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Fancy some no strings fun or maybe a bit on the side? Adult dating is the quickest and most convenient way to meet other people with a similar outlook on life, who enjoy sex and the thrill that comes from meeting strangers online. Mybedoryours.com is an adult dating communities with satisfied members.

Adult dating is the same concept as "conventional" online dating. The only difference is what the users aim to get out of the relationships they form. Our members generally do not want to be tied down (tied up, maybe) or restricted to one sexual partner. Our members are generally looking for more casual relationships or one night stands. Often these casual rendezvous turn into a fuck buddy type arrangement but if you are here looking for the love of your life, romance and flowers, you are definitely in the wrong place. If you are easily offended, you are also probably in the wrong place. Many of our members posts and share some pretty explicit photos and videos which are not censored in any way so if you think you will be offended by content of this nature, please leave now.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Sydney
I am looking to explore and be free from loneliness. Female 35 from Sydney, Australia

I am very loving and passionate woman. I'm here to meet interesting people.  I am open to trying new things in and outside bedroom.


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Seeking for FWF to a long term relationship Female 39 from Sydney, Australia

I can say a little about me, i go by Michelle im single and I’m here seeking for Friends with benefits some one who is serious to go forward to a long term relationship.. I’m not here for games.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets

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Hey new to the site just giving it a test. Couple 33, 33 from Kingswood, Australia

We are a married couple and we are looking to have some fun


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Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Im 40 years old, living in the Sydney region. Female 40 from Sydney, Australia

Here for hookup and sex on here any man looking for the same. Can’t upload any photos on here text me for more photos


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Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Couples, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Webcam

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I am a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 35 from Canberra, Australia

I am looking for that special older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quenched in my past relationship. Someone I can confide in and ready to live the BDSM alternate kinky lifestyle with me secretly


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Looking for, ages 54-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Im 25 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 25 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 25 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 99.


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Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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I am a goddess look for a the right man who can serve me properly ..whos down f.. Female 26 from Canberra, Australia

I am a goddess look for man who can serve me ..who's down for it ?


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Looking for, ages 35-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Im 39 years old, living in the Sydney region. Female 39 from Sydney, Australia

I hope first you look at my inner qualities and my personal data and not at my sexy photos ahaha because I am an interesting lady not only externally, but also in my soul I have a spark that is no less important to find out I understand that men always think only about one thing, but I want something more I consider myself an emotional and caring person. Honesty and openness in relationships are important to me. I dream of a man who will satisfy me in my intimate life again and again, I am very mutual in this matter) I am an energetic and positive girl who wants to find happiness with her beloved man. I have many different desires and fantasies that unfortunately I cannot realize alone, for this I need an adult experienced wise man


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Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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I enjoy multiple partners. Enjoy giving and receiving. Soft Bi in the right envi.. Female 28 from Sydney, Australia

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 64.


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Looking for, ages 21-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Leather / Latex, MILF, Sex Toys

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I dont like arrogant men to message me, I want a very humble man to text me and.. Female 47 from Newcastle, Australia

I'm very understanding and honest, I'm very fun to write with, I'm open to anything


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Looking for, ages 57-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Looking for bull or bulls in Sydney (prefer black) Couple 33, 27 from Sydney, Australia

Horny hotwifee for real meeting no time wasting no fakes


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Looking for, ages 26-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Am pretty new on here,hoping to find a good sense of humour characterised man i .. Female 47 from Bomaderry, Australia

Am pretty new on here,hoping to find a good sense of humour characterised man i could spend my time together with....


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Hi there Everyone I’m Stacy and very down to earth person and also interesting p.. Female 41 from Sydney, Australia

A woman who has no limits when it comes to feelings, emotions and new experiences! My life is an explosion of emotions every day! I think it is better to move only forward, and not look back, and continue moving in any case, because movement is life!I am very caring and loving.I'm not going to wait for my destiny to find me, so I decided to go in search of it myself.


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Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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am from australia and am very calm and kind looking for the right man to be with.. Female 45 from Sydney, Australia

i just want to be with my man all the time i love to go out with my man


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Webcam

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Here for some kinky fun. Hey you come let’s explore our desires together in BDSM.. Female 38 from Sydney, Australia

I’m Goddess Florence , I’m strict, discipline, loving and hot , here to train serious minded subs don’t care if you’re a (rookie/newbie or experienced) . Just be straight with me and we are good. ✅


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Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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I am an ultimate goddess.. Female 37 from Canberra, Australia

I'm interested in that someone who will rekindle the flame of  passion and joy that seems to have been lost in my previous relationship. Someone willing to assist my life and ready to live the alternate bdsm kinky lifestyle with me secretly


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Very new, very shy and wanting to learn :) Female 24 from Canberra, Australia

Plus size. Erotica is one of my favourites. Watching bdsm turns me on but I haven’t every experienced it. Only interested in chatting online


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 24-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

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I am looking for someone to have a good time :) Female 27 from Sydney, Australia

I just got out of long time relationship so i am now looking for something casual and fun :) are you down for it? so lets meet :)


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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Im 28 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 28 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 28 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 75.


Straight

Looking for, ages 35-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Spontaneous, adventurous, open-minded Female 56 from Canberra, Australia

Looking for a casual lover who can meet all my needs. Needs to be discreet, but in return, there will be many wonderful moments. Of course can not give you a relationship, but I can give you many delicious pleasures on some otherwise boring days.


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Looking for, ages 40-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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When he bends me over,are you ready to have me take control over you can explore.. Female 37 from Sydney, Australia

I'm an easy going and down to earth lady,I can always be of help and expecting you to come to me and share your fears with me.


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Looking for, ages 58-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Hi cuckold couple seeking bull Couple 53, 54 from Nowra, Australia

My partner an family, spending quality time with them.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Dom, MILF, Threesomes

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Sexually generous people pleaser. Submissive, looking for dominant strong take c.. Female 44 from Windang, Australia

Hi im trina I love meeting new people and a good chat. I like to make a connection and am after something consistent and regular. Im not really into ons they do nothing for me x


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Looking for, ages 18-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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When I walk in the field, the wind whispers your name and each blade of grass po.. Female 39 from Pyrmont, Australia

When I close my eyes, I see a thousand dreams waiting to come true, and all of them center around you.


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Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play

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Im mistresses Becky, Im 40 years old and based in Sydney Australia Female 53 from Sydney, Australia

I'm in need of a loyal, obedient and honest sub, who will serve me sincerely with all his heart.


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across Australia looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, even married members looking for some extra marital excitement. All we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion and avoid using fake profile photos.

Please respect other members privacy. Once you are registered you will have access to lots of members photos, videos and diaries. Please enjoy them but do not share them outside of My Bed or Yours.

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Sydney’s casual dating scene is full of possibilities, offering a vibrant mix of opportunities for those looking to connect without commitment. Whether you’re after a spontaneous fling or just some lighthearted fun, Sydney is the place to be. Here’s how to make the most of it and where to find your next hookup.

Tips for Success in Sydney’s Casual Dating Scene

  • Be Confident and Direct: Confidence is attractive, especially in the casual dating world. Be clear about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a one-night stand, a friends-with-benefits arrangement, or something else. Honesty about your intentions will save you time and help you connect with like-minded individuals.
  • Keep It Casual: The key to successful casual dating is maintaining healthy boundaries. If you’re not looking for anything serious, make sure that’s clear from the start. This helps avoid misunderstandings and keeps the relationship enjoyable and stress-free for both parties.
  • Respect and Communication: Even in a no-strings-attached setup, mutual respect and clear communication are crucial. Make sure both you and your partner are on the same page about what you want, and always be respectful of their time and boundaries.
  • Stay Safe: Safety should always be a priority. Whether you’re meeting someone new or heading to a private location, take precautions to ensure your well-being. Let someone know where you’ll be, and trust your instincts if something doesn’t feel right.

Where to Meet in Sydney

Sydney is packed with great spots for meeting new people, whether you’re looking for a quick flirt or a casual encounter.

  • Music Festivals: Sydney’s music festivals, like Lost Paradise and Electric Gardens, are ideal for meeting like-minded people in a relaxed, fun environment. These events attract a lively crowd, making them perfect for spontaneous connections.
  • Harbor Cruises: For something a bit different, try a harbor cruise from Circular Bay. These cruises are a great way to meet locals and tourists alike, with plenty of opportunities for casual flirts amidst the stunning views.
  • Darling Harbor: This bustling waterfront area is always full of life, with restaurants, shops, and entertainment options that draw both locals and visitors. It’s a prime spot for spontaneous encounters and casual conversations that could lead to more.
  • Bondi Beach: One of Sydney’s most iconic locations, Bondi Beach is more than just a place to catch some sun. The vibrant beach scene, combined with nearby cafes and bars, makes it an excellent spot for meeting new people in a laid-back setting.

Advantages of Casual Dating in Sydney

  • Diverse Social Scene: Sydney offers a diverse and dynamic social scene, providing endless opportunities to meet new people. From bustling urban spots to serene beaches, the city caters to all types of casual encounters.
  • Flexibility: Casual dating is all about flexibility—whether you’re meeting someone for a quick drink after work or planning a fun night out, you can tailor your experiences to fit your lifestyle.
  • Freedom from Commitment: One of the main attractions of casual dating is the freedom it offers. You can enjoy the excitement of meeting new people without the pressures of a traditional relationship.

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