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Amy, 43 from Northern Cape

Swinging lovers. Loke to have sex with older and chubby guys. My partner loves girls and even chubby women. We do swinging. Originally from Gauteng

Dori, 41 from Northern Cape

I'm a single parent, looking for that one man that can assist me back onto my feet and keep me there. A man that knows how to spoil. Preferably married. He needs to be comfortable in his own life to help me get comfortable in mine. No chancers please!...

Sarah, 43 from Pretoria, Gauteng

A mother of two who's looking for a friend with benefits or NSA sex; whichever shall occur first. Preferably aged between 36 and 50. Race is not an issue.

Kate, 29 from Chatsworth, KwaZulu-Natal

bubbly person, looking for some fun and just sex no strings attached pls

Juli, 42 from Gauteng, Gauteng

discreet fun relationship with no drama

Brucelay, 24 from Northern Cape

I would tie your hands up and take control..yea

Lee, 34 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I am a professional intelligent woman. I like to meet new interesting people. So send me a message and lets see what happens. And if the connection is there, maybe something more will develop.

Nhlanhla, 24 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

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Tanz, 37 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a keen student of new ideas and desires Everyone has a dark passion for the unknown and i want to discover mine with someone willing to explore with me who is not scared of expressing themselves and enjoy dirty crazy nights filled with nothing but hard rough fucking and pure pleasures

Nela, 38 from Northern Cape

Am looking for sex hunk. Come and taste a black, wet, wide holed pussy. Long time no fuck. I'm hungry. we can meet for a nice fuck

Gagu, 35 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

Just an ordinary guy who just loves life and believes that being happy starts within.You must do what you want,when you want,how you want to and with whom you want to.Over and above-Believe.Lets have NSA Fun

Nsadiscreet, 52 from Sandton, Gauteng

Hi, Are you looking for an clean, disease free, intelligent confident competent lover? No Strings? Nothing complicated? Encounters in a classy hotel with clean white sheets and fluffy towels? Me too. I'm Married but seeking the frisson of a discreet liasion with an articulate and educated WHITE woman. Do you have a photo on your profile? Nothing threatening to your anonymity - be imaginative; tease me a little? Fit, active, healthy, I am 5'10", normal to trim build, sporty with short hair. I'm told that I look much younger than my age. I have a high sex drive. I am not a beer bellied, tattooed, vulgar penis pic displayer. With me you have a well proportioned energetic man, polite in public but in private, well - perhaps you'll find out :-) This is about satisfying our mutaul needs. Discretion is absolutely assured and absolutely required. The thrills and excitement of great sex should be preceded by a mental connection. I'm looking for fun - lots of it - but I'm NOT looking to meet someone who has slept with every man on this site. Why not send me a message now? I would love to hear from you. Thanks for reading this far. NON SMOKERS ONLY PLEASE. Please would you upload a photo and complete your own profile before or soon after sending any message? No pic - no response. Thanks.

Bonolo, 36 from Halfway House, Gauteng

What you see is what you get

Nomusa, 47 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

down-to-earth woman, single, here for fun and enjoy da life to the fullest. looking for handsome mature man who can satisfy me sexually and share good moments & laughter together.

Wendy, 36 from Durban-Noord, KwaZulu-Natal

I am hot naughty I would like to be wild and try new things I love sex the more the better I would love to feel. Ur toungue Inside my. Wet pussy mmmmm Requirements: must be over 36 Non smoking,matured clean And discreet,preferable married but looking for fun Mchwaaa

Tammi, 24 from Northern Cape

Enthusiast. Love to laugh. Kind hearted, but a b#tch when needs be... Not looking for anything hectic... most importantly NO DRAMA! so if u have a craxy ex or serious baby-mama drama, kindly refrain contacting me...

Judy, 57 from Northern Cape

Sensual, fire-hot, willing, gentle, joyful and adventurous. I'm looking for a man who loves a woman with curves. I love to be turned on by your desire, I love the smell of a man, the touch of a man, the love of a man. Your body is exciting to me and what it does to me turns me on. Don't contact me if you are younger than 45, black, married, or in a relationship.

Sithembile, 37 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Looking for Someone Honest I am looking for someone with honesty and integrity. Please be who you say you areplease no game players! Please show a recent photo (get out of denial, yes, you and I both have agedhopefully, gracefully, lol!) We all wish we looked and felt the way we did 10 years ago! :) A person with a good sense of humor A smile goes a long waymake someone happy today.i love having sex outdoors. hook up for some hot, horny,passionate fun.

Sphe, 24 from Northern Cape

I'm a young, ambitious, BBW with curves in the right places.. I like 2 go out n party with friends, enjoy cooking, n listening 2 music. I have a 'thing' for mature men and big dicks, no matter d race- as long as u gonna b pleasing me accordingly, I don't mind. I love the outdoors. I DON'T do married men.. Should u want 2 know more, feel free 2 ask!

Asseneth, 45 from Malelane, Mpumalanga

Am 44yrs old matured lady full figure looking for casual sex experience no strings attached with blackman whose full of fun know his story pussy fucker.am looking for some1 to fulfil my wildest fantasies satisfy my voracious sexual appetite. I luv experimenting in the bedroom in fact the more sex the better as far as am concerned

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