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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Wellington based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Finding sex in Wellington is so easy thanks to My Bed or Yours and our new mobile app. Search by sexual preference, age, location, online now and loads of other options or let our system do the work for you.

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ROBERT, 63 from Herne Bay, Auckland

Sexy Single And Sixty.

NSAFRIENDS, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

i so enjoy the company of mature women. There is a bucket full Of fantasies and I need a friend/ a playmate/ friend with benefits for mutual gratification I am a working professional who lives on the shore. Age is just a number. We only live once. Let's pool in n make hay. I am looking for friends/ fun buddies where we can meet, greet, share a laugh and play. I am here for discrete, no strings attached meet ups. Please do message me if you will love to catch up ova coffee or drinks. Cheers!

DAMON, 40 from Woodhill, Northland

Hi I'm 40 years old love watching porn.Licking pussy is just the best thing ever look for a no stings partner

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (19th Dec '16 at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (18th Dec '16 at 1:50am)

JIMITHY, 29 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Jimithy has yet to add his profile. Ask Jimithy for more info.

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (Monday at 1:06am)

ROB, 46 from Manakau, Auckland

Hi lady's I'm a 46 year old guy who has sexual desires that need to be taken care of.As I have been in a relationship for the passed twenty years the sex hasn't been happening for quite some time now.I won't put a photo up of my face because I want it to be discrete but I am able to message you a photo then you can make your decision.:)

JONATHAN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)

MAX, 58 from Albany, Auckland

Mature, well travelled business man that enjoys exploring NZ on his motor bike. No longer a slim gym regular but still a fit and able horizontal dancer lol Enjoys the small pleasures of life including live music, good (red)wine and taste food. Looking for an adventurous open minded,sexy, nice but nawty, lady for mutual fun times, weekend away and motor bike travel around NZ. Age range totally open What would you like for breakfast? ; )

BAZ, 56 from Auckland, Auckland

I have been told I have something that most ladies love so if you want to find out drop me a line

KERRY, 65 from Wellington

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 10:42am) Kerry winked at you (Tuesday at 5:47pm) Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)

MIKE, 51 from Richmond, Nelson

In an unhappy relationship and want to have some quality time with someone who might also be looking for the same thing. I am healthy, fit & adventurous looking for someone the same. My physical drive is strong so looking for that same desire in a partner, nothing like a good rub and a grind to get the juices flowing right!! Also check me out at HAA and have fun!! Please update your profile and pic if you have not done this, def90v8 at hot male it all helps for chat :-)

BRENDON, 26 from Wellington

Looking to meet someone for some casual fun.. Once off or on going. I'm up for almost any crazy fetishes or fantasies, try me!

TTAN, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Ttan sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Ttan winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)

KC, 22 from North Shore, Auckland

Jus keen to see who's out there and up for a good time

MICHAEL, 41 from Hawera, Taranaki

6.2ft toned, brown eyes shaved head manicured face, looking for some extra spice from life with a woman wanting the same. i am a non judgemental relaxed but driven guy. that loves to experiement in the bedroom. or out of it.. into bdsm and the finer things in life. sexually i would describe myself of a dominate personality, best suited to a submissive woman that is either exploring that side of her, or is confident in what she is after. as expected on a site like this discretion is asured. as well as respect. message me if this interests you and youd like to know more.

AB, 28 from Wellington

Ab winked at you (25th Dec '16 at 11:35am)

MISTAFISTA, 35 from Taupo, Waikato

Zero inhibitions

RICHARD, 44 from Wellington

Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Tuesday at 7:47am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Monday at 8:23am)

MAURICE, 68 from Grafton, Auckland

Just me send me a message , I will reply

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