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HASH, 27 from Otago

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MIKE, 51 from Richmond, Nelson

In an unhappy relationship and want to have some quality time with someone who might also be looking for the same thing. I am healthy, fit & adventurous looking for someone the same. My physical drive is strong so looking for that same desire in a partner, nothing like a good rub and a grind to get the juices flowing right!! Also check me out at HAA and have fun!! Please update your profile and pic if you have not done this, def90v8 at hot male it all helps for chat :-)

BRENDON, 26 from Otago

Looking to meet someone for some casual fun.. Once off or on going. I'm up for almost any crazy fetishes or fantasies, try me!

TERRY, 64 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Terry winked at you (17th Apr at 1:04am)

ROB, 46 from Otago

Hi lady's I'm a 46 year old guy who has sexual desires that need to be taken care of.As I have been in a relationship for the passed twenty years the sex hasn't been happening for quite some time now.I won't put a photo up of my face because I want it to be discrete but I am able to message you a photo then you can make your decision.:)

NSAFRIENDS, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

i so enjoy the company of mature women. There is a bucket full Of fantasies and I need a friend/ a playmate/ friend with benefits for mutual gratification I am a working professional who lives on the shore. Age is just a number. We only live once. Let's pool in n make hay. I am looking for friends/ fun buddies where we can meet, greet, share a laugh and play. I am here for discrete, no strings attached meet ups. Please do message me if you will love to catch up ova coffee or drinks. Cheers!

JIMITHY, 29 from Otago

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KC, 22 from Otago

Jus keen to see who's out there and up for a good time

BAZ, 56 from Otago

I have been told I have something that most ladies love so if you want to find out drop me a line

ROBERT, 63 from Otago

Sexy Single And Sixty.

MAX, 58 from Otago

Mature, well travelled business man that enjoys exploring NZ on his motor bike. No longer a slim gym regular but still a fit and able horizontal dancer lol Enjoys the small pleasures of life including live music, good (red)wine and taste food. Looking for an adventurous open minded,sexy, nice but nawty, lady for mutual fun times, weekend away and motor bike travel around NZ. Age range totally open What would you like for breakfast? ; )

AB, 28 from Epsom, Auckland

Ab winked at you (25th Dec '16 at 11:35am)

CURIOUS, 48 from Auckland, Auckland

safe fun clean sex.no attachments Love mature men.

CRAZYHORSE, 36 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Needing some fun back in life, wanting to meet for casual fun

MICHAEL, 41 from Hawera, Taranaki

6.2ft toned, brown eyes shaved head manicured face, looking for some extra spice from life with a woman wanting the same. i am a non judgemental relaxed but driven guy. that loves to experiement in the bedroom. or out of it.. into bdsm and the finer things in life. sexually i would describe myself of a dominate personality, best suited to a submissive woman that is either exploring that side of her, or is confident in what she is after. as expected on a site like this discretion is asured. as well as respect. message me if this interests you and youd like to know more.

ANTHONY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Older guy who is looking to share some exciting experiences I just love spanking and ideally am looking for a female spanking partner, someone to share this experience - let's meet have a coffee and see where the conversation leads other things considered bondage or similar BDSM activities

CABLE, 57 from Otago

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DAMON, 40 from Otago

Hi I'm 40 years old love watching porn.Licking pussy is just the best thing ever look for a no stings partner

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

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MAURICE, 68 from Grafton, Auckland

Just me send me a message , I will reply

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