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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Auckland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MyBedOrYours is for regular people looking for something exciting in the bedroom - someone else to join you and your partner or perhaps you have a few fantasies you want to live out. We let you explore your sexual ideas and help you connect with other people around Auckland.

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JAMESY, 21 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Ideally would like to find a regular friend with benefits (into older woman aswell (; ) who has needs satisfying yet wants a discreet relationship with no strings attached.

DAVE, 41 from Reefton, West Coast

txt me

JOHNNY, 42 from Taupo, Waikato

Johnny sent you a message: "hey" (8th Apr at 2:35am)

MARK, 50 from Weymouth, Auckland

Hi Am no smoker I am 6ftall ,I have very nice small package that work really hard,I love the outdoors swimming beachs bbw nice foods and a good wine or a cold beer ,good music.i love asianwoman black and white woman I love short woman dwarf woman disabled woman all shapes and size,really love older woman to long as you are kind in down to earth woman I not in to playing games I know what I amlooking for is longterm discreet older woman for a sex friend,so if you like me and want longterm sex friend then send me your phone number and I will be discreet if I not like you I deleted you number and wish you all the best

WAY, 37 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Way sent you a message: "cock 4 u?" (Saturday at 8:01am) Way winked at you (Saturday at 8:01am)

STEVEN, 26 from Auckland

I'll share with you if you share with me, all you gotta do is ask!

MARK, 53 from Cromwell, Otago

Hi, I'm a friendly easy going guy who is honest and caring. I love the outdoors. Looking for an honest friendly woman to have some heated nsa fun with

SUMMERFUN, 44 from Hamilton, Waikato

Would you like to meet in the middle of nowhere and explore each other's bodies under the sun, teasing each other until we can't take it anymore......

STEVE, 62 from Blockhouse Bay, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:23am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:19am) Steve sent you a message: "Jan" (4th Apr at 9:40am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (29th Mar at 8:41pm) Steve winked at you (29th Mar at 9:47am)

FRENCHY, 26 from Auckland

Looking for a one night stand after my crazy hours of work so between 3am and 7am depends of day. Someone who needs as much sex as I do and good. No dates for now thanks but a bottle of white wine is welcome.

KELLY, 28 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Hello ,well I'm currently living in between whangarei and Auckland I go between both every few weeks for work...so I'm interested to get to know some females threw out my travels ,Im not looking for a relationship or to get tied down I'm just dtf.

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (16th Jan at 1:44am) Jonathan winked at you (10th Jan at 2:22am) Jonathan added you as a Favourite (10th Jan at 2:21am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi jane" (9th Jan at 1:14am)

HAWNYSAMOAN, 26 from Auckland

Hawnysamoan has yet to add his profile. Ask Hawnysamoan for more info.

COLIN, 27 from Albany, Auckland

Captain so naturally a fit out going person who loves excitement and adventure

GARETH, 30 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Gareth winked at you (yesterday at 1:02am) Gareth winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

MIKE, 43 from Auckland

I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. I love to satisfy a women

VEYRON, 54 from Auckland

Veyron has yet to add his profile. Ask Veyron for more info.

JUSTASK, 40 from Paihia, Northland

Hi I do have a girlfriend but thing have really gone a bit flat and looking for some adult fun so if a discreet encounter is what your looking for then it's a very sexy win win for the both of us. Love giving and receiving oral watching or making porn and love living a sexy life I've had ffm threesome before and would love another. I love feeling and being horny.

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry sent you a message: "HEY" (yesterday at 1:33am) Harry winked at you (yesterday at 1:33am) Harry added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 1:33am)

SAM, 29 from Glenfield, Auckland

Nice guy looking for fun and good company Can give a pretty good back and shoulder rub

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