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Hopem, 33 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Juss need some good time...

Jason, 49 from Benoni, Gauteng

White male looking for a white female for fun times...drama free....I am keen to meet someone to chat about any subject... or someone who enjoys a decent restaurant ....or someone who just wants nsa sex...or someone who wants all of the above...the person has to be White...apologies to other races but respect my wishes. In the Jo'burg area... I have no interest in flying to Durban/ Cape Town for a chat or a quickie. Thank you Ladies....Jason :)

Nirvaan, 40 from North Riding, Gauteng

Nirvaan has yet to add his profile. Ask Nirvaan for more info.

Nekei, 36 from Kimberley, Northern Cape

Simple straight 2 da point

Loveydovey, 26 from Strubens Valley, Gauteng

I might talk alot but am shy.I am playful.you wouldn't hold a serious conversation with me, I will joke about it or just go okay with everything you say.why should I always hold down a nice convo lol.let's laugh and be stupid.this is me.if you don't like it move over.I have extra meat everywhere.i like receiving lol i lost my sex drive maybe you can help me find it.hala at me if you think you can lol.you will be doing me.I won't be doing you lol..be honest and tell me how it was and I will do the same.if bn honest is hard for you f off lol.love you all.

Anna, 54 from Northern Cape

ok Iam looking for a straight guy, please no womanisers, a guy who is wise, single and would like to share some special moments. I don't know if this is the right site, but I would really like to meet someone and perhaps fall in love with? U might think me old fashioned, but who knows there might be a guy out there who would like the same?

Jules, 43 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

I am here to enjoy lots of sex and muffing from women of all races...

Cathrine, 37 from Northern Cape

Ok.. Let's do this... I'm not the 1 night stand type... So its not going to happen if that is what you want. Sex is so much more awesome when theres that connection so thats super important to me. I'm not looking for my next husband but whatever happens happens 1 never knows... 1 THING I DON'T DO IS SHARE, WHATS mine IS MINE..... And sorry but if you are married I will not reply and I dont want to see a dick pic in my face as first contact with you as I think there is more to a man than his dick.... Then I'm no model.... I'm 37 and I've had 3 kiddies so theres no way I'm going to look like a 16 year old... But I love my body and what I have. I have a lot of self confidence and I think I'm a super cool mom and woman.. Dont approach me as if I'm just a piece of ass because that will not get my attention neither.. And I dont want the FWB because then I'll just be like a call girl for whenever you need attention.. No no no... I have a 0800 number for you if you want that

Preshy, 28 from Newcastle, Kwazulu-Natal

Preshy has yet to add her profile.

Nono, 46 from Bloubergrant, Western Cape

Nono has yet to add her profile.

Harley, 45 from Randburg, Gauteng

Laid back easy going crocodile castrator, interested in life, death and all the exciting stuff in-between. Looking for someone whose demons can play well with mine! So youre still here, great! Get in touch and who knows worst thing is that we each make a new friend or we hit it off and we have something that makes people around us wonder why we are smiling for no reason.

Shania, 45 from Rivonia, Gauteng

HI guys, I am a Transgender girl, please guys not a she male there is a veery big difference. I was born this way. It was not a choice. Anyhow why am I here. Honestly I don't know Lol!. Guess I am looking for a loving relationship or even just great friends. I am a very loving and loyal person, down to earth and full of fun, I have a great sense of humor. I am very social and love being around people. I love the outdoors and very family orientated. Also love animals and playing the piano. Please guys if you only want to chat because you are just curious about a Transgender girl, please rather use Google. Luv and hugs. Shania

Yolande, 33 from Northern Cape

Im just here looking for some nice clean fun with gentlemen from the ages of 39 upwards. I dont mind those young ones who like older ladies. I want stress free fun.

Alicat, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm looking for a discreet relationship. Not into playing games either.

Amber, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I'm married so all we do will be between us and the sheets! Won't take too much of your time but will make it worthwhile. Make me laugh and unwind while I make you lose yourself.

Smonz, 39 from Germiston, Gauteng

Smonz has yet to add her profile.

Manglad, 46 from Northern Cape

Manglad winked at you (9th Feb at 8:50pm)

Karin, 48 from Centurion, Gauteng

Single female, looking to have some uncomplicated fun with 1 partner. No married men No black men

Lux, 29 from Northern Cape

I want to have hot steamy.......pls note my preference is white and Indian men only.

Bestiana, 42 from Northern Cape

ABOUT ME- am black single curvey woman, clean,healthy, have a full time job,searching for that special Singleguy,tall,clean,decent,professional,dress smart,stay alone, to be my regular fucked buddy, ,you must enjoy sex positions my favourites positions are THE RISiNG MISSIONARY ,THE SLIDE POSITION. Size doesn'tmatter, what matter is ,how you use it.am not a porn star,but to satisfy you,let chat more .single guys please.m still,searching for my match,

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