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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Northern Cape based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Northern Cape who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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Lux, 29 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I want to have hot steamy.......pls note my preference is white and Indian men only.

Damian, 40 from Centurion, Gauteng

Just looking for a good time with someone who wants their needs met. I am not here to take over your life. profiles are overrated, so if you like what you see lets chat and take it from there. White women please, just my preference noting personal.

Hopem, 33 from Edenvale, Gauteng

Juss need some good time...

Shannon, 30 from Bedfordview, Gauteng

I'm looking for nsa fun and friendship. I'm looking for men aged 28-39 only. White, single men only. This this my preference. Please respect my preferences. I respect yours

Cleo, 28 from Moreletapark, Gauteng

looking for discreet fun. around Pretoria. Let's c whr this leads and enjoy it. I'm very open minded and independent but enjoy a gud time. But it needs to b discreet Only black guys

Loveydovey, 26 from Northern Cape

I might talk alot but am shy.I am playful.you wouldn't hold a serious conversation with me, I will joke about it or just go okay with everything you say.why should I always hold down a nice convo lol.let's laugh and be stupid.this is me.if you don't like it move over.I have extra meat everywhere.i like receiving lol i lost my sex drive maybe you can help me find it.hala at me if you think you can lol.you will be doing me.I won't be doing you lol..be honest and tell me how it was and I will do the same.if bn honest is hard for you f off lol.love you all.

Anna, 54 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

ok Iam looking for a straight guy, please no womanisers, a guy who is wise, single and would like to share some special moments. I don't know if this is the right site, but I would really like to meet someone and perhaps fall in love with? U might think me old fashioned, but who knows there might be a guy out there who would like the same?

Bestiana, 42 from Orange Grove, Gauteng

ABOUT ME- am black single curvey woman, clean,healthy, have a full time job,searching for that special Singleguy,tall,clean,decent,professional,dress smart,stay alone, to be my regular fucked buddy, ,you must enjoy sex positions my favourites positions are THE RISiNG MISSIONARY ,THE SLIDE POSITION. Size doesn'tmatter, what matter is ,how you use it.am not a porn star,but to satisfy you,let chat more .single guys please.m still,searching for my match,

Yenzi, 36 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I'm sweet, lovely and love being in a "company" of a neat, matured and strong African gentleman. I don't believe in NSA but I don't want a very serious relationship, I'd love to chat and check up on you since I have a caring personality, we can dine out and talk. If you have same interests.

Amber, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I'm married so all we do will be between us and the sheets! Won't take too much of your time but will make it worthwhile. Make me laugh and unwind while I make you lose yourself.

Catharina, 56 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Am a big woman with a warm personality, and insatiable sexual appetite. No married men please.

Shania, 45 from Rivonia, Gauteng

HI guys, I am a Transgender girl, please guys not a she male there is a veery big difference. I was born this way. It was not a choice. Anyhow why am I here. Honestly I don't know Lol!. Guess I am looking for a loving relationship or even just great friends. I am a very loving and loyal person, down to earth and full of fun, I have a great sense of humor. I am very social and love being around people. I love the outdoors and very family orientated. Also love animals and playing the piano. Please guys if you only want to chat because you are just curious about a Transgender girl, please rather use Google. Luv and hugs. Shania

George, 50 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I'm a easy going kind of guy like my privacy out for fun an can mix wid all sorts not racing self employed live on my own hve own car yes an like things especially nice things

Riaan, 33 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Looking for no strings attached straight or bisexual girl for delightful sexual pleasure.

Karin, 48 from Centurion, Gauteng

Single female, looking to have some uncomplicated fun with 1 partner. No married men No black men

Lcgx, 51 from Northern Cape

Recently comfortable to live the single lifestyle, I love the outdoors, whether in the bush veld or on the ocean, or any stretch of water for that matter. I am financially secure and commit most of my time to that endeavour, I am interested in sexy, intelligent, like minded ladies for casual companionship during my down times with no strings attached consensual sex if we connect

Blurry, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Just wanna have some fun when times give me that chance!

Charmi, 53 from Kuilsriver, Western Cape

I'm a kind friendly woman

Alicat, 31 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm looking for a discreet relationship. Not into playing games either.

Smonz, 39 from Germiston, Gauteng

Smonz has yet to add her profile.

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