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We are both 32...looking for white guys to have threesomes with. Nothing multi-racial please.
ONLY over 45s sugar daddies who knows how to treat women hit me up. The rest breath. Am Fun, saucy, sweet, spicy, beautiful and i aim to please. The older the jucier. Come on - lets make each other happy.
Single guy up for adventure. Preferably nsa. Please don t messege without a profile picture Let's have some fun
Pv has yet to add her profile.
I need to have more fun and adventure in my life. Do fun things together. Enjoy the outdoors. Travel, going away over weekends. Not imterested in married men, Multiple partners or one night stands. Would like to have ONE partner that I can see on a regular basis. I live in northciff. Dont have my own place. Nothing personal but I prefer white males.
Amanda has yet to add her profile.
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I`m a white married male, staying alone in Cape Town , playing alone , looking for nice people to have wet naughty but clean fun. I love to give erotic massages that will rock any ladies boat , and the rest you can decide what you would like to do. I can meet during daytime and night time but does not have a private venue. Please feel free to chat as well. I love to write erotic stories or chat about fantasies an also to live them out. Let`s get playing but always with respect and very good manners. Will shave anyone that needs a shave. Mmmmm Anyone that wants to play with a very well mannered and respectful naughty guy feel free to contact me please
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Hook up with me, matured, open mimded and funny..you'll love every moment. Must be NSA and very discreet. Love to explore anything possible.
I'm a gentleman and I'm straight forward. I'm looking for a constant NSA partner. I love African figures and I hate undue drama. I prefer if you are older than 30 or as mature as that. At this stage in life let's look to make the best of everything. Let's make this happen.
I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I have honed more than my literary skills during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, the sign around my neck, now reads: Girlfriend Available, as I am not wired for NSA nor being the Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with my needs having changed, it is time to look elsewhere, for whom and what I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will return occasionally to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather ambivalent and need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere..... LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!
"Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. on this part onwards, read it aloud and record yourself. Play it back later and have a pen and paper. Catch me on owe ate for. For to owe. Tree won six to. Send an sms and I will call you. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot lady is how I like to spend my spare time. I love having sex with a woman. From this part, write it down so that you can get in touch with me anytime day or night. Nnoto robedi nne nne pedi nnoto tharu ngwe tshilela pedi Iqanda isishiyagalombili kune kune kubili Iqanda kuthathu kunye isithupha kubili.
I'm just a lonely bored woman who needs to be entertained throughly, completely. Stimulate my mind with your intellect and will surely stimulate other parts of me.
Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.
Hi lady's....i an a good guy but looking for some fun ....i have a very high sex drive and don't get enough sex ....i take for hours to cum and normally one section is not enough for me ....so yes i am always horny ...
I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...
Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx
Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.
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