you. I love having a great conversation with intelligent people, over a glass of wine and if there is lots of laughter, well, I really appreciate someone with a great sense of humor. Oh by the way, I appreciate the fact that we...

Nic, 69 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Naughty and doesn't care how old i am

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