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Fionajane, 48 from San Remo, WA

I have been separated for a while, almost divorced. I am just looking for someone to have fun with, no strings attached. I am not looking for a boyfriend, I just want someone I can have a casual relationship with, but I would prefer you are not having lots of casual encounters with other people.

Kat, 46 from Darlinghurst, NSW

Looking for no strings attached relationship. I enjoy good company, someone who enjoys stimulating convo and music. 2 worded messages do not appeal to me; or messages with no substance. I'll just delete them coz its a time waster. Conversation is important -- connecting on all levels is important; mentally, spiritually & emotionally. I am passionate about music and that is a subject to strike up an intelligent conversation with me. Connecting with me conversationally is important, real conversation will open the door. Like to keep relationships free from my work zone and circle of friends - it's easier...

Davros, 44 from Werrington Downs, Nsw

Davros winked at you (26th May at 6:25am)

Joan, 45 from Wonthaggi, VIC

Hi, I'm fairly quiet, love a laugh and a joke. Enjoy time with my children and friends. Looking to expand my horizons and push my boundaries sexually. looking for a man who is honest, respectful and interesting. Happy to explore and experiment together. Single men only.

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