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PAUL, 58 from Hei Hei, Canterbury

Encounters including naked fun, and enjoyment for both me and the woman.

PAULO, 69 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am a 69-year-old male,I run my own business most of my working life. I have spent some time in China, mostly in Shanghai. My younger years, I was Nursing in South Australia. I like intellectual conversation, each with supporting argument and all with good humour. I am not a know it all, I am a man of my times, and hold that sometimes the ways of the past may be best. I like and use the new tech knowledge, and have a passion for things with wings that fly. I am here to find a woman that is nice to be with, that wants a regular relationship, with gentle meaningful sex and feelings, friends with benefits for each.

CAM, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Cam sent you a message: "Hiya !!" (25th Dec '16 at 2:34am)

CHARLIE, 48 from Wellington

Just having a browse seeing who,whats out there looking for sexy playtimes with woman who have a kinky side that likes to come out and play now and then,, or have you a desire of the kink you would like to chat about,experience.

MAC, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Mac winked at you (Sunday at 1:18am) Mac winked at you (21st Dec '16 at 10:15am)

WANTING, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Fit, clean and drug free. Looking for discreet NSA fun. Maybe FWB. Enjoy a nice wine with movie or music. Like to take time to please and tease ;o) No wham bam thank you ma'am.

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:33am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hay sexy" (1st Jan at 7:42pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (24th Dec '16 at 6:32pm) Michael winked at you (24th Dec '16 at 6:31pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay helo" (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am) Michael added you as a Favourite (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

BAZ, 57 from Levin, Manawatu-Wanganui

looking for a nice lover. At the library at lunch times working on research

HAMODUDE, 29 from Wellington

Hi Ladies Just seeing whats out there. Get at me for more info

LONLEYBOY, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

Lonleyboy sent you a message: "I see you viewed me" (10th Apr at 2:13am)

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Looking for fun. Confident in everything I do. Looking for a lady who knows what she wants. I'm happy to provide...

KENNDRA, 52 from Wellington

II have great body also keep very fit & love life to the maxs Looking for lady to compliment not complicate my life !!!!!! I'm a fun loving person living for today !!!! Self employed builder in the bay for 15 years also work overseas I would like to meet afunloving lady

DEE, 55 from Kaiti, East Cape

Dee winked at you (yesterday at 4:14am) Dee added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 11:07am) Dee winked at you (Sunday at 11:07am)

ALEX, 20 from Auckland, Auckland

Alex winked at you (4th Jan at 1:21am)

IAN, 49 from Wellington

I am a single guy with my own place in Christchurch. I try to stay fit by biking. I also have a weekend hideaway cottage in Hanmer Springs! A nice fire and a wine after the hot pools is wonderful:-) cheers

RYAN, 26 from Wellington

Ryan winked at you (2nd Jan at 2:59am)

DAZMOND, 39 from Wellington, Wellington

Dazmond has yet to add his profile. Ask Dazmond for more info.

IAN, 49 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ian sent you a message: "hey there" (yesterday at 2:21am)

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