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Mell, 38 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm maybe the same girl ... been there done that and now have a different mind and want to explore No strings attached fun with a open minded guy... Who likes to be spoiled They say Gemini's are the best lovers... White guys only

Ladybaesex, 25 from Halfway House, Gauteng

Ladybaesex has yet to add her profile.

Jhvberg, 52 from Northern Cape

PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU CONTACT US !!!!! We are A WHITE afr couple looking for same race couples. SORRY RACE IS AN ISSUE!!!!!. Not into pain or drugs. please read our profile before you contact us as WE DON"T WANT SINGLE GUYS thanks. Will contact you if we are interested. Any couples in our age group will do as we are 51 and 63. We are both straight and prefer it that way thanks. Fill your profile as how can we contact you if you don't fill in all but you want to know all about us??? SORRY RACE IS AN ISSUE THANKS. PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU CONTACT US. Can't you read? *Whites only * Age and Ethnic is a preference as we don't want younger that 45 * We will not contact you if you don't have a face pic as just the body parts don't do it for us.We all have that to. PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU CONTACT US RACE IS AN ISSUE

Louise, 52 from Garsfontein, Gauteng

Im blond and 52 divorced I dont go over the race line only men please. Imnot interested in younger men so dont waste your time im not gonna reply... im not into the sex games... a nice chat and a good friend will do

K, 24 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Fun, energetic and spontaneous gentleman. A bit of old school class mixed with new school swag. Definitely some thing for the ladies. Not looking to get too involved. However, send me a message and let's see how it goes. Would love to meet and make new friends along my way.

Mindy, 37 from Northern Cape

Portuguese whore. All white men welcum. And I always swallow. Oral and anal ONLY.

Jabulile, 35 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I live in the Eastrand and am available for some fun anytime, when u halla at me let it be because u want action not chit chatting this is NSA no time wasters or postponement of shagging mxm can't deal and if u stay far don't bother....and m soooo choosy NO Whites or Indians I want the real meat not some chipolata..... Halla at me ......

Joel, 25 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I am a typical nerd a ravenous sexual appetite. I'm looking for something very casual yet satisfying to both parties. I have only known the pleasures of one woman and I feel like I'm missing out. I hope to meet like minded individuals interested in casual encounters

Antonia, 27 from Pretoria-Noord, Gauteng

Antonia has yet to add her profile.

Shirl, 55 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Easy going. Laugh a lot. I like the outdoors.

Ruben, 47 from Durban North, Kwazulu-Natal

No lies, no false pretences, no promises, no moonlight and roses......just a great time in bed. If you've never totally been satisfied in every possible way before this, then let's chat

Beatrice, 30 from Nelspruit, Mpumalanga

My motto in life is to make sure that even if you have little extra weight.. You can still do what you put your mind to. I enjoy the out doors, extreme sports and just meeting up with new people. I am a real busy B.... and do need some time out from time to time. would love to have that one friend that I can just give a random call, enjoy a glass of wine and see where things lead too.

Jannie, 37 from Northern Cape

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Kathy, 34 from Lyttelton, Gauteng

Honest hard working professional lady. Not here for games. Travel alot need a cream decent man with lost of stamina and passion to please me and the favour will be returned

Patty, 33 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Kinky fun is wat im looking for.

Champion, 24 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I'm here for real fun something daring and adventuress I'm very good at all most sex positions I love all things sex Respect is a key Let's do the great n leave in our wildest dreams

Roelf, 58 from Northern Cape

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Yolands, 36 from Northern Cape

I am a married woman, I love sex, adventurous and fun to be with. I am a woman who is not getting enough sex at home. I am looking for NSA fun and good sex with someone willing to host. it has to be discreet on all levels.

Starscream, 43 from Northern Cape

If any one has met me through this stupid site... called "naaibuddies ".. . Then fuck off... I have never being on that site and never will.... it distasteful and and disrespectful... this site is some how connected to that site... and quite frankly... it's disgusting ... how this site works... I am going too take this further...because I never signed up for this shit .. oh and sorry for the langauge... bit it's am furious

Heather, 42 from Northern Cape

Just got divorced from a 15 year sexless marriage. Sex-starved and ready for action. Not into 2 minutes of fun and then listen to 8 hours of snoring... looking for toy-boys in the mid twenty age group. Treat me with lots of fun and laughter and you won't be sorry what happens next ! No married men ! I serve the needy... not the greedy.. My dislikes: I don't do cybersex or chat online. I hate winks, tattoos and piercings ! Not looking for a husband. I have a high profile business, financially I have everything I need. Let the fun begin !!

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