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Life is too shot for games and drama Female 42 from Sydney, Australia

I am looking for an independent man who can treat a lady right. I would like my man to be romantic and passionate. I like to be active, and I need a man to share with him all my love and passion


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I’m a young hard working virgin that works 3 jobs just to earn ends meet and lit.. Female 21 from Newcastle, Australia

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Im 25 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 25 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 25 years old, living in the Canberra region.
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Looking to spead my wings after divorce. Im new to this scene, open minded. No.. Female 50 from Blacktown, Australia

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I love to be honest and always make my man happy. And I want the same from him... Female 51 from Sydney, Australia

its difficult to find my soul mate but no impossible, when i said that i am honest, sincere and trustworthy i meant it. I enjoy movies, beach/park walks holding hands, travel, long drives, music (except rap,rock), gardening, cooking, quiet time at home, family gets together, as well being pampered and spoiled when time and circumstances permits it to marriage.


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99% Angel BUT OH that 1% Adventurous spontaneous Female 46 from East Gosford, Australia

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Im 37 years old, living in the Newcastle region. Female 37 from Newcastle, Australia

I'm 37 years old, living in the Newcastle region.
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