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SHELLY, 41 from Nelson

I am looking for someone to chat with and have regular dates. As I enjoy company. I am not looking for a f buddy nor a new husband lol

ATELIER, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Discreet no bullshit fun I'm after. Skip the small talk I love sex so holler

CHOCPIXIE, 37 from Grafton, Auckland

Hello, Waiting for an older dominant man who wants an online naughty kitty.

SUKHVINDER, 51 from Nelson

Sukhvinder has yet to add his profile. Ask Sukhvinder for more info.

GUY, 37 from Glenfield, Auckland

Hi. I'm just trying this out...feeding my wild side...not sure what to expect...I love sex and are looking for someone to have some fun with!.. .

XTINA, 40 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Single female seeking nsa or casual fun. Establish as friends first before progressing further. Must have chemistry. Do not contact me if you are over 50. I am not interested in any way.

GEMMA, 32 from Nelson, Nelson

Just a bit of fun :)

JOYBELLS, 74 from Ohariu, Wellington

I am a widow and .i'm looking for a man to be in my life at this stage for friendship and see where it takes us. He must be affectionate loyal, honest, and have plenty of passion and loves to pleasure his lady the way she should be.. I can assure the right man he will be well satisfied, I look forward to hearing from a nice guy preferably not too far away from Wellington as long distance relationships are very hard. I live in Upper Hutt not Ohariu as they have put on this site for some stupid reason they won't let you change it.

ANNE, 39 from Longburn, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking for some fun NSA

JAMES, 46 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

James winked at you (28th Apr at 4:17am)

EMLEE, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm cautious and overthink things, so I guess I'm looking for someone who can pull me out of that funk.

MOKA, 63 from Grafton, Auckland

Looking for someone who is sexy and love it..

MATT, 39 from Nelson

Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (yesterday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (Monday at 1:10am)

LYNN, 64 from Eastern Beach, Auckland

I am loving and very sensual.. would love to find a man who knows how to stir a womans erotic senses, and realises, the brain, is the biggest sex organ.. I am willing to listen and understand most things... i fantasise about having a man to share erotic experiences with me

MOKA, 74 from Wiri, Auckland

Moka has yet to add her profile.

RUBILYN, 54 from Nelson

Rubilyn has yet to add her profile.

TOMTOM, 30 from Nelson

Tomtom has yet to add his profile. Ask Tomtom for more info.

PRISCILLA, 50 from Balmoral, Auckland

My kind of inner feelings with that someone is all Hard n Fast to the bitter end. There after a quick breather for round 2 until the Full Satisfaction is Complete.,.... Well I surpose until we drop off to sleep Nothing like a morning wake up call to put a smile on each others face to greet the morning sun shower then some of us go to work.I like the night time encounter as that's the wine down after a hard days work. Just remember I'm pretty full of beans and no rest for the wicked? Won't know until you try it to find out? Don't Hold Back the only way your going to know is Just Doing It As Marvin Gaye sings 'Lets Get it On'

MORGAN, 28 from Newmarket, Auckland

I'm just a keen not so experienced woman looking for some no strings respectful fun. I'm larger than life if you get my drift and a box of laughs! I work a lot and longs hours, so not able to keep someone cling entertained. Flick me a message if you want to chat, be brave. ;-)

AROHA, 46 from Whakatahuri, Marlborough

About me .. live life no regret .. life is short .. lets live it with our pants down .. lol .. who knows whats gonna happen .. might be dead tomorrow .. bring it on ..

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While our dedicated customer support team regularly monitors new profiles and looks for suspicious activity to keep scammers and time waters out, our "women go free" offer ensures we have a great mix of both men and women from all over NZ. If you have tried adult dating in the past, you may have noticed that many sites suffer from a very male dominated member base. This leads to disappointed members who need to compete for limited numbers of women in their area. Our 'women go free' offer combats this by providing unlimited, free access for all female members giving us one of the most even membership ratios in the business. Don't be fooled by sites quoting huge numbers of members. Go with a site like us who can promise a great ratio of both male and female members and only genuine, active members not automated messages, fake profile or inactive accounts.

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