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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Wellington based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (yesterday at 2:17am) George winked at you (yesterday at 1:05am) George winked at you (Thursday at 1:34am) George sent you a message: "Its nice you are still looking..." (Wednesday at 2:08am) George winked at you (Wednesday at 1:05am)

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:18am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (Sunday at 2:17am) George winked at you (Sunday at 1:05am) George winked at you (Thursday at 1:34am) George sent you a message: "Its nice you are still looking..." (Wednesday at 2:08am)

TREMAINE, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

Tremaine has yet to add his profile. Ask Tremaine for more info.

MATTHEW, 25 from Balmoral, Auckland

Young lad living in Auckland always wanted to play and be taught by a cougar Drop me a message if your interested in becoming a teacher

ATELIER, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Just after discreet fun. I'm a Funny Curious Person looking for a man to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. I love experimenting in the bedroom. In fact the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned... any time, any place, any where... as the saying goes. Drop me a line and let's arrange to get at it soon." I'm a Lady but prefer a gentleman

MAURICE, 60 from Timaru, Canterbury

I keep fit am semi retired so can be anywhere anytime , clean discreet ,always strive to satisfy.

AROHA, 46 from Whakatahuri, Marlborough

Happy go lucky.. New beginnings could be the start of some awsumness

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (Wednesday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)

VEYRON, 54 from Wellington

Veyron has yet to add his profile. Ask Veyron for more info.

YUMMYMUMMY, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Hot mummy here, just havin a nose to see if there's some hot lusty man around who can give me what I'm after. I'm a Kiwi-Samoan girl that likes to exercise a cpl times a wk cause it makes me feel right. My body is average-good considering we have a few young ones. Hubbys given me permission to hit it ONCE so it's got to be someone I think is attractive \yummy but most of all, someone who can bring that 'naughtiness' out of me. I've got 1 chance to get it right-do me right and you may get another...MAYBE! Do NOT waste my time if yr good looking but can only last a minute or three! You must have yr own place or be able to arrange a nice sensuous relaxing spot where we can do this once \u0026 do this right.

WILLIO, 36 from Mangere East, Auckland

Willio has yet to add his profile. Ask Willio for more info.

SHANE, 38 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share quality time with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)

CHARLENE, 20 from Wellington

Looking for someone to have fun with until daylight :) as many rounds in one night, stretching to my limits

SHARNE, 38 from Titirangi, Auckland

Sharne has yet to add his profile. Ask Sharne for more info.

PHILIPE, 36 from Wellington

Hi my names p.n.jarvie im a gmail guy - can't wait to meet u

ANTHONY, 28 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hardworking man also find me

JAY, 37 from Wellington

Wacting to meet and connect with awesome people that want a connection,once we have a connection the rest is up to us

ANTHONY, 62 from Wellington

Older guy who is looking to share some exciting experiences I just love spanking and ideally am looking for a female spanking partner, someone to share this experience - let's meet have a coffee and see where the conversation leads other things considered bondage or similar BDSM activities

SHAZ, 50 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Shaz has yet to add her profile.

GEOFF, 57 from Wellington

Daytime delights,from Tokoroa,usually cruisey..giving body rubs(happy ending)I'm no sugar daddy,a romantic though .

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We have members of all shapes, sizes, races and persuasions right across NZ looking for someone to share some naughty time with. Most of our members are simply busy people with no time for a serious relationship and need a convenient way to find sexual satisfaction without the hassles that come with a relationship. Others are married people looking for some extra-marital excitement or couples seeking other couples for swinging fun. Everyone is welcome here, all we ask is that you are open and honest about your marital status to avoid any confusion.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

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Create you own photo profile today and see who's interested in you. Registration up is quick and simple. As soon as you register you will instantly be able to search our database of horny guys and girls in Wellington, upload your own sexy photos and start writing your own naughty online profile. Don't worry, your personal details are never displayed and everything you do here on My Bed or Yours is completely anonymous.

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