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Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Wellington for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Take your pick from local swingers, doggers and exhibitionists and averyone in-between looking for sexual adventures around Wellington. Just say what you're looking for and wait for people to get in contact with you or be a bit more adventurous and send a flirty message, wink or icebreaker and take it from there.

Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

My Bed helps you turn your fantasies into reality

The first simple step is getting yourself a free account. We give everyone, that wants want one a free (no credit card) account to let them see what we're like. You can then have a look at other people's profiles and even set up your own to start getting some messages.

If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.

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IAN, 49 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am a single guy with my own place in Christchurch. I try to stay fit by biking. I also have a weekend hideaway cottage in Hanmer Springs! A nice fire and a wine after the hot pools is wonderful:-) cheers

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hay sexy" (1st Jan at 7:42pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (24th Dec '16 at 6:32pm) Michael winked at you (24th Dec '16 at 6:31pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay helo" (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am) Michael added you as a Favourite (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am)

PAUL, 58 from Hei Hei, Canterbury

Encounters including naked fun, and enjoyment for both me and the woman.

JASON, 41 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Hi ya genuine Kiwi MAN good looking fit and healthy looking for open minded ladies to have some NSA fun with, love the outdoors and meeting new and exciting people, straight to the point don't want a relationship just SEX I am well hung and can certainly please a lady. keen then lets hook up and make it happen

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