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MICHAEL, 51 from Wellington

Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Saturday at 6:15pm) Michael winked at you (Saturday at 6:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Wednesday at 7:08pm) Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm)

AYA, 48 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Im a submissive looking for a dominant

SHANE, 38 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share quality time with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)

LUELLA, 28 from Kerikeri, Northland

Luella has yet to add her profile.

CRAIG, 54 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Craig winked at you (27th Feb at 3:43am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:16am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (12th Feb at 1:14am) Craig sent you a message: "Proflie" (12th Feb at 1:13am)

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "In Auckland" (Sunday at 7:36pm) George sent you a message: "Do you get wet Jane?" (Sunday at 2:17am) George sent you a message: "HI Jane" (Saturday at 1:11am) George sent you a message: "Good Afternoon Jane" (Friday at 1:16am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Thursday at 2:03am)

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (Tuesday at 1:13am) Jim winked at you (1st May at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (29th Apr at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

JUSTSEX, 44 from Manakau, Auckland

hello there just curious looking for a relationship

ARDY, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Ardy has yet to add his profile. Ask Ardy for more info.

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)

HARRY, 25 from Wellington

Harry winked at you (Monday at 4:17am) Harry sent you a message: "Hey jane" (27th Feb at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (27th Feb at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (16th Feb at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (12th Feb at 1:38am)

STEVE, 33 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

Steve winked at you (10th Feb at 1:14pm)

WMADA, 45 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Attractive, fit, affectionate, intelligent, caring, respectful man seeking a like minded local woman for NSA fun, FWB etc. I'm just coming out of a marriage so can't deal with too much right now. I'm a very touchy type person, love to kiss ( I've been told many times I'm an amazing lover ;-) ) love long slow foreplay, long slow love making...... nothing turns me in more than to drive a woman wild with desire Can we satisfy each other?

PETER, 53 from Helensville, Auckland

Strong man soft heart. Blue eyes. Work at sea Long walks on the beach with my dog Jesus. Love great sex. Fishing and hunting. Single man

KERRY, 62 from Terrace End, Manawatu-Wanganui

Kerry winked at you (21st Feb at 1:42am)

KIWIMATTY, 28 from Wellington

Kiwimatty has yet to add his profile. Ask Kiwimatty for more info.

EWEN, 69 from Paremata, Wellington

Im an intelkigent guy that likes to have fun. Im of solid build and in good shape. I am into giving and receiving pleasure. Send me a message and lets chat/meet ASAP.

ROSEROYCE, 37 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm looking for a resident fuck buddy. I'm here to try and have my fantasies explored and some of them fulfilled. I'm interested in exploring bondage; constraint, domination, submission. Entry level SM, if you will. And I think I want a try at playing both roles.

TTAN, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Ttan sent you a message: "Role play" (5th May at 1:24am) Ttan winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)

EMMA-KATE, 42 from Wellington

I'm a chilled out chick, new to this so just going to see how it goes?

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