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Alicat, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm looking for a discreet relationship. Not into playing games either.

Smonz, 39 from Germiston, Gauteng

Smonz has yet to add her profile.

Andri, 41 from Bloubergstrand, Western Cape

Nsa sex Discreet One guy

Baby, 42 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Hi all! Ive been divorced for a really long time from 2009 and got involved some 11 years ago, I met a man, but things did not work eg travel. I really think I should get out of my routine! Im very warm and would like to play. Im not unattractive and of short and bit overweight. looking for a man to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. I love experimenting in the bedroom and other places too. In fact, the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned... any time, any place, anywhere... as the saying goes. I am only looking for Caucasian White males aged between 43 and 50. Please should you be separated or unhappily married pass by Im not in for a one night stand. I speak both languages English and Afrikaans. I am a proud mother of 3 kids. Hi almal! Ek is vir 'n baie lang tyd geskei vanaf 2009 en het 11 jaar gelede betrokke geraak. Ek het 'n man ontmoet, maar dinge het nie gewerk nie, byvoorbeeld reis. Ek dink regtig ek moet uit my roetine kom! Ek is baie warm en wil graag speel. Ek is nie onaantreklik nie en van kort en bietjie oorgewig. Op soek na 'n man om my vreeslike seksuele aptyt te bevredig. Ek is ook lief vir eksperimenteer in die slaapkamer en ander plekke. Trouens, hoe meer seks, hoe beter is dit vir my ... enige tyd, enige plek, oral ... soos die spreekwoord gaan .... Ek is net op soek na wit blanke manne tussen 43 en 50 jaar oud. As jy geskei of ongelukkig getroud is, slaag ek nie in nie. Ek praat beide tale Engels en Afrikaans. Ek is 'n trotse ma van 3 kinders.

Shania, 45 from Rivonia, Gauteng

HI guys, I am a Transgender girl, please guys not a she male there is a veery big difference. I was born this way. It was not a choice. Anyhow why am I here. Honestly I don't know Lol!. Guess I am looking for a loving relationship or even just great friends. I am a very loving and loyal person, down to earth and full of fun, I have a great sense of humor. I am very social and love being around people. I love the outdoors and very family orientated. Also love animals and playing the piano. Please guys if you only want to chat because you are just curious about a Transgender girl, please rather use Google. Luv and hugs. Shania

Amber, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I'm married so all we do will be between us and the sheets! Won't take too much of your time but will make it worthwhile. Make me laugh and unwind while I make you lose yourself.

Damian, 40 from Centurion, Gauteng

Just looking for a good time with someone who wants their needs met. I am not here to take over your life. profiles are overrated, so if you like what you see lets chat and take it from there. White women please, just my preference noting personal.

Blurry, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Just wanna have some fun when times give me that chance!

Anna, 54 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

ok Iam looking for a straight guy, please no womanisers, a guy who is wise, single and would like to share some special moments. I don't know if this is the right site, but I would really like to meet someone and perhaps fall in love with? U might think me old fashioned, but who knows there might be a guy out there who would like the same?

Lcgx, 51 from Eastern Cape

Recently comfortable to live the single lifestyle, I love the outdoors, whether in the bush veld or on the ocean, or any stretch of water for that matter. I am financially secure and commit most of my time to that endeavour, I am interested in sexy, intelligent, like minded ladies for casual companionship during my down times with no strings attached consensual sex if we connect

Shirahh, 23 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Shirahh has yet to add her profile.

George, 50 from Eastern Cape

I'm a easy going kind of guy like my privacy out for fun an can mix wid all sorts not racing self employed live on my own hve own car yes an like things especially nice things

Yolande, 33 from Centurion, Gauteng

Im just here looking for some nice clean fun with gentlemen from the ages of 39 upwards. I dont mind those young ones who like older ladies. I want stress free fun.

Nekei, 36 from Eastern Cape

Simple straight 2 da point

Nono, 46 from Bloubergrant, Western Cape

Nono has yet to add her profile.

Riaan, 33 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Looking for no strings attached straight or bisexual girl for delightful sexual pleasure.

Preshy, 28 from Newcastle, Kwazulu-Natal

Preshy has yet to add her profile.

Cathrine, 37 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Ok.. Let's do this... I'm not the 1 night stand type... So its not going to happen if that is what you want. Sex is so much more awesome when theres that connection so thats super important to me. I'm not looking for my next husband but whatever happens happens 1 never knows... 1 THING I DON'T DO IS SHARE, WHATS mine IS MINE..... And sorry but if you are married I will not reply and I dont want to see a dick pic in my face as first contact with you as I think there is more to a man than his dick.... Then I'm no model.... I'm 37 and I've had 3 kiddies so theres no way I'm going to look like a 16 year old... But I love my body and what I have. I have a lot of self confidence and I think I'm a super cool mom and woman.. Dont approach me as if I'm just a piece of ass because that will not get my attention neither.. And I dont want the FWB because then I'll just be like a call girl for whenever you need attention.. No no no... I have a 0800 number for you if you want that

Hopem, 33 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Juss need some good time...

Bestiana, 42 from Orange Grove, Gauteng

ABOUT ME- am black single curvey woman, clean,healthy, have a full time job,searching for that special Singleguy,tall,clean,decent,professional,dress smart,stay alone, to be my regular fucked buddy, ,you must enjoy sex positions my favourites positions are THE RISiNG MISSIONARY ,THE SLIDE POSITION. Size doesn'tmatter, what matter is ,how you use it.am not a porn star,but to satisfy you,let chat more .single guys please.m still,searching for my match,

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