Browse our members in Otago
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I am a straight up kind of bloke and tell it the way it is. I have Zero tolerance for bullshit and have strong morals. I am a gym regular and do a daily Yoga practice as well. I am fully muscled and understand the female body. Its the mind I struggle with some times! I have an SOH and can be serious or fun or both. I ride motorcycles every day and race them on road tracks. I have a race Van to drive when its wet or are going somewhere that's appropriate. Easy to get on with and easy on the eye with clothes off. Want to know more ? Contact me.
Nobody wants me as a man so I will become a woman Any helpers ?
John winked at you (yesterday at 1:19am)
Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)
Hey im just looking for fun nights, nothing serious. Im sure there is some cute girls out there that just want to have some fun. So whos up for it?
looking for fun NSA stimulation.....casual play etc. one night stands. discrete / dirty explorati0on...
Hi, Well here is a young man trapped in an old but fit body. FACTS Just looking for 1 lady to have some fun with, Yes I am married so would be great if you were I have to hang ups Can be very discreet We all have our needs PLUS you are only here once
One great man who has been around the world and has career choices that has his future. Laugh a minute buddy with giving mind. Wants to take the first woman out to meet and know that person. If you have no body, then i will like to write and find,. One day will be with the right lady, away you heal!
Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)
Henry sent you a message: "Gidday" (Tuesday at 4:26am)
Single again after a long term relationship. Just seeing what's out there. Like to meet ASAP - be honest about what you want. Into mates, dates and everything in-between. Pretty laid back guy. Let's keep things honest ay? You tell me what you're after and I'll tell you and see where things go from there.
26 yo single male here looking for some NSA fun, no dramas, or possibly a regular fuck-buddy. Hope to hear from you ladies!!
Look like a 74year old...Fitter then most 60 years olds..I have a big SOH - Usually have a smile on my face - am fit and pass my w o f each year, and like to live every day the best way I can....BUT missing company and companionship. Although based in the BOP I would enjoy travelling in my motor home to places around NZ to meet someone special or something of interest in a town (special show-concert etc) I enjoy fishing- photography and would love to relax with a red and a good woman.
Jon sent you a message: "hello" (31st Mar at 3:21am)
Stuart winked at you (6th Apr at 1:32am)
Xavier has yet to add his profile. Ask Xavier for more info.
I am pretty and open minded. I'm looking to meet someone cool who will make me feel loved and give me reasons to smile everyday.
Jack sent you a message: "Hello" (Friday at 1:17am) Jack winked at you (Friday at 1:12am)
Nic has yet to add her profile.
Switchhit sent you a message: "Hello" (yesterday at 4:29am)
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