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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Auckland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MyBedOrYours is for regular people looking for something exciting in the bedroom - someone else to join you and your partner or perhaps you have a few fantasies you want to live out. We let you explore your sexual ideas and help you connect with other people around Auckland.

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KIWIMATTY, 28 from Grafton, Auckland

Kiwimatty has yet to add his profile. Ask Kiwimatty for more info.

STEVE, 33 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

Steve winked at you (10th Feb at 1:14pm)

WILLIAM, 77 from Auckland, Auckland

I am easy going person hate arguments prefer make love i am here try meet a woman for long term exclusive relationship if that happen always ready for casual meet up . Even at my age no problem in getting hard erection i do like give my partner plenty fore play ,lick ,kiss ,tickle your clit with my tongue . Please make contact if interested .

CRAIG, 54 from Auckland

Craig winked at you (27th Feb at 3:43am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:16am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:14am) Craig sent you a message: "Proflie" (12th Feb at 1:13am)

WMADA, 45 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Attractive, fit, affectionate, intelligent, caring, respectful man seeking a like minded local woman for NSA fun, FWB etc. I'm just coming out of a marriage so can't deal with too much right now. I'm a very touchy type person, love to kiss ( I've been told many times I'm an amazing lover ;-) ) love long slow foreplay, long slow love making...... nothing turns me in more than to drive a woman wild with desire Can we satisfy each other?

BIGUN, 61 from Auckland

Bigun winked at you (1st May at 1:09am)

MAINLINER, 32 from Auckland, Auckland

Mainliner has yet to add his profile. Ask Mainliner for more info.

EMMA-KATE, 42 from Auckland

I'm a chilled out chick, new to this so just going to see how it goes?

LUELLA, 28 from Kerikeri, Northland

Luella has yet to add her profile.

JAY, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

Jay winked at you (29th Apr at 1:07am)

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Thursday at 1:52am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (29th Apr at 12:19am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Saturday at 6:15pm) Michael winked at you (Saturday at 6:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Wednesday at 7:08pm) Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm)

MAVROCK, 46 from Wellington, Wellington

Hi there, I'm a tall European professional guy (yes I wear a suit most days!) looking for delicious, discrete fun with a lady or couple. Respect for each others private lives a must, and I enjoy foreplay as much as sex it'self. Message me to find out more.... I live in Wellington, but travel to Auckland every few weeks...usually overnight in a hotel somewhere.

ROSEROYCE, 37 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm looking for a resident fuck buddy. I'm here to try and have my fantasies explored and some of them fulfilled. I'm interested in exploring bondage; constraint, domination, submission. Entry level SM, if you will. And I think I want a try at playing both roles.

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry winked at you (Monday at 4:17am) Harry sent you a message: "Hey jane" (27th Feb at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (27th Feb at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (16th Feb at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (12th Feb at 1:38am)

JUSTSEX, 44 from Manakau, Auckland

hello there just curious looking for a relationship

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "In Auckland" (Sunday at 7:36pm) George sent you a message: "Do you get wet Jane?" (Sunday at 2:17am) George sent you a message: "HI Jane" (Saturday at 1:11am) George sent you a message: "Good Afternoon Jane" (Friday at 1:16am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Thursday at 2:03am)

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane winked at you (yesterday at 1:06am)

KERRY, 62 from Auckland

Kerry winked at you (21st Feb at 1:42am)

AYA, 48 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Im a submissive looking for a dominant

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