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I am strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 9 years experience with a great lifestyle and I have crazy fun ideas


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Couple looking for two guys to fulfil wife fantasy Couple 44, 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I like the idea of my wife groaning with sexual pleasure


Straight, Straight

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Am here to get your pleasure to its peak Female 31 from Bendigo, Australia

Have fun with Charlie in her dun space now and be happy


Straight

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


Straight

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Hello lovely people I’m single and I’m here Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a loving person who can take care of my partner


Straight

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Sweet wet dom looking for a nice time Female 29 from Carlton, Australia

Playing with slut while they suck me and erotic play


Straight

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Longing for someone to feel less lonely Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

Hello, it's a pleasure that you see my profile. I hope you can give yourself the opportunity to get to know me much better. I tell you, I consider myself a romantic, dedicated woman, passionate about the things that interest me. I take care of my body, mind, and spirit. Let's communicate and make each other feel special!


Straight

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Beeekind couple seeking female Couple 44, 48 from Clayton, Australia

Bubbly hugs fun happy giggles I’m one of the lucky people who love what they do.. I wake up and can’t wait for my day and hopefully I can share my  infectious fun and have a laugh
.., I love new shiny people.. lm now with an exciting partner to double the fun.. I love eating both sex’s ..I’m adventurous loves to play and watch sexual partners let go and enjoy .. My partner loves giving to women and wants me to have a girlfriend to satisfy my sexual choices. . let me play with you and explore your turn ons .. or just have a drink and talk about it I’m cruisey  either way .. or a little dirty talk if it flows and we’ll go with the flow lol Do you want to be played with ? Or want to be played with with the focus on you? send a message if you want to explore what I or we can do.. no pressure just fun and laughs I don’t take life to serious or sweat the small stuff x


Bisexual, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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sunny hearted with a touch of moon light Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

If you are interested in communicating with me, then I just want to say that I don't want endless conversations, I believe that this site is just the first step of getting to know each other, and the best way to get to know each other is a real meeting, I hope you understand me.


Straight

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Couple looking for kitchen table poly relationship with possibly of children Couple 35, 33 from Melbourne, Australia

Spiritual, dancing, self development, travel, meditation, crystals, small business


Straight, Straight

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Hi im 29 single finding someone who have patient XX Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

i am very open minded person love to meet an older men and maybe someone to explore XX


Straight

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Newbies, looking to have fun and explore Couple 45, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for excitement and fun to spice things up.


Straight, Straight

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I am new to this just trying to see how this look like ... Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

If you want an uninhibited adventurous compassionate and honest lady then look no further...I am drug and disease free ..NOTE: No cyber, or time wasters, if you are not ready to meet  please don't contact me


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

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I’m a single and kinky lady who intends on enjoying and discovering new pleasure.. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a dominant woman in search of a kinky man I can enjoy lots of pleasure with.


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-78. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M

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Easy going and calm always with my partners Female 46 from South Yarra, Australia

I hope first you look at my inner qualities and my personal data and not at my sexy photos ahaha because I am an interesting lady not only externally, but also in my soul I have a spark that is no less important to find out I understand that men always think only about one thing, but I want something more I consider myself an emotional and caring person. Honesty and openness in relationships are important to me. I dream of a man who will satisfy me in my intimate life again and again, I am very mutual in this matter) I am an energetic and positive girl who wants to find happiness with her beloved man. I have many different desires and fantasies that unfortunately I cannot realize alone, for this I need an adult experienced wise man


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM

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Looking for the perfect man to explore all my sexual fantasies with Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a kinky lady looking to find a like minded man


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Simple girl just wants sex and fuck buddy Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Dm let’s have fun I’ll be your fuck buddy let’s get to know each other better


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Msg me lets chat x FWB x see where it goes Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for someone who smells good and treats me well x


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Lace, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Happily Married Fun Couple. Husband prefers to watch in group situations and wi.. Couple 26, 26 from Shepparton, Australia

Wiffee loves large membered Men and preferably in groups....  Husband loves watching wife have fun.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Webcam

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Mistress is not here for games. Serious people only Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a Dominant woman who enjoys training men the true old ways of BDSM relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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We are couple, looking for some erotic fun. We do not judge, if all goes well th.. Couple 35, 35 from Cranbourne, Australia

We are excited about other couples, swinging, threesome and kinky play.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and .. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 46-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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No idea what to write. (Insert something enticing here) Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m 24 years old, always been a sub but haven’t had a lot of experience. I’m starting to feel bad uncomfortable not having a dom and need one. Doesn’t have to be sexual.
I’m bigender


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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Try out new things.I want to be dominated.I want to be shaved, head to toe. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

I like it hard, I like it smooth, I like it any way.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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I am a woman who is looking for love. I really want to meet my soulmate here. Be.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a woman who is looking for love. I really want to meet my soulmate here. Because neither work nor career success can make a person as happy as family life.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Active member locations

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Single guy or girl in Victoria looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

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