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I'm separated and looking for a lady who looks after herself for some NSA fun. I very much enjoy oral sex, both giving receiving and trying different positions. I love having sex outdoors, both for the freedom and the excitement. Willing to give anything a go so why notgive me a go ))
Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. What I want tagline M4F+ - Cxxx Up Ur Bxx - Solve censored phrase, Northland short PG I want to something iRL that a lot women enjoy but are sometimes hesitant to allow on a first play-date. Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. Pick the ones U like in return for the 1 that gives me sexual satisfaction. short Sweet Mary U R blunt! Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. All U ladies if you're willing to meet me In Real Life then we'll play and have lotsa Fun da low down Please don't be put off by my interests or ideal fantasy ... only one thing is essential to consent to for play-dates In Real Life. OK some obvious stuff: I am Drug and Disease Free I scrub up well and will do so again once I get to our play date (if possible) It is my pleasure to pleasure U but this is only offered to Honeys that consent to being involved in ????????????????? I never intentionally 'touch' ANYONE without their express consent / permission In fact quite often...
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Mike sent you a message: "hi there" (yesterday at 5:33am)
I'm looking for a woman to accept me for who I am and love me until the end of the night.
NSA genuine ladies only Really down to earth guy here for a bit of fun, recently broke up , so NSA at this time. Enjoy gym and outdoors. I'm a professional, earn well, cannot host unfortunately but can travel
Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 1:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 1:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 1:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 1:30am)
Been in longterm relationship now am not and am keen to makeup for lost time hot body good with the tongue
Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (yesterday at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (yesterday at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am) Maddy added you as a Favourite (4th Mar at 1:10am)
I like to talk, laugh, drink with a woman, get the chemistry going, make it sexy, on a psychological level, make it so it's so tense that the fucking is just natural and unbelievably good.
I'm brand new here and came because I heard about it from people I am a recent resident to Auckland having moved from the Middle East so I thought I'd give it a whirl. I'm fit, 6'2" tall, slim-medium build, blondish hair.
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Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! I'm drugs free! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play safe!
Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). Pm me if interested! I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play wild and safe!
here for a bit of fun
yes I am married but have not had sex with my wife for some 30yrs medical reasons yes I have seen other women over the last 25yrs I love having sex and enjoy it I also like my partner to enjoy I just want casual relationship not live in I love lots of foreplay too I am a straight up kind gentle guy but don't want to talk on here for very long please
Dave winked at you (10th Mar at 1:38am) Dave winked at you (8th Mar at 1:29am)
Just here for NSA fun if you can handel that then give me a yell only real people please and if you dont like to be asked some straight up questions then read what this site about ONE night stands
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