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ATELIER, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

I have a bubbly personality a wicked but Awesum sense of humor... Im open to try new things. Discreet n open fun im after so if yr keen Holler. I'm very very norti.

PAT, 60 from Bay Of Plenty

looking for no strings sex. im very capable in oral play which I just love. im very easy to talk to. Im shaved , very clean and extremely open minded.im also very capable at massage. my motto is the woman always cumes first.

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

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JUSTFUN, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

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IGOR, 46 from Dunedin, Otago

I look for a friendly , good humor woman to spend a time fun It may be out side or at home , doesn't matter

MSSQUE, 21 from Manukau, Northland

No Strings attached. No anal. Strictly Friends with benefits! Thick boys onlyyyyyyyyyyyy im a thick madame - so if you can handle a fat ass, with fat tits and tiger marks, be my guest. Maybe get me high/drunk first ;)

JOANNE, 32 from East Tamaki, Auckland

Hi I am wanting to have some fun and sex I have a bubbly personality

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

Harry winked at you (Wednesday at 5:07am) Harry winked at you (15th Apr at 4:18am) Harry winked at you (14th Apr at 1:22am)

TROY, 30 from Waitara, Taranaki

hi im a young fella and am an honest kiwi bloke with the heart of gold so message me if u want to know more. im a spray painter and a fireman in my spare time.

FRANK, 57 from Hornby, Canterbury

Love outdoors tramping.

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "some fun tonight" (14th Apr at 1:18am) Maddy sent you a message: "are you free tonight" (8th Apr at 1:09am) Maddy winked at you (8th Apr at 1:08am) Maddy winked at you (2nd Apr at 1:47am) Maddy sent you a message: "hello" (2nd Apr at 1:31am)

CAL, 41 from Bay Of Plenty

Here's the thing love sex, just not looking for a relationship atm. Also up for massage swaps

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am) Naked winked at you (3rd Apr at 11:49am) Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (30th Mar at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (30th Mar at 2:01am)

MAORI, 53 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

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KERRY, 65 from Bay Of Plenty

I am and fit and into the outdoors. Having just moved back to my home from working in North Canterbury, Its great to be back. I have spent all my working life in Conservation in one form or another. I love the bush, mountains, and the sea. My recreational interests are Wild life photography, fishing, and sport. I am looking for an attractive, sensous and intellegent lady slim to avarage build who shares common interests. I own my own home which I take pride in, as I do in myself. I enjoy company and socilising, and am happy in my own company as well. I have a very positive attitude and do not like negativity, or negative people. I enjoy life to the max and I would really like to share my life with a like minded partner. A casual friendship and / or relationship could be a good start. I am a passionate and considerate lover and really want to meet a similar minded woman. The entire slow ritual of making love and having wonderful and exciting sex is the best of human pleasure between man and woman.

ALICE, 23 from Auckland, Auckland

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WOOD, 26 from Bay Of Plenty

I'm at 26 year old lad out for some fun.

JAZ, 28 from Wellington, Wellington

I love hiphop music, I am openminded and honest, I am also very shy. I'm usually bubbly and outgoing once I'm out of my shell. I love going clubbing, and going to the movies. I love the colour metallic blue and hot pink. I love all animals except big dogs and horses. Anything else u want to know just ask

AMANDA, 36 from Albany, Auckland

Elegant but wild inside. Not enough sex at have home. Look for NSA fun with a guy who is proud of himself in bedroom.

LOKI, 45 from Greenlane, Auckland

Looking for something discrete and on-going with the right person. Would enjoy a drink a laugh and then see where it goes...

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