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Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.
Single female seeking nsa or casual fun. Establish as friends first before progressing further. Must have chemistry. Do not contact me if you are over 50. I am not interested in any way.
New to this ... Wanna play? Coz I do hehehe. Just out here looking for fun. Nothing serious.
I am a widow and .i'm looking for a man to be in my life at this stage for friendship and see where it takes us. He must be affectionate loyal, honest, and have plenty of passion and loves to pleasure his lady the way she should be.. I can assure the right man he will be well satisfied, I look forward to hearing from a nice guy preferably not too far away from Wellington as long distance relationships are very hard. I live in Upper Hutt not Ohariu as they have put on this site for some stupid reason they won't let you change it.
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Discreet no bullshit fun I'm after. Skip the small talk I love sex so holler
I am loving and very sensual.. would love to find a man who knows how to stir a womans erotic senses, and realises, the brain, is the biggest sex organ.. I am willing to listen and understand most things... i fantasise about having a man to share erotic experiences with me
I am a overweight women.have been single for 8 months i really like to have a good time. Like been licked all over and eatenI'm looking for someone to fulfil my wildest fantasies and if you catch me in the right mood I might well help fulfil yours too. Drop me a line and let's arrange to get at it soon."if you are married or in a relationship i perfer not to chat with you as i. Know how it feels to be cheated on and thats a no no to me sorry Would also. Like to try a threesome wwm for the first time never had a women. Before
Pretty laid back sort of guy. Married 38 years now separated. Love eating out and spoiling a lady at home with gourmet recipes. Rolling Stones fan so love to sing and dance. would like a lady who makes a man feel good. Lady must be well shaped, sexy and fun to be with.
I'm cautious and overthink things, so I guess I'm looking for someone who can pull me out of that funk.
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Looking for someone who is sexy and love it..
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About me .. live life no regret .. life is short .. lets live it with our pants down .. lol .. who knows whats gonna happen .. might be dead tomorrow .. bring it on ..
Just a bit of fun :)
My kind of inner feelings with that someone is all Hard n Fast to the bitter end. There after a quick breather for round 2 until the Full Satisfaction is Complete.,.... Well I surpose until we drop off to sleep Nothing like a morning wake up call to put a smile on each others face to greet the morning sun shower then some of us go to work.I like the night time encounter as that's the wine down after a hard days work. Just remember I'm pretty full of beans and no rest for the wicked? Won't know until you try it to find out? Don't Hold Back the only way your going to know is Just Doing It As Marvin Gaye sings 'Lets Get it On'
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I'm just a keen not so experienced woman looking for some no strings respectful fun. I'm larger than life if you get my drift and a box of laughs! I work a lot and longs hours, so not able to keep someone cling entertained. Flick me a message if you want to chat, be brave. ;-)
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