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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Otago based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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To put it simply, adult dating is online dating for people looking for casual relationships rather than people looking for love although we do have many members who are just interested in some saucy online fun, chatting, messaging and flirting without actually meeting strangers for sex. It's up to you how far you wish to take it, why not sign up for a free account and take a look around. Everything you do on the site is secure and confidential so you can relax and be yourself.

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PHIL, 34 from Wellington, Wellington

Looking for some nsa fun if I find someone that I click with , well who knows

PAUL, 58 from Otago

Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (Friday at 12:00am) Naked winked at you (Wednesday at 1:58pm) Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (10th Feb at 2:36am)

ROSEROYCE, 37 from Otago

Resident fuck buddy position going. Interested in exploring bondage; constraint, domination, submission. In to wrestle fucks and role playing. I'm a small woman wanting a big sexy man to explore and fulfil some of my sexual fantasies. Looking for a man with a mature and kinky approach to sex to push boundaries and limitations in a safe environment.

BRYAN, 44 from Otago

Bryan winked at you (21st Mar at 12:19am)

MARK, 47 from Otago

I'm a married man trapped in a sex less relationship.I need some discrete sex in my life Help me please.

RON, 34 from Manurewa, Auckland

I am free..message me

LAURIE, 67 from Pukekohe, Auckland

I am fit and in really god nick for my age. Along with a good attitude.

JAMES, 29 from Remuera, Auckland

I love to give. Looking to gain more experience but know what I want and what I like. Willing to try most things and looking to have as much fun as possible.

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (an hour ago) Naked winked at you (Wednesday at 1:58pm) Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (10th Feb at 2:36am)

JAY, 33 from Otago

Just a simple guy looking to chat

JOHN, 52 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi I'm In a committed but mostly sexless (last couple of years anyway) long term relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about clubbing but would Like some very discreet sexy times with a mature lady For some no strings fun times

HUNNYBUNNY, 34 from Otago

Looking for a playmate to have NSA fun with, who is based or travel to Welly often...I'll need you take your time with me, to kiss, lick and taste me...but first let's chat and see if we have a connection, make me laugh and tease me a little...xxx

NAIVEGIRL, 25 from Otago

25 year old girl looking for experience. Prefer an older man. Looking for someone to take charge, I'm open to try anything. I am blonde, brown eyes with curves. If you're a boob man - you're in luck! Natural G cup size. Let's talk and see if we should meet up. X

BRON, 39 from Taupo, Waikato

Bron has yet to add her profile.

GOLFER, 33 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Golfer has yet to add his profile. Ask Golfer for more info.

BILL, 78 from Otaki, Wellington

Bill winked at you (Friday at 10:16pm)

JON, 50 from Otago

Jon winked at you (Wednesday at 3:42am)

QUITECHILL, 24 from Westown, Taranaki

I'm back, after a two months of focusing on other things. I keep in good shape not interested in a relationship just something causal nsa fun message if your inserted.

FILLMEUP, 24 from Christchurch, Canterbury

petite blondie with a tight wee pussy who loves to be stretched and thrashed and filled up over and over...

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