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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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SANDY, 51 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Hey anyone keen on some hot fun tonight.....

JIM, 61 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

I'm 61 slim single and sexy romantic humourous lover !! I enjoy sexy ladies younger and older !! I enjoy sex one night stands casual sexy encounters Online sexy chats !! Enjoy fun sexy times !! Dates etc !!!

STEVE, 40 from Wellington

Thanks for checking me out. New to Auckland. Fit successful guy who likes to keep in shape and likes to have a good time in the bedroom, or wherever the fun takes place. Very open minded. Just looking for good times with a like minded person. Any age or status is ok. Open to an affair with he right married woman. Something about sex with another guys wife turns me on.I do enjoy some naughty saucy chat in the lead up to really good hot steamy sex. I can last for ages. Love to go down and have a big groomed cock. Love to hear from you

SHANE, 45 from Dargaville, Northland

Single male back in NZ after 7 years in WA. Like to meet with like minded people. Spent last 3yrs with a lady who introduced me to the swinging scene and loved it and still do. We would have gatherings at ours and meet a lot awesome people cause of it, and would like to now I am back in NZ. I am polite, respective of others and not pushy, happy to sit and watch or join in when asked to. Like meet with couples and single ladies. I am open minded and never judge. So I hope to hear from you soon if I fit the mould

RYAN, 26 from Pakuranga, Auckland

Just after some NSA fun.

JACK, 55 from Wellington

Looking to have some very discreet fun, because i just love hot sex! Never before had experiences outside of marriage, so a bit nervous but ecstatic with excitement... Really looking forward to finding someone hot and horny like me and give you heavenly ultimate pleasure via your hot spots.... and mine.... I enjoy all shapes and sizes, what matters to me most is foreplay and longevity. Keen to try out some toys that you like to ignite...lots of creativity, bring it on!! Have so far wasted lots of time chatting. Ideally would like to chat briefly, then meet for a quiet glass of wine somewhere to see if we click, and go on from there.....! I'm in superb shape (have always trained) and if you like a strong well toned body with plenty of thrust, with a rock hard rod, then I'm your man! Ever seen the movie 5 til 7? That movie inspired me! A flexible once a month type arrangement would be super but one offs great too!

BEN, 25 from Wellington

I'm pretty inexperienced, would like to find someone equally naive to learn with, or someone that doesn't mind less experienced guys and likes to teach guys a thing or two ;p

SOLI, 60 from Wellington

Soli has yet to add his profile. Ask Soli for more info.

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Looking sent you a message: "Feeling" (22nd Apr at 1:11am) Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (21st Apr at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (21st Apr at 2:11am)

KONRAD, 43 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Looking for NSA 1 nighters. I like to make sure I get you off as often as i can ; )

MIKE, 46 from Glen Eden, Auckland

easy going, horny, into most things

PETER, 61 from Wellington

Hi I am any easy going guy looking for a bit of NSA fun. I am adventurous, passionate and willing to try anything at least once. I love exploring the female body

SILA, 27 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Am looking for someone to have fun with nothing serious.

OLYMPUS, 25 from Manurewa, Auckland

Olympus has yet to add his profile. Ask Olympus for more info.

BRIAN, 60 from Waihi, Waikato

I am easy going love my photography Beach is good Am fisher

SMACKNDABOX, 33 from Nelson, Nelson

Hey me or we are searching for some random good times.im not pessimist man who thinks all women are bad. But a optimist who just hopes to meet some chicks who really are fun and a little bad.looking to meet some cool genuine as straight or bi/curious chickys for some nsa boozy nites and discreet times to join me and my young chicky mate who is bi curious for naughty secret fun )

JASON, 41 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Hi ya genuine Kiwi MAN good looking fit and healthy looking for open minded ladies to have some NSA fun with, love the outdoors and meeting new and exciting people, straight to the point don't want a relationship just SEX I am well hung and can certainly please a lady. keen then lets hook up and make it happen

VEE, 36 from Wellington

Vee winked at you (12th Apr at 1:47am)

ANDY, 50 from North Shore, Auckland

I am open minded about most things ,I don't sweat the small stuff , go with the flow, I am not married and not in a relationship. I dont judge how someone looks, I rather have Fun and personality will sort that. I am a bigger guy so if it's not your cup of tea it's OK if i don't hear from you Im looking for no strings attached fun, will try most things, NOTE for married women: No Dramas, or insecure husbands

GLEN, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Fun out goin love to try new things and seriously keen to have some fun email me

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