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I do not think that I am not better than others, but I hope to be the best for m.. Female 40 from Sydney, Australia

I do not think that I am not better than others, but I hope to be the best for my future partner. You will see that I`m active and spontaneous. I like to laugh and always try to be positive. I always try to understand others and it is easy for me to make friends. I am honest and open with my close people. I have everything to become an excellent wife, the best friend and a passionate lover for my man!


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Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Im 38 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 38 from Canberra, Australia

I believe that life is too short to not savor every moment and create lasting memories. If you're someone who believes that age doesn't define the potential for a deep and meaningful connection, if you value love, laughter, and shared experiences, then I'd be delighted to get to know you.


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Looking for, ages 40-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Sub

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I believe in love . Do you ? I’m a very active and positive person. I enjoy ever.. Female 42 from Austinmer, Australia

I am a thoughtful, caring and very loving romantic woman I am honest, very positive person who enjoys each moment of every day. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh, and to keep a relationship fun and refreshing, open minded, to create rich meaningful conversation. I enjoy reading, listening music, working out, hiking, fine cuisine, and movies. I love to travel and always enjoy experiencing other cultures and people.


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Looking for, ages 52-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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New to this website but not to the scene. Married for over 10 years. Looking for.. Couple 46, 41 from Sydney, Australia

Flirting, sexy conversation, the seduction game, and of course, sex!!


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Looking for, ages 40-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Group Sex, Oral, Sexual Massage

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Couple seeking a 3rd person Can host Couple 41, 41 from Nowra, Australia

Open to any potential meeting
Can host
Drink and a bbq


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Looking for, ages 18-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Webcam

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Simple and ordinary Loves outting and meeting with new friends. Female 26 from Sydney, Australia

Vibes on vibes with cool and matured minds
Good energy match up with same


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Looking for, ages 41-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun

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Im 52 years old, living in the Minto region. Female 52 from Minto, Australia

Someone who is real and is true looking for a real Dom not someone who just read 50 shades of gray and thing they can just control you.


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Looking for, ages 43-63. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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COME TO ME NOW AND WORSHIP ME! Female 33 from Central Colo, Australia

I am looking for a sub as partner for discreet adventure, who's ready to commit totally to My control.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, S&M

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I am very kind, charismatic and open, with a good sense of humor girl. I really .. Female 45 from Canberra, Australia

I want to meet a caring, understanding, kind man who will understand me and my profession.


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Looking for, ages 50-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, MILF, Nylons, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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Im 41 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 41 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 41 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 70.


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I want serious and long term relationship that involves commitment that will lea.. Female 40 from Toronto, Australia

I’m just a simple person, who wishes for simple things, I have an easy going nature, outgoing personality and just enjoy the usual things in life... I am extremely simple and just an ordinary person who seek for someone who will see me as I am.


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Looking for, ages 52-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Sex Talk

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. Female 25 from Newcastle, Australia

I will bring out the best in my submissive partner, help him find himself, and self esteem


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Im 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 37 from Fitzroy Falls, Australia

I'm 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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Looking for, ages 47-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Sex Talk, Voyeurism

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hello am new here seeking to find a serious relationship and a man who is truth.. Female 39 from Sydenham, Australia

hello am new here seeking to find a serious relationship and a man who is truthful caring kind honest and loving and also fun so reach me


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Exhibitionism, Feet, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play, Webcam

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Super open minded woman out here to have some fun and share her kinks and fetish.. Female 45 from Canberra, Australia

I've had about 20 years experience into this lifestyle and I'm looking for a sub who's willing to cater for my needs so he can earn his rewards double fold


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Looking for wild times and up gir anything Couple 33, 34 from Belconnen, Australia

32 hes 33 and love to fuck and new to this keeen asf


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Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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I Have a Wide Range of Kinks i enjoy and would like to explore as i have led th.. Female 50 from Sydney, Australia

I am not into much pain at all, all i want is to have fun and enjoy this alternate lifestyle discreetly.


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Looking for, ages 50-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

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Spontaneous, adventurous, open-minded Female 56 from Canberra, Australia

Looking for a casual lover who can meet all my needs. Needs to be discreet, but in return, there will be many wonderful moments. Of course can not give you a relationship, but I can give you many delicious pleasures on some otherwise boring days.


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Looking for, ages 40-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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Hey!Looking for someone that shares the same mindset as me. I love the power exc.. Female 37 from Albion Park, Australia

I’m interested in finding someone that can challenge me both physically and mentally. I love rough and gentle play and mind games. I’m into bondage, spankings, humiliation, degradation , and exhibitionisism.I’m looking for someone that is heavily into bdsm and wants a regular play date once a week or fortnight. I would like a regular play partner so we can learn each other and get really deep into this kind of play and push limits.


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Looking for, ages 35-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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I have borderline personality disorder. Not the best opening line but its a sho.. Female 44 from Wollongong, Australia

I will do anything to make you be happy with me as I cant stand the guilt of having you upset or disappointed in me. I will do anything to be told I'm a good girl. Feeling unworthy and unlovable can consume me so you would need to treat me like you own me. I would be your property. As an overthinker I crave the comfort that comes from leadership, rules and boundaries. Tell me what to do and how to be and I will submit and obey. Take control of me so I can take care of you.Bpd can cause me to become depressed, defiant and distant. You will either be patient with me in this time or strong enough to discipline me back into submission where I feel most comfortable and safe.I don't like praise or compliments. But I'll take all the head pats and forehead kisses you gift me.Make me feel safe and wanted and Im yours. Brand me, collar me, cover me in your scent as a daily reminder that I belong to you more than I belong to me. Please....


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Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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I want to meet someone funny and adventurous so that we can just have a lot of f.. Female 33 from Sydney, Australia

I’m open to meeting new people, maybe going on a few dates, and seeing where things go. Love Cooking and Outdoors Activities.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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We are a couple looking to enter the lifestyle Couple 48, 48 from Wollongong, Australia

We are a happily married couple M48 F 46, looking to have a bit of fun


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Looking for, ages 38-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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Laid back and fun to be With, love all the nice things Female 39 from Canberra, Australia

Adventures, satisfaction ,showing my partner on how to be loyal and satisfied


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Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 34 from Sydney, Australia

How horny can you be? What can I can do about it? How can I control you? You want to find out? message me.


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Looking for, ages 23-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam

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I’m new on here, am open for anything Female 32 from Sydney, Australia

I’m Belinda Lea am new on here like to meet new friends on here


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Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Threesomes, Webcam

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Active member locations

  • Castle Hill /
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  • Fitzroy Falls /
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Single guy or girl in Sydney looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

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Sydney’s casual dating scene is full of possibilities, offering a vibrant mix of opportunities for those looking to connect without commitment. Whether you’re after a spontaneous fling or just some lighthearted fun, Sydney is the place to be. Here’s how to make the most of it and where to find your next hookup.

Tips for Success in Sydney’s Casual Dating Scene

  • Be Confident and Direct: Confidence is attractive, especially in the casual dating world. Be clear about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a one-night stand, a friends-with-benefits arrangement, or something else. Honesty about your intentions will save you time and help you connect with like-minded individuals.
  • Keep It Casual: The key to successful casual dating is maintaining healthy boundaries. If you’re not looking for anything serious, make sure that’s clear from the start. This helps avoid misunderstandings and keeps the relationship enjoyable and stress-free for both parties.
  • Respect and Communication: Even in a no-strings-attached setup, mutual respect and clear communication are crucial. Make sure both you and your partner are on the same page about what you want, and always be respectful of their time and boundaries.
  • Stay Safe: Safety should always be a priority. Whether you’re meeting someone new or heading to a private location, take precautions to ensure your well-being. Let someone know where you’ll be, and trust your instincts if something doesn’t feel right.

Where to Meet in Sydney

Sydney is packed with great spots for meeting new people, whether you’re looking for a quick flirt or a casual encounter.

  • Music Festivals: Sydney’s music festivals, like Lost Paradise and Electric Gardens, are ideal for meeting like-minded people in a relaxed, fun environment. These events attract a lively crowd, making them perfect for spontaneous connections.
  • Harbor Cruises: For something a bit different, try a harbor cruise from Circular Bay. These cruises are a great way to meet locals and tourists alike, with plenty of opportunities for casual flirts amidst the stunning views.
  • Darling Harbor: This bustling waterfront area is always full of life, with restaurants, shops, and entertainment options that draw both locals and visitors. It’s a prime spot for spontaneous encounters and casual conversations that could lead to more.
  • Bondi Beach: One of Sydney’s most iconic locations, Bondi Beach is more than just a place to catch some sun. The vibrant beach scene, combined with nearby cafes and bars, makes it an excellent spot for meeting new people in a laid-back setting.

Advantages of Casual Dating in Sydney

  • Diverse Social Scene: Sydney offers a diverse and dynamic social scene, providing endless opportunities to meet new people. From bustling urban spots to serene beaches, the city caters to all types of casual encounters.
  • Flexibility: Casual dating is all about flexibility—whether you’re meeting someone for a quick drink after work or planning a fun night out, you can tailor your experiences to fit your lifestyle.
  • Freedom from Commitment: One of the main attractions of casual dating is the freedom it offers. You can enjoy the excitement of meeting new people without the pressures of a traditional relationship.

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