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CAITLYN, 50 from Arch Hill, Auckland

Ended a long-term relationship and looking to nibble at a new buffet. Not into casual, prefer longer term FWB. Must be fun, same SOH, thoughtful.

BAXTER, 29 from Winton, Southland

I'm a 29 year old clean tidy male, std and drug free. I enjoy a social drink and the odd ciggy with it. Currently in a very lonley, boring and none sexual relationship. I am seeking a women, any age considered, for some discreet no strings attached adult fun. I am of average build, 6ft, short hair and have a few tattoos here and there. Also if your wondering I haven't got a python in my pants, just a average sized dick clean shaven that's in desperate need of a gud time!! Love trying new things, eating pussy and anything from kinky sex to passionate love making. The closer to me the better as will make this easier to work, would b great if your able to host but while do my best to make it work for both of us. if you are interested you'll have to get hold of me. I promise a good time and am looking forward to having some fun!!

JORDAN, 23 from Whangamata, Waikato

Hey there ! So I got back from living in Los Angeles for three years about two months ago and had a wonderful time there u deicided to come back to my home country While in the US I did have a few relationships with some beautiful cougars and would love to experience that again here! Feel free to message me ! Jordan

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (19th Dec at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (18th Dec at 1:50am)

CAL, 46 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Cal winked at you (19th Dec at 4:05am)

RIOGHANN, 47 from Otago

I'm looking for sexy fun times, I'm sensitive enough to know how to touch a woman, am certainly up for all night sex, and hardly come first, but if i do, you better keep me awake for round two is gonna be yours fully... I can be a bit of a rude bastard at times, but love good sex, the wetter the better it tastes, and I also love to give sensual massages with a blindfold, have had a few experiences where the woman wants to be spanked or have a crop used, and I don't mind indulging in that either... in fact it makes me super horny.

JEREMY, 38 from Hamilton, Waikato

ive been told I'm good with my fingers. would you like to find out??? ;)

JAI, 59 from Browns Bay, Auckland

Jai winked at you (Thursday at 5:40am)

LEE, 40 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi sexy lady's ,I'm look for no strings hookup hot fun.I'm fun an respectful mature man,just want hot sex.

CHRIS, 36 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

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KEENTODO, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Keentodo sent you a message: "Hey there" (Wednesday at 1:11am)

BIGFUN, 44 from Otago

Fit, fun, sexy, professional, discreet, respectful male with a Scottish accent, an open mind and a penchant for pleasing ladies. Well endowed,excellent at licking pussy and also capable of an intelligent conversation and having a laugh too :-)

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob winked at you (Sunday at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (6th May at 1:04am) Bob sent you a message: "Hi Jane I think you should tal..." (30th Apr at 11:54am)

PHL, 60 from Carterton, Wellington

I am told I have a good sense of humour I do like a good laugh at times. I am mostly happily married apart from one area..... it doesn't take a genius to work out what area that is, therefore I'm hoping for a fling I will for sure be nervous at a first meeting until I get to know you a bit.... but after that.... well you will have to find out for yourself

WENDY, 64 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi, im a young at heart cougar wanting to get out and have some action in my life. I enjoy the outdoors keeping fit, music, travel and male company.Im a shift worker so have 4 days off at a time to get away and do stuff.Im home alone and independent.Not going to spend another summer sitting around.This is my time . As i enjoy male company im happy to assist you in anyway. That could be being a lunch/dinner date,meeting for coffee , travel companion or helping meet an invite request to bring a partner. There are many ways to enjoy your company. I enjoy pampering my men and of course expect something in return. Try me you will be delighted and want more !!

GORDON, 59 from Otago

Gordon has yet to add his profile. Ask Gordon for more info.

ANDRE, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Andre sent you a message: "....." (37 minutes ago)

DAVID, 48 from Wellington, Wellington

David sent you a message: "Newby" (yesterday at 1:55am) David sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:53am)

DEE, 25 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Dee has yet to add her profile.

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (8 minutes ago) Cable winked at you (yesterday at 1:06am) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 1:08am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 8:56pm) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 2:36am)

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