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EDWINA, 42 from Wellington

Just moved to Tauranga - looking for girls and couples keen for a good time with no strings, no expectations and no rules. I love trying new things, ticking off fantasies, will try anything twice and love making women cum. As it gets warmer, I'd love to have some outdoor adventures and I have a fuck buddy who lives in Auckland who I play with time to time who's blonde, hot, curvy, loves to suck and fuck cock and pussy and will do my bidding... Did I mention she's only 24? Anyways, She is definitely not compulsory - just an option that you can add to our party if that's what turns you on. If you like what you've read, and seen, want to have a great time then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun.

CRAIG, 43 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

Easy going with good sense of humour.separated and looking for no strings attached sex.Am looking to fulfil some small fantasy's.

ANTHONY, 28 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hardworking man also find me on twoo tubukess.

JULIE, 39 from Wellington

Julie has yet to add his profile. Ask Julie for more info.

ROMAN, 81 from Albany, Auckland

Roman sent you a message: "C" (6th Jan at 7:48pm) Roman sent you a message: "C" (4th Jan at 2:09am)

ROB, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi ladies I'm a 46 year old horny guy who hardly gets it any more i am looking for discrete sex I will lick, suck and xxxx you all night and give you multiple orgasms so if this sounds like something you could be into look me up.

BRENDON, 53 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Brendon winked at you (Saturday at 3:27am)

JIM, 72 from Owhiro Bay, Wellington

I'm looking for a companion to have a good time with. NSA works for me but, if things do go well, films, dinner, and, just maybe, some dancing (I seem to be somewhat rhythmically challenged). I like the outdoors for all sorts of activities and enjoy the space and privacy of the bush on a warm summer's day, but also walking, especially with a couple of dogs, swimming and sailing. If the weather is too awful, there are art galleries and museums and lots of interesting out of the way places to explore, or just curl up in front of a fire with a glass (or two) of my finest. Right at the moment I'm not expecting a fully committed relationship but I'm happy to see where things may lead and have some good times and adventures along the way.

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Looking sent you a message: "Feeling" (yesterday at 1:11am) Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (Friday at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (Friday at 2:11am)

MAC, 44 from Waimate, Canterbury

hi looking for some fun

UPURBUM, 43 from Wellington

Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. What I want tagline M4F+ - Cxxx Up Ur Bxx - Solve censored phrase, Northland short PG I want to something iRL that a lot women enjoy but are sometimes hesitant to allow on a first play-date. Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. Pick the ones U like in return for the 1 that gives me sexual satisfaction. short Sweet Mary U R blunt! Will trade my wide ranging interests / skills etc for what I want. All U ladies if you're willing to meet me In Real Life then we'll play and have lotsa Fun da low down Please don't be put off by my interests or ideal fantasy ... only one thing is essential to consent to for play-dates In Real Life. OK some obvious stuff: I am Drug and Disease Free I scrub up well and will do so again once I get to our play date (if possible) It is my pleasure to pleasure U but this is only offered to Honeys that consent to being involved in ????????????????? I never intentionally 'touch' ANYONE without their express consent / permission In fact quite often...

PENETRATOR, 37 from Manurewa, Auckland

Just looking for ladies who wanna have some fun with no strings attached. Ladies who would like someone to suck their tits and fuck their beautiful ass. Even better if they want me to do this naturally as I love taking risks. So ladies if u keen then drop me a line......

TOM, 42 from Wellington

Open-minded easy going adventurous down to earth..

SHYGIRL, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married for a few years looking for sum fun to brighten up my dull life

MARY-JANE, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married and wanting to find someone to have fun with

SAMMY, 22 from Auckland, Auckland

Sammy has yet to add her profile.

CHAD, 42 from Wellington

I'm a single guy looking for an awesome girl for a friends with benefits kinda thing. I'm a genuine kind of guy, fit healthy and slim and love a girl with a great sense of humor. I love to please and make your fantasies come true, send me a message if you'd like to know more xx

KIM, 36 from Manakau, Auckland

Hi I am a lovely lady that is honest and trustworthy I don't like to be used or played on I am looking for absolutely everything in a man I am a hard worker and a awesome mum that has abit of a wild side love to dance let me show you what I got

VICK, 54 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking for nsa fun,when I'm in your area,day/night between Manawatu,National Park,Otaki, Pahiatua to Masterton. Horny enjoy sex,the more the better, anytime, anywhere. Fit and able. Day time visits suits me well Mon-Fri, sometimes overnight Masterton and Ohakune. Love to meet you in front of my warm fire in Ohakune Ski lodge. In Auckland 13th Feb 2017 for the night-Drop me a line.

GEOFF, 57 from Wellington

Daytime delights,from Tokoroa,usually cruisey..giving body rubs(happy ending)I'm no sugar daddy,a romantic though .LADIES ,sorry but I'm gone from R. R .

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