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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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Bestiana, 42 from Eastern Cape

ABOUT ME- am black single curvey woman, clean,healthy, have a full time job,don't drink,don't smoke,searching for that special Single,any time anywhere guy,tall,clean,decent,professional,dress smart,stay alone, to be my regular fucked buddy, you must enjoy sex positions my favourites positions are THE RISiNG MISSIONARY ,THE SLIDE POSITION. Size doesn'tmatter, what matter is ,how you use it.let chat more .single guys please.

Margaret, 49 from Table View, Western Cape

Single Mom Caucasian men only....no offence. ..its just my preference...not too young...nor too old....45-53 is perfect.

Plunder, 55 from Eastern Cape

I am a very private and professional gentleman with very little time to date, woo and see women that have baggage. I am a sexual being that love kissing, touching, feeling, sucking and fucking women. I seek NSA (no strings attached) but with a GFE (girl friend experience) feel. I like a woman that is not too shy with me in private but classy in public. It is also my job to make you feel relaxed, horny and satisfied. I love my cock being sucked and licked and would like the woman to enjoy , if not love, doing it for me. Ie. she must enjoy being with me and enjoy me. I will reciprocate the feeling. I am up for almost anything apart from 3somes with another man. I don't share myself with another man. Two women is no problem for me but I do not have too much experience in this regard. Cleanliness is a must. Respect for each other is mutual. I look forward in meeting you soon.

Blaze, 41 from Welkom, Free State

I'm am more action less talk gal who loves having fun with open minded and mature adults

Hope, 33 from Eastern Cape

Not here for anything serious. Have my doubts about these sites - maybe YOU can prove me wrong.

Cristiana, 26 from Randburg, Gauteng

Cristiana has yet to add her profile.

Peter, 26 from Eastern Cape

I'm just an average guy looking to have fun and meet interesting people.

Bee, 35 from Paarl, Western Cape

I'm a single down to earth, know what i want lady. Hygiene is highly important to me and i expect it from the person ill be with, I want one regular well hung friend , if you not that person dont waste my time and yours. I love the outdoors , hiking, camping generally life itself .Unfortunatly i dont host. Hope there will be someone out there wanting the same.

Sajeed, 31 from Laudium, Gauteng

Sajeed has yet to add his profile. Ask Sajeed for more info.

Nadia, 54 from Durbanville, Western Cape

I am a very feminine, intelligent woman looking for a fwb. I am well groomed and said to be attractive, with a great sense of humor. I prefer tall men, well groomed and intelligent and of course, very discreet. I am not into 3-somes or orgies, and anal is not for me. Age group 40 to 55, and please, if you cannot send a decent message, rather leave it. Let's see what happens ....

Ps, 31 from Centurion, Gauteng

Ps has yet to add her profile.

Melody, 41 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I like to play

Tashaa, 35 from Lenasia, Gauteng

I'm looking someone going to b other for m and no how to spoil woman and romantic in bed not shy cz I'm not shy just calm and I love myself .

Kagi, 32 from Carletonville, Gauteng

Simple,Smart and independent woman. Looking for fun.

Canter, 35 from Vereeniging, Gauteng

Discreet fun and tantric sex

Zinhle, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I just wanna have fun. Let's meet first for drinks or coffee, if the feeling is mutual, then we start playing. Only interested in CLEAN guys with CLEAN venue for a hookup.

Lynx, 50 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Creative artist and thinker. Yin and yang between introvert and extrovert. Would love to share good times with naughty relevant other.

Thando, 33 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I am a 33 year old professional lady who is looking for NSA discreet encounter. Drop a message let's chat and see where it leads us.

Natalie, 23 from Table View, Western Cape

I'm a young African girl and I'm a university student. An introvert who loves food. Bookworm too! I'm just looking for some fun and I'm interested in white guys :)

Ridaah, 24 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Ridaah has yet to add his profile. Ask Ridaah for more info.

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