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Swazzy, 36 from Sandton, Gauteng

Simple, natural African lady, outgoing somebody, love loving and to be loved, love sex, open minded, am very fun to be with.

Desiree, 39 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I like it often. Uninhibited.

Roseline, 31 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

Good looking, smart and passionate lady with respect for ppl

Phillip, 40 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

HI I'm a single man. Looking forward to meeting very good looking ladies. If you think you are the one you can massage me. Please not to this ladies how asked money for transport or petrol please. I'm not a charity case

Sal, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am an interesting woman, looking for someone to keep up with interesting conversations. Wherever they may lead. I prefer people who use full sentences when they chat and can at least reply with more than one syllable. You will draw my attention by being original and standing out from the crowd.

Emile, 37 from Northern Cape

Emile has yet to add his profile. Ask Emile for more info.

Amanda, 26 from Northern Cape

I just wish someone could come inside of me. Someone with a thick and long cock.

Justine, 36 from Northern Cape

Accept others 4 who they are and the choices they have made even if you have difficulty understanding them. Lonely woman

Bianca, 26 from Centurion, Gauteng

I am an outgoing lady looking to have some naughty, raunchy encounters with like-minded sexy men;)

Ronel, 51 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Are you fit, good to look at and have lots of stamina? If so you might be my knight in shining armor

Lizl, 49 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Ek is 'n alleen lopend hardwekende jong van gees dame. Sal graag iemand wil ontmoet wat saam met my die lewe kan geniet.

Scoundrel, 50 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Sing with your soul ......dance with your feet...don't forget to let your heart beat to the rhythm you find yourself in. ... And if all else fails ...PANIC!!... slowly... Looking for more than a one nighter If you are looking for fun and adventure and a friend with benefits... Send me a message...

Ragie, 46 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Ragie has yet to add his profile. Ask Ragie for more info.

Chantal, 43 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a fun loving woman looking for discreet fun and possibly making good friends. It's not just about the sex bt sex is what we all here for so let's chat and see where it goes. Guys if you are not interested be man enough to say so. That way I will not try to contact you.

Zuzan, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for harmless fun NSA. Single LADY. Chat, message, exchange pics. Respect is a must, not negotiable. Rude people are a turn off. If u think I'm here because I'm desperate, don't even try to contact me.

George, 41 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for some excitement and discreet relationship with a like-minded woman, preferably also married or comfortable being with a married man - no strings attached.

Christien, 68 from Northern Cape

Christien has yet to add her profile.

Janine, 37 from Northern Cape

Alright, so here goes. I love to laugh. I can find the humour in almost anything. If you have a kick ass sense of humour, you'll surelly grab my attention. Looking for NSA ... BUT feel it's important to connect intellectually first before even a coffee meeting.... I pride myself in having standards and being a professional, well educated woman. I'm not looking for a relationship, but hoping to find a long term and genuine FWB...(and who knows..?) I've always been the more sexual partner. So let's see if i can meet my match? Ps* only really chat to men older than I am xx

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, just as I won't be cut out for every person I chat to, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. I'm not perfect, but I am me and very happy with my BIG n BOLD BODY, scares included. Please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , I'm not here to keep u entertained whilst u visit Gauteng.

Jimmy, 55 from Northern Cape

I am a single male seeking female company. Good conversation over a bottle of red wine always goes down well. Local ladies welcome to contact.

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