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DOM SEEKING FOR A SUB TO OWN AND TRAIN INTO BDSM LIFESTYLE DEPENDING ON YOUR FET.. Female 30 from Syndal, Australia

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I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

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Im 43 years old, living in the Mornington region. Couple 43, 33 from Mornington, Australia

I'm 43 years old, living in the Mornington region.
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Adventurous, Nature lover and Clingy Female 26 from Richmond, Australia

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We are couple, we wanted to try out the lifestyle. We do not judge. If we match .. Couple 35, 32 from Cranbourne, Australia

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I am a woman who is looking for love. I really want to meet my soulmate here. Be.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

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Hi I’m a super curvy girl . Who can fuck me tonight? I’m a bit chubby and fair. .. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

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Ill make it short and sweet, Im kind, generous, genuine what you see is what y.. Female 44 from Bendigo, Australia

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It can be whipped cream or chocolate sauce, your choice. My favorite thing in th.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

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Domination has been a lifestyle for me, and many at times misunderstood by other.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

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Hey, looking for someone to have fun with. Preferably online or app first and se.. Couple 32, 32 from Bendigo, Australia

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Im a delicate flower that needs to be admired. Its been a challenge trying to .. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

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Genuine and down to earth seeking the same.. Female 30 from Geelong, Australia

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Life to short and we need close f Female 28 from Canadian, Australia

Am a dom and am looking for a sub if you are not a sub don’t text me


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Married couple looking for female or couple to join in fun. Bondage, role-play, .. Couple 39, 45 from Melbourne, Australia

We are looking for females or couples to enjoy some fun with. My husband is new to this so I would like to start of slow with him as he has never experienced much in his life till he meet me. Im a very adventurous women and love experimenting in the bedroom. Happy to travel no meet will be at our home. Happy to meet for a drink and see what happens. My husband is very nervous so please be kind


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We are a couple looking for like minded people just want to have fun Couple 30, 40 from Wodonga, Australia

Big cock and getting pussy eaten and fucked go with the flow and have fun can't reply to msgs at the moment as can't get V.I. P at the moment as Lost bank card


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Hot friends, male & female seeking another female for some funn Couple 38, 37 from Langwarrin, Australia

I love turning the guy on until he can’t handle it anymore


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We are couple, looking for some erotic fun. We do not judge, if all goes well th.. Couple 35, 35 from Cranbourne, Australia

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Im 63 years old, living in the Yutan region. Female 64 from Vermont, Australia

I'm 63 years old, living in the Yutan region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 59.


Straight

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Seeking adventure partner for exploring the unknown. Female 41 from Bendigo, Australia

Passionate about making memories and building a future with the right person.


Straight

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