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Adrian sent you a message: "Heya!" (9th Apr at 8:11am)
All Im looking for is a little afternoon delight no strings or comebacks Im no to bothered about size. Shape. Colour. Age. Etc. Weather you look like the photo in your profile or not. As long as you are happy sexy clean Loving I am an older person. So I take my time. I love foreplay and leaving my Lady happy satisfied Im very Discreet as I want my lady to be Discreet to
Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 2:15am)
Wanaeat winked at you (Saturday at 4:39am)
Hi, I am looking for new adventures, knowing new landscapes, people, and tastes. My philosophy is that we have to provide our best for each other because our time for happiness is limited. I used to be a sportsman and still have some strengths. I am looking for an age appropriate relationship, but openness for experiments and kind personality are the most important factors. I am discrete, clean and reliable.
Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)
Steve winked at you (yesterday at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (Wednesday at 1:18am) Steve sent you a message: "I hope you can imagine this. A..." (15th Feb at 6:59am) Steve winked at you (15th Feb at 6:58am) Steve winked at you (13th Feb at 4:14am)
to drive you crazy with my tongue and also in other ways. You will be single, devorced, seperated woman and i am aslo interested in pleasuring YOU and a female friend.
I am a good looking, well hung experienced Dom. I am on the lookout for a sub to share some safe and sane kink experiences on a regular basis. I am an oral devotee, and have been told on numerous occasions that I am excellent at eating pussy and ass tee hee. If you are inexperienced, I am happy to teach you the joys of kink in a safe environment with the upmost discretion. If you want an a play session that will spin your wheels, message me :-) Cheers Jono x
Michael winked at you (23rd Apr at 8:58pm) Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm)
Looking for a good time.Would like to fuck a married woman nice hard so that she comes back for more.I want to start an affair
Meimei has yet to add her profile.
Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 2:48am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Ello!" (Tuesday at 4:20am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 4:20am) Jonathan sent you a message: "." (17th Feb at 4:26am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am)
Enjoy sensual touch giving and recieving. I'm married and in a genuine open relationship that has grown stronger over the last 35years so i'm not looking for a wife. Love meeting new people and enjoying their company sometimes that leads to some very sensual encounters and other times a great friendship. Try to enjoy life and not worry about what others think. Would like to meet a lady/ladies who are happy in their own skin and will except that my relationship with my wife won't change.( you can use me then send me home)
I'm very open,prefers a gentleman with a bit of a rough edge to the personality...I'm married but why stop ter wen you can enjoy life to its last peak. Im up for anything. I have a very angel n devil personality.I'm not getting younger so I Live it or Live On. Buzz if u want to have a special coffee with me..Lol.
George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (21 minutes ago) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 6:47pm) George winked at you (Wednesday at 1:57am) George winked at you (Tuesday at 1:05am) George sent you a message: "Do you want to see a picture?" (17th Feb at 1:11am)
Steve winked at you (16th Feb at 8:10am) Steve sent you a message: "." (14th Feb at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (13th Feb at 5:11am)
Damien winked at you (20th Feb at 4:04am)
I am assuredly a saint, seeking an angel?!.....but I am also prepared to be open about my shadow side!....if fully reciprocated. I have been called an eco-warrior, and whacky. I have been away travelling and working, 12 years. We are not getting younger , so, open to adventures, even commitment, while I can. About me...hungry....big appetite, not just for food. Big ears, big nose... Big ears, big nose... ,big hands......big ... gloves........ Finally, I expect to get ,and give, decent performance!!
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