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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Auckland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

One night stands in Auckland

There is no faster, easier way to hook up with local guys and girls looking for no strings sex, local swingers or even a discreet affair.

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JED, 48 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Jed sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Mar at 1:10am)

ALAN, 44 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (yesterday at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (Sunday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:33am) Alan winked at you (Friday at 2:16am)

STEVE, 47 from Nelson, Nelson

I like being naughty - let's see how far we can go

GARETH, 30 from Auckland

Gareth winked at you (Friday at 1:02am) Gareth winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

NAPPASAI, 36 from Taupo, Waikato

I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua. If you are brilliant enough figure out from what i said in BIG.

ADAM, 34 from Kingsley Heights, Wellington

NSA genuine ladies only Really down to earth guy here for a bit of fun, recently broke up , so NSA at this time. Enjoy gym and outdoors. I'm a professional, earn well, cannot host unfortunately but can travel

HOLDEN, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Just here for NSA fun if you can handel that then give me a yell only real people please and if you dont like to be asked some straight up questions then read what this site about ONE night stands

BRIAN, 42 from Burnside, Canterbury

Brian winked at you (yesterday at 2:44am) Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 1:04am) Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (26th Mar at 5:07am)

FRANKIIE, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

I'm a single, stay at home mum just looking for some friends and maybe some fun.

SUCKA, 49 from Mangere East, Auckland

Hi me like to meet older ladies like 30+.

CARL, 56 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

hello.......updated profile.... im 55 Maori /Hungarian single straight up honest respectful great sense of humour into fishing meeting people and enjoying life....id like to meet a lady for friendship companionship company outing and weekends away in these times its hard to meet someone as we all lead busy lives with family jobs friends so i understand we cant live out of each others pockets...so regular meets for coffee chats dinner movies cuddles[i love] and sex if thats what we decide to do[ i love giving oral my pleasure is giving pleasure]to be honest ive visited a few of these dating sites as well as join and i can not beleave how many stunning and attractive woman that are on these sites....looks....age.... size... mean not a lot to me[i wish id never put a photo on here] its your being that i want to see you manner your wit and your compassion and your passion for something that bothers you....hey im not going to hold my breath that im going to meet anyone on here or any other sites but what the hell thanks ladies for reading**my apologizes to anyone that ive contacted winked a few times .....im not a storker....its just something about the pix i cant look away from .....oh and the photo is 8 years old lost weight greyer and i hope smarter.....cheers

ROGER, 62 from Grafton, Auckland

Roger added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 10:10am) Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Sunday at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (Wednesday at 2:03am)

NAPPASAI, 36 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua.

RUFOURMENOW, 62 from Auckland

Rufourmenow winked at you (15th Mar at 12:28am)

MARK, 52 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi there. I am an easy going independent Caucasian Kiwi guy. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build, with fair hair. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm average build and pretty fit. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I'm easy to get on with and happy with all sorts, provided there is a spark and we are having good clean hot fun! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants her needs to be taken care of properly and wants to have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapiti/Wellington areas. Discretion is appreciated and will be returned. Drop me a note and say hi :)

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy winked at you (yesterday at 1:22am) Maddy sent you a message: "some fun tonight" (14th Apr at 1:18am) Maddy sent you a message: "are you free tonight" (8th Apr at 1:09am) Maddy winked at you (8th Apr at 1:08am) Maddy winked at you (2nd Apr at 1:47am)

UMA, 50 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Uma has yet to add his profile. Ask Uma for more info.

JOHN, 69 from Red Beach, Auckland

am fit and healthy enjoy sex far too much need nsa action fwb casual or ongoing if we good together

CANEYE, 40 from Auckland

Anyone around here for a few days!!!!

UPURBUM, 43 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. What I want tagline M4F+ - Cxxx Up Ur Bxx - Solve censored phrase, Northland short PG I want to something iRL that a lot women enjoy but are sometimes hesitant to allow on a first play-date. Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. Pick the ones U like in return for the 1 that gives me sexual satisfaction. short Sweet Mary U R blunt! Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. All U ladies if you're willing to meet me In Real Life then we'll play and have lotsa Fun da low down Please don't be put off by my interests or ideal fantasy ... only one thing is essential to consent to for play-dates In Real Life. OK some obvious stuff: I am Drug and Disease Free I scrub up well and will do so again once I get to our play date (if possible) It is my pleasure to pleasure U but this is only offered to Honeys that consent to being involved in ????????????????? I never intentionally 'touch' ANYONE without their express consent / permission In fact quite often...

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