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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Auckland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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ELIZABETH, 39 from Newton, Auckland

39yo single mum, 168cm tall, curvy size 18. I like to be told what to do in a respectful way and I'm fairly good at following instructions ;) looking for someone fairly local to my area (I'm near manukau and work botany area). At this point can't play at my place and I can't travel too far in evenings (I finish work at 6:30pm and don't want to be out too late as I start early each morning). I am free Tuesday's 9am til 2pm

RACHEL, 27 from Avondale, Auckland

I love sex and a good time:-) Be sure you read my profile before messaging me. I am not skinny, I don't have a slim figure, I am a chubby woman and I don't do hook up's with married men or men that have separated from their wives and not divorced yet and guys with girlfriends. I only want fun times with men that are single.

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Jimbruce winked at you (4 minutes ago) Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 2:46am) Jimbruce winked at you (Sunday at 2:59am) Jimbruce winked at you (Sunday at 1:01am) Jimbruce sent you a message: "Hey" (Saturday at 1:11am)

SHANE, 46 from Auckland

Just looking for some one to fuck and go down on and have some fun and good times with No Strings Attached maybe in the future something else. My interests are mountain biking fishing the outdoors dancing meals out movies most sports

ANDREW, 75 from Auckland

Andrew winked at you (24th Jan at 4:09am)

HAMA, 32 from Thames, Waikato

I'm keen 4 some fun big guy that loves it

SEXYASS, 37 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

I am a sexy woman here looking to meet an adventurous woman who knows what she wants!

JOHN, 52 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi I'm In a committed but sexless relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about but would Like some very discreet no strings or baggage sexy times with a mature lady,someone Who wants to have some uncomplicated stolen adult time, who likes to wear sexy outfits :-)(a real turn on) A horny lady who wants a man to give her what she wants 8:::::::D - - - \(i)/

UPURBUM, 43 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

Harry sent you a message: "Hi Jane from Harry" (24th Apr at 9:25am) Harry winked at you (24th Apr at 9:23am) Harry added you as a Favourite (24th Apr at 2:32am) Harry winked at you (19th Apr at 5:07am)

MAVROCK, 46 from Auckland

Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 7:24pm) Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (Monday at 1:37pm)

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David winked at you (Saturday at 1:53am) David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

BIGD, 24 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Bigd winked at you (9th Jan at 1:23am)

CJAY, 33 from Auckland

i wont bite, unless thats what your into. Keen energetic individual, always keen to make the ladys super wet!

STEVE, 37 from West Harbour, Auckland

I'm an easy going person. Easy to get to know someone new, good sense of humour. Love my music, plays the piano. Also love to work on cars. adventurous and would love to try different things. Been in Auckland for 16 years now and loving it... I'd like to keep things simple. So tends to go with the flow. I am ready to settle down with the right person. I'm looking for someone that can accept me as I am, easy going person and ready to settle down type of person. Can be 'bad' sometimes but can be good and sincere too.

FUCKANDGO, 39 from Auckland

There is no photo of my face but if it's really important I can send you one just ask! Hoping to me likeminded females that are interested in the same as me. Am a genuine person and what you see is what you get. I can make a quirky joke and sometimes laugh at them even though it's not funny but eh it's me! Fortunately I love sex especially oral and am really anal about cleanliness. Am willing just to take you to your happy place and that's it or we can have sex if you wish.... Am a approachable guy and is well groomed and not a grumpy bumpy at all! Chat me up and let's take it from there. Hope to hear from ALL of you!

BUZZ, 56 from North Shore, Auckland

I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...

JIM, 55 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hi, Recently broken from a relationship and feeling like some female company, I am not looking for a relationship, just someone nice to play with. Im an intelligent, self employed business man. Im clean and like to keep myself in reasonable condition. Im in Auckland every weekend with work and now maybe some play :)

JAE, 41 from Auckland, Auckland

Horny and keen to do whatever you desire. No inhibitions here.

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