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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Wellington who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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FLAVIO, 28 from Remuera, Auckland

Flavio sent you a message: "hola" (yesterday at 2:04am) Flavio winked at you (yesterday at 2:04am)

DAVID, 56 from Auckland, Auckland

Open minded and looking for women - including married or attached who are looking to spice up their life... Maybe your husband is neglecting you? Maybe your missing out on lovemaking? Then drop me a message I am a single guy looking to have discreet fun. I am clean, well mannered, well endowed (9 inch un-cut), drug and disease free. I am looking for drama free, sensual, heaps of foreplay, surprises and great fun.

LOVETODOG, 28 from Wellington

Young guy look after myself not to bad on the eye . But I'm very shy

JAMES, 38 from Wellington

Single Professional guy. Medium build, love to laugh, can't help but be sarcastic at times. Adventurous and enthusiastic. Always a gentleman.

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