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I'm looking for a woman to accept me for who I am and love me until the end of the night.
here for a bit of fun
Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...
I'm brand new here and came because I heard about it from people I am a recent resident to Auckland having moved from the Middle East so I thought I'd give it a whirl. I'm fit, 6'2" tall, slim-medium build, blondish hair.
Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 1:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 1:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 1:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 1:30am)
Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (yesterday at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (yesterday at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am) Maddy added you as a Favourite (4th Mar at 1:10am)
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Been in longterm relationship now am not and am keen to makeup for lost time hot body good with the tongue
Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! I'm drugs free! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play safe!
Dave winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)
I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...
Dave winked at you (10th Mar at 1:38am) Dave winked at you (8th Mar at 1:29am)
Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). Pm me if interested! I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play wild and safe!
yes I am married but have not had sex with my wife for some 30yrs medical reasons yes I have seen other women over the last 25yrs I love having sex and enjoy it I also like my partner to enjoy I just want casual relationship not live in I love lots of foreplay too I am a straight up kind gentle guy but don't want to talk on here for very long please
Mike sent you a message: "hi there" (yesterday at 5:33am)
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I like to talk, laugh, drink with a woman, get the chemistry going, make it sexy, on a psychological level, make it so it's so tense that the fucking is just natural and unbelievably good.
I'm separated and looking for a lady who looks after herself for some NSA fun. I very much enjoy oral sex, both giving receiving and trying different positions. I love having sex outdoors, both for the freedom and the excitement. Willing to give anything a go so why notgive me a go ))
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