Browse our members in Wellington
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Wellington based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Looking for sex in Wellington
Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..
With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.
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Updated profiles
Looking for a female who likes to be spoiled but also dominated, for some nsa fucking and pussy licking... If interested, reply with email address attached for pics etc.
Well good people were not here to park cars or wait on tables, this life's not a rehearsal so let's have some cracking fun "ENJOY"
Looking for excitment and adventure, a escape from daily life, would be great to meet someone for some hot horny fun
Looking for some fun and I love to see a lady pleasured properly !!
Mike sent you a message: ":)" (27th Apr at 2:08am)
Looking for Erotic Encounters, Sexual Adventures, Your Arousal is my pleasure, I look Forward to you contact.
I am a 65 year old man, young at heat who loves to laugh. I am happily married with a wonderful wife, but we have not had sex for many years. So, with her understanding I am looking for a fuck buddy to complete my life. I love to play, tease, receive GIVE oral. I know how to satisfy a woman, but don't expect marathons. Discretion expected, and guaranteed this end.
Hi there. I am an easy going independent person. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm a slim build. Grown up kids. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I have lots of interests including music and biking. Also guitar but need more practice! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants to be taken care of properly and have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapit/Wellingtoni areas. Discretion is appreciated and expected. Drop me a note and say hi, and we'll see how it goes from there :)
Looking for a fun girl with a wicked sense of humor and a quick wit. Naughty but nice sugar and spice. Like to teach love being taught. Love to make women feel satisfied .
Happily married but sex isn't really part of the equation any more. Not a game breaker for me but I really do like sex so if anyone is willing to enjoy a good time I'm keen.
Cecelia has yet to add her profile.
Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (Thursday at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (3rd Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (1st Feb at 1:56am) Bob winked at you (21st Jan at 1:18am)
I love to make ladys cum
Kelly winked at you (23rd Jan at 8:29am)
A well payed working man who needs a good woman to have fun with now n then! My place or yours..it's not a problem!
Open mind, adventurous and honest man interested for some NSA adults fun and take it from there.
seem shy till you get to know me. good sense of humor.
Marama has yet to add her profile.
Sandsman has yet to add his profile. Ask Sandsman for more info.
Am here for discrete meet ups/fun, I like to get high and play, Up for most things, no real limits
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