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Adult dating is for people who don't want a full on relationship - or for those who want to spice up an existing one. Fancy seeing your partner with another girl? We help people find the right adult relationship for them. Our discreet service lets you find the people that are going turn the heat up on your sex life. You can take things slowly - flirting on our social media messaging service. Or dive right in and arrange to meet someone. It's up to you what you do and who you do it with.

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STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Steve winked at you (Thursday at 8:10am) Steve sent you a message: "." (Tuesday at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 5:11am)

VAUGHAN, 42 from Katikati, Bay Of Plenty

I work hard n play hard,always got sumthing 2 do. No time to find Mrs right so were is Mrs right now??

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (4th May at 1:52am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (3rd May at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (29th Apr at 12:19am)

R, 36 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

R has yet to add his profile. Ask R for more info.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

MARK, 51 from Orewa, Auckland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

ANDRES, 47 from Nelson

Looking for some fun nsa .

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry winked at you (Thursday at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry sent you a message: "Hey" (4th Feb at 1:04am) Harry winked at you (4th Feb at 1:03am)

ATELIER, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Just after discreet fun. I'm Funny n Curious n my sex drive is very high...lol. I'm very open prefers a gentleman with a bit of a rough edge to the personality.Done things in life by myself and it's abit lonely..I am married but I won't tell. If yr keen just holler.

FOREPLAYS, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

I will start by holding you close so that i can feel your soft body touching, then i will start kissing on your soft neck while moving my hands on your soft body I will then slide down my tongue towards your neck while your soft boobs will be pressing against my hard chest then i will roll my tongue around your soft breast while i will move my fingers up the thighs slowly, msg for chat to see how it goes ;)

PETER, 42 from Wiri, Auckland

Looking to please

WINNIE, 24 from Hamilton, Waikato

Winnie sent you a message: "Here For Nsa Fun Causal Discre..." (yesterday at 12:15pm)

CROSBYP, 44 from Nelson

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

LOKI, 45 from Nelson

Loki winked at you (4th Feb at 1:22am)

READYFORIT, 48 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Readyforit has yet to add his profile. Ask Readyforit for more info.

FUCKANDGO, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 4:26am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (3rd Feb at 1:18am) Fuckandgo winked at you (3rd Feb at 1:17am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (2nd Feb at 1:17am)

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)

ERIC, 53 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Here seeking female contact for hot sexcapades. Not a partner to live with. I am married. Yes she knows! In fact if you are also as sexual as she is you may like to meet her. I am not seeking a ffm threesome. She enjoys mmf threesome. I look forward to meeting with you. I like to meet up quickly! No endless texts please. We can decide if we fuck when we meet ok? I'm happy to accept a No! I have been meeting ladies for years now. Should you have another sex partner as well ! Let's 4sum! We are not bi.

GRANT, 49 from Manaia, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

MIKE, 29 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Just found this site and looking around... =) I'm a tradie working on the rebuild and here to either find someone long term or just for fun... live on my own so can accommodate those naughty adventures.. hehe. Hit me up and let's have some fun.. ;)

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