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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Eastern Cape based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Zethu, 32 from Lenasia, Gauteng

Zethu has yet to add her profile.

Dossy, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Looking for great n safe sex

Zoe, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

"My mind is telliin' me no but my body my body's tellin' me yes Baby, I don't want to hurt nobody But there is something that I must confess (to you)" "I don't see nothing wrong with a little bump and grind"

Dorah, 65 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

I am 65 years old black and proud to be. I am married but it is a loveless marriage. I am very much young at heart. I need to meet someone to love and someone who will love me back. I dont want to commit as I am still married but as mentioned before it a loveless relationship, I am still here out of duty. There will be more about me when we start chatting. I love music and I am hopelessly romantic. Lets give it a try. I need an honest person please I hate dishonesty.

Thapelo, 32 from North Riding, Gauteng

Hello, I'm not one for long chats, I prefer calls and/or meetings I'm here NSA for steamy NSA encounters.

Tumi, 29 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Looking for adult fun...feeling noughty.....want to explore!

Tshepo, 34 from Halfway House, Gauteng

Am simple guy just looking for that one person can have fun with as and when both available as I have a very busy schedule...besides that lets have more sex surely there are plenty of you out there ladies. .......want to know more just drop me a line. thanks looking forward to hot steamy conversations, who knows they may become real.

Phumi, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I like meeting new people and experiencing different characters. I am married, so I'm not looking for a boyfriend or husband. Just looking for interesting people to interact with. People who can hold a decent conversation and engage, at a basic human level. Open to meeting for the odd drink or lunch. I do not speak hip-hop and I can't read sms short-hand. Please dont bother contacting me if you are that kind of guy. Same goes for those with their privates on their profile pictures. I'd rather engage with a faceless guy than your "package".

Keeysha, 24 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Prefer WHITE GUYS ONLY please, and only those who can hold a conversation, if you send naked pics or ask for them you will be blocked!

Thandeka, 28 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Im sweet cool friendly lady who likes to meet new people and make new friends im an easy going person

Deee, 44 from Eastern Cape

I am looking for MUTUAL uncomplicated fun with WHITE guys only ,27 - 45, taller than 1.75 m please . I will only chat and meet white guys !!!! I have my own airtime, don't have kids so don't need babysitting money and am not interested in having a blesser either lol I only meet after work and occasionally on a weekend. I can arrange a venue. What I have marked as interests are my interests. If your real interests differ please move on . I don't do bullshit,lies and changing of interests and personality with any enthusiasm .. it annoys me Please don't first msg ask for or give me your whats app number If a Really big girl is not appealing please move on I don't distance chat, sex text ,Duimspyker,phone sex, cam or provide stroking Pics I do NOT meet at dams, parking lots etc at lunch Time For a quick suck and zip. .. so no I am not interested in blowing you. . MUTUAL ONLY Fellow sapio sexuals very very welcome ;)

Shaniqua, 26 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

if we were alone for the, we would make the night a better a place

Cc, 38 from Eastern Cape

what you see is what you get, if you a freak, come and play..... but always looking for someone, who does not mind playing.....We keep it real, we keep it clean...so come let see what hornyness we can get up up to....

Dinah, 31 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Dinah has yet to add her profile.

Tanya, 23 from Alberton, Gauteng

ONLY WHITE guys under 35 pls I am hot young and......... (u have to find out the rest) lol

Xena, 31 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Hard working wife and mother looking for a funny, attractive, hygienic, intelligent long term nsa partner to play hard with on a regular basis.

Nasha, 35 from Eastern Cape

Intelligent black woman..married(discreet).. Fun,open minded and here for chats (or more)with respectable,matured descent people..

Arnold, 40 from Centurion, Gauteng

Interesting company, discreet and trustworthy, friend and lover material; good kisser;Pretoria +-100 km vicinity, Looking for something long term. Definitely not just looking for a friend with benefits or a one night stand. Would like to meet a discreet friend. Definitely for a more "exclusive" friendship. Lets meet for drinks and a romantic dinner.

Owakho, 26 from Soweto, Gauteng

Fun! Adventurous! Open minded!

Tieho, 37 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

I'm simlpe and friendly,CREAMY Creation who loves to be happy-especially making woman very very happy in the bed room.

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