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Today's hectic lifestyles and demanding careers often mean maintaining a long term relationship is hard. Being single shouldn't mean you need to go without our most cardinal pleasures. MyBedOrYours helps you connect with people looking for the same experiences as you. Wives looking for discreet affairs, married men seeking naughty rendezvous, horny MILF's looking for a young stud and local swingers looking for other swingers in Wellington. You will find them all and some on My Bed or Yours.

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EMMA, 41 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

if we were alone and nobody knew we were together I would let you have me

SURESH, 47 from Wellington

I love experimenting sex in the bedroom and other places. In fact more sex better.... Drop me a line and lets have fun

TRKTIAGO, 25 from Wellington

Trktiago has yet to add his profile. Ask Trktiago for more info.

REBEKAH, 22 from Wellington

Bisexual bondage freak First of all, the photos... it's me in the pink, with the vibrator up my ass and in the black. The girl tied up was a first timer. The close up pic is what she looked like about 90 mins into a 2 hour session and I hadn't even touched her down there yet... I just love the photo. Makes me so hungry when I see it... Also, if you are going to jerk off to my photos, at least have the common courtesy to let me know at bare minimum, though we both know you should be begging for permission. Love oral. Nothing makes me wetter than having a girl sit on my face, gagging on a nice fat dick or getting my pussy and ass licked. I am switch depending on the chemistry, though I love dominating guys I also love to be challenged. For the sub guys, I have a strap on and I know how to use it. Come to me in handcuffs and prepare to leave sore, satisfied and covered in my golden shower nectar. Don't come in faint hearted. This takes a bit of trust for me to go full submissive but when I do I go DEEP. The only time I've ever had multiple orgasms is tied up. I am very tight so a long teasing session to get me dripping and stretched before a rough pounding is amazing Also looking for bisexual encounters. Will submit very easy to woman. Love it. Love it love it love it I am currently submitting in an open relationship to my Mistress who is a goddess and hot as fuck. We are open and honest and she provides me with all I need. I'm looking for some X factor. I have a massive...

ANDRE, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Andre sent you a message: "....." (26th Dec '16 at 12:31am)

CHARLIE, 38 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Charlie has yet to add her profile.

MIKE, 51 from Wellington

In an unhappy relationship and want to have some quality time with someone who might also be looking for the same thing. I am healthy, fit & adventurous looking for someone the same. My physical drive is strong so looking for that same desire in a partner, nothing like a good rub and a grind to get the juices flowing right!! Also check me out at HAA and have fun!! Please update your profile and pic if you have not done this, def90v8 at hot male it all helps for chat :-)

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

SEXADDICT, 37 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Sexaddict winked at you (yesterday at 1:11am)

PAUL, 58 from Wellington

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

PETER, 30 from West Harbour, Auckland

New to this kind of thing, but want to explore a bit more the sensual ways of love making. Women's body is a treasure. Exploring it by soft touches massages means a fantastic source of pleasure for both;) that's what I am looking for.

DANIELLE, 23 from Wellington

Just looking for some safe fun. Don't care if ur a man who can go for a long time or not as long as you get me going I'm happy. Got Tuesday Wednesdays off atm so hit me up

LULU, 55 from Hamilton, Waikato

Lulu has yet to add her profile.

RIDLEY, 56 from Wellington

Intelligent hard working professional, respectful and sexy male with big appetite. Looking for nsa fun and adventure. Gsoh a must. I am able to travel, if need be. No time waisters please ! This is a real request.what Im looking for is a Horny, intelligent, woman, who likes sensual body contact and long foreplay. Loves DATY. Enjoys soft domination, dogging and sex in public spaces. Im after real women not 'kids', thats just too disturbing, MUST be over 29, so please Dont bother messaging me I wont answer..... sorry

MISTAFISTA, 35 from Taupo, Waikato

Zero inhibitions

STEWART, 54 from Helensville, Auckland

Looking for a fun girl with a wicked sense of humor and a quick wit. Naughty but nice sugar and spice. Like to teach love being taught. Love to make women feel satisfied .

LIZD, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Maori here, am into exercise outtings or go to dinner and relax with a drink or 2. I work hard and want to play hard as well. I am single and not to bad looking. Atttractive with a good sense of humour.

CANUCK, 39 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

JENS, 61 from Wellington

I am a Marine Engineer trained by the best in the world teaching me how to look after a women, slightly kinky ok with me , not into pain, not into attached lady's , not a fighter (anymore ) just a lover. The problem is you will have to talk to me first before we can get down to the good stuff , waiting for your call.

FRED, 64 from Wellington

seem shy till you get to know me. good sense of humor.

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