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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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BADRABBIT, 49 from Wellington

Single male looking for some NSA fun.

JASON, 47 from Masterton, Wellington

Hi my name is Jason been single 8yearz iam on the demolition scene with Naylor Love lowerhutt live in waiwhetu just Wana fine a loyal lady iam easy going just be ya self an that's us I play softball an just Want to be huged iam 47yearz of age hope we all find wot where looking for on this site thanku for your time

KATHERINE, 24 from Newstead, Waikato

I am chatty but shy about sex, I have some fantasies like BDSM but have never tried this. I am not thin but neither fat, if you like a tall and curvy woman message me.

IAN, 53 from Manurewa East, Auckland

just here for conversation and make a few new friends on the way

DAVID, 68 from Waipukurau, Hawke's Bay

David sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Sunday at 1:55am) David winked at you (16th Jan at 2:25am)

KELSEY, 36 from Maraetai, Auckland

Bored housewife in need of a discreet boost...

RICK, 60 from Kaikohe, Northland

Rick winked at you (19th Apr at 5:33am)

ROBIN, 43 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Robin has yet to add his profile. Ask Robin for more info.

JOSEPH, 46 from New Lynn, Auckland

I'm a workaholic who has a good sense of humor and needing some nsa fun to relieve the stresses of work.

CARLOS, 41 from Whakatane, Bay Of Plenty

Carlos winked at you (12th Jan at 6:01am)

STEFAN, 45 from New Brighton, Canterbury

go with the flow when it comes to sex. looking for some fun women to play with. age open

JIM, 72 from Owhiro Bay, Wellington

I'm looking for a companion to have good times with and, as with most men, think I'm reasonably (read very!) good at what I do but I'm always willing to practice and improve. I'm always listening for what you like best and I enjoy sex in all of its endless variations. NSA works for me but, if things do go well, films, dinner, and, just maybe, some dancing (I seem to be somewhat rhythmically challenged). I like the outdoors for all sorts of activities and enjoy the space and privacy of the bush on a warm summer's day, but also walking, especially with a couple of dogs, swimming and sailing. If the weather is too awful, there are art galleries and museums and lots of interesting out of the way places to explore, or just curl up in front of a fire with a glass (or two) of my finest. I'm not expecting a committed relationship but I'm happy to see where things may lead and have some good times and adventures along the way.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (Sunday at 8:58pm) Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

GRANT, 41 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hi NSA please

MIKE, 57 from Wellington

Mike winked at you (Monday at 6:36pm)

LIZ, 44 from Terrace End, Manawatu-Wanganui

Submissive

CYRISS, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Genuine 1st timer Maori male 39 shy honest hard working single seeks mature white lady to 4fill m y wildest fantasy I've had since a very erotic experience I had with my school teacher while in standard 4 on a school trip and in return I will do all I can to help 4fill n e fantasy u mite like to 4fill hoping there mite b a mature lady out there willing to take a chance with me

DAVE, 44 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Love to explore the magic written in all of life Deep and compassionate, so drawn to the greatest of life's creation the fine curves of women. Looking for a great friend and lover, and who knows maybe even the chance of connection with me twin flame

MESSY, 41 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Messy has yet to add his profile. Ask Messy for more info.

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry sent you a message: "HEY" (Sunday at 1:33am) Harry winked at you (Sunday at 1:33am) Harry added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 1:33am)

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