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Jeanette, 69 from Centurion, Gauteng

Ek is 'n Afrikaans sprekende, alleenlopende vrou wat n alleenlopende (non attached), nie rokende, BLANKE man soek wat naby my bly om op 'n gereelde basis te kuier en om mee uit te gaan, na flieks, braais, ens. om die eensaamheid te verdryf. Nie noodwendig om te trou/of saambly nie. Maar ek soek ook nie one night stands nie. Hy moet hou van cuddle ens. Ek bly in Rooihuiskraal Hou daarvan om meer van die rekenaar te leer, werk in my klein tuintjie, groei so bietjie van my eie groente, en kyk TV.

Phumi, 36 from Northern Cape

I like meeting new people and experiencing different characters. I am married, so I'm not looking for a boyfriend or husband. Just looking for interesting people to interact with. People who can hold a decent conversation and engage, at a basic human level. Open to meeting for the odd drink or lunch. I do not speak hip-hop and I can't read sms short-hand. Please dont bother contacting me if you are that kind of guy. Same goes for those with their privates on their profile pictures. I'd rather engage with a faceless guy than your "package".

Thandeka, 28 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Im sweet cool friendly lady who likes to meet new people and make new friends im an easy going person

Nsadiscreet, 52 from Northern Cape

Hi, Are you looking for an clean, disease free, intelligent confident competent lover? No Strings? Nothing complicated? Encounters in a classy hotel with clean white sheets and fluffy towels? Me too. I'm Married but seeking the frisson of a discreet liasion with an articulate and educated WHITE woman. Do you have a photo on your profile? Nothing threatening to your anonymity - be imaginative; tease me a little? Fit, active, healthy, I am 5'10", normal to trim build, sporty with short hair. I'm told that I look much younger than my age. I have a high sex drive. I...

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