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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Northern Cape who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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Phindie, 37 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Hook up with me, matured, open mimded and funny..you'll love every moment. Must be NSA and very discreet. Love to explore anything possible.

Trish, 28 from Paarl, Western Cape

I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...

Joe, 46 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am fit and like to keep active. I am tired of doing things on my own and am looking for no strings fun with one person. Enjoy getting out and enjoying what life has to offer. I am adventourous and always up for a challenge. Love excitement and taking a few risks. Please dont respond if all you are really looking for is data bundles or require me to log in and register on other sites.

Lee, 41 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm married and looking for some fun time with the right guy. Discreet an absolute must!!!!

Amanda, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Amanda has yet to add her profile.

Fantazycatz, 49 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.

Me, 38 from Kuruman, Northern Cape

Looking for a discreet and passionate affair. Looking for one partner. I am clean, decent and quite passionate. For obvious reasons I do not have a photo here, but I will be more than willing to share one with you, should my profile interest you.

Jamie, 26 from Soweto, Gauteng

Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx

Jennimatt, 32 from Centurion, Gauteng

We are both 32...looking for white guys to have threesomes with. Nothing multi-racial please.

Gavin, 47 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I am 46 year old male,. In really good shape. Looking for discreet physical and intellectual relationship with suitable woman. Not looking for a change in marital status but alignment in pleasure and enjoyment from time to time. Also looking for lady that takes care of herself and her body.

Truly-Sweet, 28 from Alberton, Gauteng

I'm just a lonely bored woman who needs to be entertained throughly, completely. Stimulate my mind with your intellect and will surely stimulate other parts of me.

PK, 43 from Wynberg, Western Cape

I am in a sexless marriage and looking to have some discrete NSA sex, with like minded ladies, preferably married, but not required as long as its discrete NSA fun

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , enjoy Gauteng

Alichia, 21 from Eastern Cape, Eastern Cape

Alichia has yet to add her profile.

Jacky, 34 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm single African,independent hard working and fun.i enjoy reading and meeting people.I think I'm fun to be around ,wouldn't mind trying new things ,never shy to say No. I like gentlemen, respectful preferably professional, mature somebody. I am not after anybody s cash gentleman. This is me trying to own my pleasure. I'm here for fun.if you happen to do one or two things for me it's entirely your choice.

Licious, 53 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.

Pv, 37 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

Pv has yet to add her profile.

Kea, 20 from Northern Cape

thick homosexual.

Sonix, 22 from Northern Cape

Sonix has yet to add his profile. Ask Sonix for more info.

Angelique, 51 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I have honed more than my literary skills during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, the sign around my neck, now reads: Girlfriend Available, as I am not wired for NSA nor being the Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with my needs having changed, it is time to look elsewhere, for whom and what I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will return occasionally to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather ambivalent and need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere..... LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!

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