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TRAVELBUG, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

Looking for fun. Based in south Auckland but happy to travel.

BOB, 44 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (Wednesday at 1:56am) Bob winked at you (21st Jan at 1:18am) Bob winked at you (7th Jan at 1:21am) Bob sent you a message: "is jane up for some fun?" (6th Jan at 1:46am) Bob winked at you (5th Jan at 1:18am)

HARRY, 25 from Wellington

Harry winked at you (26th Jan at 1:13am) Harry added you as a Favourite (26th Jan at 1:13am) Harry sent you a message: "HEY" (22nd Jan at 1:33am) Harry winked at you (22nd Jan at 1:33am) Harry added you as a Favourite (22nd Jan at 1:33am)

TONY, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Tony sent you a message: "I hope you like what you see" (26th Jan at 10:32pm) Tony winked at you (26th Jan at 4:11am) Tony sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (26th Jan at 1:50am) Tony winked at you (26th Jan at 1:49am)

MARTA, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

Marta has yet to add his profile. Ask Marta for more info.

GUSTON, 27 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Guston has yet to add his profile. Ask Guston for more info.

R, 49 from Hamilton, Waikato

R winked at you (7th Jan at 1:29am)

CHRIS, 46 from Wellington

Chris winked at you (Tuesday at 8:37am)

LUVPLZYOU, 36 from Wellington

Luvplzyou has yet to add his profile. Ask Luvplzyou for more info.

STEPHEN, 64 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Friday at 11:45am) Stephen sent you a message: "Hello Jane" (7th Apr at 10:46am)

JOHN, 45 from Woodhill, Northland

Just sup[er horney, to get back into dating, after being separated from my (2nd) wife @ 1/15!!!!!!!! REALLY need/want some female ass, to fuck (bareback) so I can CUM up in her/it, to finish! lol! YUM!

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable sent you a message: "W T F ???" (18th Jan at 3:30am) Cable sent you a message: "no profile" (15th Jan at 6:01am)

LOKI, 45 from Greenlane, Auckland

Here for a casual meet. Would enjoy a drink a laugh and then see where it goes...

JOHN, 52 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi I'm In a committed but sexless (last couple of years anyway) long term relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about clubbing but would Like some very discreet sexy times with a mature lady For some no strings fun times

WAYNE, 40 from Wellington

Im single and happy too meet new women. Im head tenant of my house and work parttime. Im a passionite love maker with a size 7 cercumsized cock. Mostly hairless hips up. Like slim too medium build female that has interests,hobbies for great conversation and willing too goe out too gigs,bbq,events and sight seeing. And likes the beach weather its swimming,sun bathing or fishing.

JOHN, 45 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Separated, since Jan 2015 (from my 2nd wife), so will hopefully be divorced (for a 2nd time) @ March(next month!?)! VERY lonely here in my private unit, here in ONERAHI, Whangarei, and really just want some female (intimate) company! Especially for some penetrative(giving) bareback anal sex. Can/could you help me, ladies!? During my 2year separation i also tried some cock in/up my ass \u0026 have discoveted i really like it! In the mean time i want sum BIG cock(8" +??) in/up my near virginal tight ass! If that cock is "clean" too, i want to feel his hot cimload shooting up into me!? Was last blood tested as "safe" from s.t.i's @ feb 2017!

FUCKANDGO, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:17am) Fuckandgo winked at you (yesterday at 1:15am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi!!" (yesterday at 1:08am)

ANNA, 34 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

BBW wanting discreet NSA

ED, 55 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Im a lover, Im a sinner, I am a free man. I prize integrity, Ive been round the world once, talk to everyone I can. Im a Rootin Tootin Shootin White Knight the real deal. Here for a good time, not a long time. Shared pleasure with some beautiful souls 1, 2, 3 at a time and lived to tell the tale. Anything worth doing in life is worth overdoing. I will wine, dine and intertwine. And if your good I will go back for more.

RUSSELL, 57 from Longburn, Manawatu-Wanganui

Lets all get naughty together lol

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