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MICHAEL, 31 from Auckland, Auckland

Looking for casual connection - from adventures in nature, to dancing, to cooking together, to passionate and affectionate sex and snuggles all the way to a wild fuck and fetishes. I love to connect, learn, grow and have fun on all levels - innocent or not. Must be casual as I have many different things going on, businesses, hobbies, to running and building my travelers community. I'm a dreamer that is driven to achieve whats in my head - no mater how crazy or alternative they are. Embracing life and aiming to make the most and live it to the fullest.

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Shorty has yet to add his profile. Ask Shorty for more info.

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (Saturday at 5:39am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 4:08am) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 1:39am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 1:11am) Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 2:01am)

CHRISTINA, 63 from Nelson

I think i am okay and enjoy sharing in all ways

ELIZABETH, 39 from Newton, Auckland

39yo single mum, 168cm tall, curvy size 18. I like to be told what to do in a respectful way and I'm fairly good at following instructions ;)

PHILIP, 50 from Nelson

Want to share passion with passion, pleasure with pleasure.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Happy Birthday Jane" (24th Jan at 2:05am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (23rd Jan at 1:18am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (22nd Jan at 2:17am) George winked at you (22nd Jan at 1:05am) George winked at you (19th Jan at 1:34am)

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:19am)

DONZ, 30 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Like to have a good time...... Love big dick .... The bigger the better........ Keen for a bit of fun ........ Very very kinky ... Experience a must !!!! Toys or other female company welcome...

HITHARD, 40 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

Love licking pusi honestly love it and wanting no strings attached. No photos no chat .hey u need to have something in ur profile, likes etc.

SAM, 40 from Nelson

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (yesterday at 1:37pm)

BRIAN, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

outdoors man skin on skin talk about anything Enjoy give and take banter, good food, public play, warm fires, hot prolonged sex

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Hi there I'm 6ft tall male of Maori decent , like the ladies im here for fun I like most thing social drinker/smoker not looking for anything serious I enjoy the company of funny confident mature ladies. I love sex especially when you've been satisfied I enjoy the outdoor sex the thought of been caught is exciting love giving oral.

TONY, 36 from Kaiti, East Cape

Keen as to fk let's see what happens ;)

KEV, 60 from Manaroa, Marlborough

Sporty fitish guy lol Great sense of humour I know my way around a lady :p

PETE, 41 from Kaiti, East Cape

Constantly horny , always seeking to satiate my desires. I'm just looking for some good old NSA fun. I like to work out and get the blood flowing and try to stay in shape. I like to be sensuous and excite all the senses, always looking to extend the boundaries

JOHN, 67 from Nelson

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

MAC, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Mac sent you a message: "Hey" (Friday at 1:15am) Mac winked at you (8th Jan at 1:18am)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Active and personable businessman with sense of humour, tall and fit and looking for regular fun meetings with lady for chat and pleasure. If you are in or near Auckland and like good conversation and nice sex drop me a line! I like good conversation, coffee meetings, movies and motorsports and long foreplay sessions

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