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George winked at you (Wednesday at 6:30am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:16am) George sent you a message: "Back to Auckland" (Saturday at 2:44am) George sent you a message: "Happy Birthday Jane" (24th Jan at 2:05am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (23rd Jan at 1:18am)
I live life.....meaning I love life. I live life to the fullest....as it is a short life we all have. So here we go: I'm funny, confident, will make you laugh, will give you orgasms, I'm good looking and intelligent, witty and sporty. I'm relaxed without being a smoker, but I love a drink once/twice a week. I'm educated, successful and well travelled. I own property but i'm not a capitalist. You can't take it with you. Come and meet me. Message me....don't be shy. Luv Tony xx
My name is Isaac, i am looking for someone to spend a little time with, maybe go out for some drinks then have some sexual fun, i am pretty open minded when it comes to sex so don't be afraid to ask if you want to try something, looks are only skin deep and all women have a certain beauty about them so if you like the look of me flick me a message, I am quite a private soft natured person so if you are opininated/loud/mouthy, we probably wont get along. loud when drunk doesn't count of course :). Im not looking for anything serious at the moment. I have a pretty relaxed personality, there isn't much that stresses me out. I look forward to meeting you:)
Bohemia winked at you (Sunday at 1:56am) Bohemia winked at you (9th Feb at 1:00am) Bohemia winked at you (8th Feb at 1:43am)
I fantasise a bout Sex in public, where you could get seen or found out by someone who you don't know
Michael winked at you (Saturday at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)
Looking for some discrete no strings attached fun FWB maybe. Dont smoke or do drugs. Can't beat getting hot and steamy with someone to keep fit. Like to enjoy a good red with a movie or music. Game to try something new.
Jim winked at you (Monday at 9:47pm)
Dave winked at you (Wednesday at 1:28am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:19am)
Looking to provide some fun and excitement for a like minded local(ish) woman, no strings, just mutual fulfillment and good company. My love life has been neglected and lost in the wilderness for far too long now so energy to burn!
I'm looking for someone who is hot, horny, wet and a nice tight pussy
Easy going and drama free.. keen to chat and meet if your the same.. don't hesitate to say hello..
Flavio sent you a message: "hola" (Wednesday at 2:04am) Flavio winked at you (Wednesday at 2:04am)
I am new to this. But basically looking for some fun with a talented individual...
Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi there jane" (yesterday at 1:41am) Jonathan added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 1:36am) Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 1:36am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 1:51am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (10th Feb at 1:59am)
i go to events been doing on my own over it ,so its about the now ,and all that it brings, iam open minded,love music,art outdoors stuff.so iam open ,i have no walls only doors.so iam looking for one on one contact, live the now,so if thats you ,lets open doors
I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. :)
Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:13am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:08am)
Bob winked at you (Monday at 1:46am) Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (9th Feb at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (3rd Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (1st Feb at 1:56am)
Bryan winked at you (4th Feb at 7:41am) Bryan sent you a message: "Hi" (28th Jan at 1:11am) Bryan winked at you (28th Jan at 1:10am)
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