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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Melbourne
Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

Having fun discreet enjoy the moment and to explore


Gay, Gay

Looking for, ages 45-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys

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She is the perfect woman. Polite, honest and kind... but with a very dirty mind Female 38 from Melton, Australia

Let's explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly


Straight

Looking for, ages 28-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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I’m a passionate and caring person who is always looking for new experience I’m .. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I love cooking, dancing, playing video games and music. My Favorite place to be is the beach


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello my dear my name is cecili i just registered bako.com am looking for a so.. Female 43 from Port Melbourne, Australia

Hello my dear
my name is cecili i just registered bako.com
am looking for a soul mate
for a serious relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Bondage, Electro Play, Petite, Sub, Voyeurism

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Im 44 years old, living in the Melton South region. Female 44 from Melton South, Australia

I'm 44 years old, living in the Melton South region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 93.


Straight

Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Sex Toys

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Bi couple looking for orgies and parties… Couple 45, 45 from Warragul, Australia

Cocks are so much fun!
Long term couple, not new to the scene, very much in Love, Open minded & fun loving, looking to push some boundaries and satisfy some curiosities. We understand what it’s like to want to explore more, experience with mmf bi not always necessary. You have to start somewhere …
Please be patient, it can take some time for us to message back, life and work commitments keep us very busy.

We are down to earth people, looking for easy going, respectful, discreet, men to meet up over a drink and help us to explore our kinks. We are patient, genuine & ready to play. Happy to message to get to know each other, happy to meet promptly with the right person.

Don’t be shy, reach out if you’d like to chat.


Bisexual, Pansexual

Looking for, ages 20-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Looking for bull for first time experience Couple 31, 31 from Noble Park, Australia

My wife and I are at the stage where we are looking to experience some fantasies


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 22-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction

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Looking for a Dom that can handle me. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

Making you happy, makes me happy. Connection also makes me happy.


Straight

Looking for, ages 29-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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Dirty persian slut luv sucking cock while rubbing ny pussy Female 37 from South Morang, Australia

Persian woman live alone independent home owner business owner I know what I want thick large


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal

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Seeking for a long term that may lead to something great and also open for anyth.. Female 46 from Melbourne, Australia

Am 46 years old and am from mibon and am looking for a serious relationship and a honest man to spend my life with


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

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New to this site but not new in the lifestyle,i am 24/7 sub seeking for the righ.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am singlr,mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listener, and a positive person.I am a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality and the wonderful sensations that my body,mind and spirit can produce..I have a good sense of humor and a willingness to explore not only what life has to offer but what am capable of experiencing both physically and mentally..


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

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Very passionate about this lifestyle ❤️❤️ Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

Very passionate about this lifestyle
Love to train loyal and obedient sub
Love latex and sex toys


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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We are a couple that are looking to bring some fun in the bedroom we are looking.. Couple 25, 26 from Drouin, Australia

We are just wanting to explore and try things out we hope we can find someone on here to match our needs


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im 42 years old, living in the NSW I region. Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 42 years old, living in the Sydney region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 32 and 90.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 32-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Try out new things.I want to be dominated.I want to be shaved, head to toe. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

I like it hard, I like it smooth, I like it any way.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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Im a dominant female looking for an open minded sub male with all boundaries re.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Seeking for a man who is submissive type willing to learn respect and obey a dominant woman


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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Ive led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of pe.. Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


Straight

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I am a busy, bossy mistress who wants too use you for my pleasure, my needs and .. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

What makes me happy is someone under my total control, I want money, power over you and no complaining. I get happy when you do my chores and make everything about me. Simple as that do as I say and keep me happy.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for someone serious and romantic Female 45 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a fun loving and laid back girl  who is easy going. I love the simplest things of life and i try as much as I can to be an optimist no matter what life throws at me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Get Ready to Make a Splash with My Irresistible Profile: Unforgettable Connectio.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

Charming soul, ready to unleash , here to connect, match and hook up


Straight

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My godliness what should I say when I to get someone to join me for a chat and p.. Female 43 from Wodonga, Australia

Be the best of Dom to see if I like it or will suit me being sub? I am very keen to improve this one and practice the new experience I am stepping out in the future of bedroom and all my holes and I'm going to guess I will be outside too sometimes ey I will be   cool for you to enjoy your time in me.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Keen for fun ,keen for love , keen for exploring and open minded in exploring new things.


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Dominance is not all about overpowering its all about empowering. Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

The dominant roles is to guide,protect and cherish submissive.
Hope to find a serious minded person.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

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Hi a dom but will swich lol hardcore Female 59 from Carrum Downs, Australia

Iam an educated man retired and into bdsm are you it's a pleasure so will swich if that's what you want


Straight

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I just came back here to meet like minded people and see where it goes xx HMU!! Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m not the kind of girl who picks up guys at bars, so this is my only other option.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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