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GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Happy Birthday Jane" (24th Jan at 2:05am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (23rd Jan at 1:18am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (22nd Jan at 2:17am) George winked at you (22nd Jan at 1:05am) George winked at you (19th Jan at 1:34am)

FRED, 64 from Dunedin, Otago

seem shy till you get to know me. good sense of humor.

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Shorty has yet to add his profile. Ask Shorty for more info.

PHILIP, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Want to share passion with passion, pleasure with pleasure.

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

CANUCK, 39 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

MAC, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Mac sent you a message: "Hey" (Friday at 1:15am) Mac winked at you (8th Jan at 1:18am)

SAM, 40 from Nelson

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (yesterday at 1:37pm)

ELIZABETH, 39 from Newton, Auckland

39yo single mum, 168cm tall, curvy size 18. I like to be told what to do in a respectful way and I'm fairly good at following instructions ;)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Active and personable businessman with sense of humour, tall and fit and looking for regular fun meetings with lady for chat and pleasure. If you are in or near Auckland and like good conversation and nice sex drop me a line! I like good conversation, coffee meetings, movies and motorsports and long foreplay sessions

DONZ, 30 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Like to have a good time...... Love big dick .... The bigger the better........ Keen for a bit of fun ........ Very very kinky ... Experience a must !!!! Toys or other female company welcome...

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

TONY, 36 from Kaiti, East Cape

Keen as to fk let's see what happens ;)

STEWART, 54 from Nelson

Looking for a fun girl with a wicked sense of humor and a quick wit. Naughty but nice sugar and spice. Like to teach love being taught. Love to make women feel satisfied .

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Hi there I'm 6ft tall male of Maori decent , like the ladies im here for fun I like most thing social drinker/smoker not looking for anything serious I enjoy the company of funny confident mature ladies. I love sex especially when you've been satisfied I enjoy the outdoor sex the thought of been caught is exciting love giving oral.

MICHAEL, 31 from Nelson

Looking for casual connection - from adventures in nature, to dancing, to cooking together, to passionate and affectionate sex and snuggles all the way to a wild fuck and fetishes. I love to connect, learn, grow and have fun on all levels - innocent or not. Must be casual as I have many different things going on, businesses, hobbies, to running and building my travelers community. I'm a dreamer that is driven to achieve whats in my head - no mater how crazy or alternative they are. Embracing life and aiming to make the most and live it to the fullest.

CHRISTINA, 63 from Point Chevalier, Auckland

I think i am okay and enjoy sharing in all ways

PAUL, 58 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

KEV, 60 from Nelson

Sporty fitish guy lol Great sense of humour I know my way around a lady :p

NICK, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Nick sent you a message: "Hello there......" (24th Jan at 10:34pm)

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