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Li has yet to add his profile. Ask Li for more info.
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Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (Wednesday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)
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George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (yesterday at 1:27am) George winked at you (yesterday at 1:25am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:14am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Sunday at 1:15am) George sent you a message: "Have a great weekend Jane" (Friday at 12:09am)
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I am attractive and intelligent and have needs that are dying to be satisfied. I'm also open to looking at a more serious friendship if its a mutual attraction.
I'm a fit non-judgemental 'more-mature' guy; looking for a female counterpart for company in the Christchurch area. I would like someone smart and funny, who enjoys a wine (not whine), and isn't a non-smoker. Thanks for reading this far :) I'm trying to keep this short and punchy, as we are all busy people and want to get onto the good stuff :)
Strong man soft heart. Blue eyes. Work at sea Long walks on the beach with my dog Jesus. Love great sex. Fishing and hunting. Single man
Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share quality time with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)
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Woody has yet to add his profile. Ask Woody for more info.
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There is more to My Bed or Yours than just meeting people for sex. Maybe you are feeling horny and want to flirt with someone online for a bit or possibly you are in a committed relationship but you enjoy reading other peoples sex diaries or checking out their photos.
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