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KELLIE, 32 from Te Rapa, Waikato

Kellie has yet to add her profile.

MARIA, 64 from Auckland, Auckland

I like the harmony in everything, life, nature,, with family ,friends and in a relationship.

ANTHONY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Anthony winked at you (yesterday at 1:58am)

RACHEL, 31 from Bay Of Plenty

Im here for so crazy sex before I leave NZ

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)

ELLE, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi there. I'm looking for naughty discreet fun with a real man who is strong, well groomed, classy, experienced and respectful. 35-45 age range would suit. Sorry not interested in boys with no experience or stamina. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh. Only here for one off encounters, NSA. Happy to chat first to see if we have chemistry.

FENELLA, 65 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Fenella has yet to add her profile.

KITTEN, 25 from Bay Of Plenty

Just a kitten looking for a master, if you think you can handle me ;)

NATASHA, 40 from Dunedin, Otago

40 Married, naughty, and horny, 153cm tall, 74kgs curvy big boobs. Love to go out riding my 250cc motor scooter when ever i can. Also love going out walking to keep fit. Looking for a caring guy not someone that is rough.

LEXIS, 28 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Lexis has yet to add her profile.

TASH, 28 from Grafton, Auckland

Love older guys, must be gentle. So if you love a big girl, then you're my type x

BUZZ, 56 from North Shore, Auckland

I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...

MAVROCK, 46 from Wellington, Wellington

Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 7:24pm) Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)

MISCHIEF, 51 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

lonely lady needing attention...seeking discreet date/friendship with a nice respecful guy.. Meet up.dinner, drinks then see where that leads...can make it a casual thing....weekly etc....what suits both party's....if interested let's talk...prefer older gentlmen....

MICHELLE, 41 from Bay Of Plenty

Hi new to the NAUGHTY FOURTY ERA. I am a bi-curious, happily married to a liked minded, open minded, bi- curious partner. We are both looking for new fun no drama, no strings attached, casual encounters with DISCREET locals of like minded experimental, exciting people, couples singles ALL WELCOME

TASH, 28 from Grafton, Auckland

Love older guys, must be gentle

UPURBUM, 43 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...

KANA, 29 from Bay Of Plenty

Kana has yet to add her profile.

CURIOUSXX, 24 from Saint Clair, Otago

Couple 42M and 25F looking for new ventures, a bit of fun, and some couples or a guy willing to take it easy. A bit of touching to begin with and lets see where that takes us. If you are interested then you must have pictures or be willing to send pictures then we will do the same.

LINA, 27 from Bay Of Plenty

Not interested in idiots P.S I have gotten some really out of it messages which can be sometimes awkward so if you are one of them you won't be getting a reply! Oh yeah and BTW I am a Pacific islander FYI too the guy and every other person that may what to know!!!

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