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GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (yesterday at 1:27am) George winked at you (yesterday at 1:25am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:14am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Sunday at 1:15am) George sent you a message: "Have a great weekend Jane" (Friday at 12:09am)

MATT, 39 from Nelson

Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)

COOL, 53 from Nelson

very sociable and friendly, like to go out occasionally for quiet drinks, and meeting people, watching movies is cool, quiet nights at home watching TV is cool too, I'm just a normal guy that likes to enjoy life

GLENN, 62 from Auckland, Auckland

Glenn sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (20th Feb at 1:14am)

SHUMBA, 39 from Grafton, Auckland

Shumba sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 2:48am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (Friday at 1:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (Friday at 1:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (Friday at 1:31am) Sam winked at you (Friday at 1:30am)

GOODHANDU, 51 from Stratford, Taranaki

Goodhandu winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

HEARTZ, 36 from Kaikohe, Northland

I know what I want and keen. NSA FUN (unda the covers)

LI, 26 from Mclaren Park, Auckland

Li has yet to add his profile. Ask Li for more info.

SAB, 23 from Auckland, Auckland

Sab has yet to add his profile. Ask Sab for more info.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:14am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Sunday at 1:15am) George sent you a message: "Have a great weekend Jane" (Friday at 12:09am) George sent you a message: "you know you want to see" (Thursday at 1:11am) George added you as a Favourite (Thursday at 1:08am)

ROB, 28 from Waitakere, Auckland

Say hi, im pretty open

MARKOPOLIS, 56 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm a fit non-judgemental 'more-mature' guy; looking for a female counterpart for company in the Christchurch area. I would like someone smart and funny, who enjoys a wine (not whine), and isn't a non-smoker. Thanks for reading this far :) I'm trying to keep this short and punchy, as we are all busy people and want to get onto the good stuff :)

CHUCKY, 50 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Chucky has yet to add his profile. Ask Chucky for more info.

CABLE, 57 from Nelson

Cable winked at you (22 minutes ago) Cable winked at you (Saturday at 5:39am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 4:08am) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 1:39am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 1:11am)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (Friday at 12:00am) Naked winked at you (8th Mar at 1:58pm) Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am)

JONO, 54 from Nelson

I am a good looking, well hung experienced Dom. I am on the lookout for a sub to share some safe and sane kink experiences on a regular basis. I am an oral devotee, and have been told on numerous occasions that I am excellent at eating pussy and ass tee hee. If you are inexperienced, I am happy to teach you the joys of kink in a safe environment with the upmost discretion. If you want an a play session that will spin your wheels, message me :-) Cheers Jono x

JORDAN, 32 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for fun or a serious relationship. Love camping,fishing, anything outdoors.

MICHAEL, 51 from Nelson

Michael sent you a message: "helo" (Sunday at 6:52pm) Michael winked at you (Sunday at 6:51pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (4th Mar at 6:15pm) Michael winked at you (4th Mar at 6:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (1st Mar at 7:08pm)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Luke sent you a message: "Hey" (8th Mar at 2:40am) Luke winked at you (13th Feb at 8:13am)

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