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Kathrine, 44 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I live passionately, love unconditional, forgive easy, laugh uncontrollable and am impulsive and recless without regrets. I believe in LIVING....as appose to purely existing, even if it involves hurt, and concurring one's fears! I am FUN to be around....love the outdoors and outdoor activities.....but don't take my word for it...see for yourself...try me...if you dare!! (whites only, pls!)

Petro, 47 from Gauteng, Gauteng

We are a married couple looking for some fun with other couples friendship , if you are married and lonesome do not both.er we are only intrested if you are a couple

Clive, 60 from Northern Cape

Clive winked at you (7th Apr at 5:54pm)

Cheryl, 44 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for someone to chat to, lets see what happens... Oh and watch your mouth, it can be used for more delicious activities. So here are my preferences, no offense intended. I feel its only right that I tell you. So here they are: Only men from 37 to 49yrs. No men of African descent. I appreciate a profile pic. Even the penis pics. There are so many on this site, they all starting to look the same.....lol.

Sam, 31 from Vereeniging, Gauteng

Im just looking for some exciting, clean and steamy sms chats. My kids come first so Meeting me ain't gona happen straight away. I am only interested in Caucasian males, so please don't bother Smsing me if u are from other ethnicity cause I won't reply.

Nich, 21 from Hatfield, Gauteng

I am a young entrepreneur whilst still putting myself through university. Thus I am extremely busy and I don't meet many people (in the casual sense) throughout my day. This is so I can have the casual hook ups but without cutting into my time too much.

Janey, 42 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I have taken the time to write this.... Surely you can take the time to READ it!!! Looking to spice up my life. Need some excitement !! I love sex, i love the idea of meeting a stranger and having a good fuck. Experimenting and playing with toys is great !! I enjoy watching a guy touch himself. I have a bit of a naughty side and am a huge flirt, so be warned. I have a great sense of humor and I love to see that in another person .....so please show me yours. If you can laugh with me and most importantly laugh at yourself you most definitely have my attention. Seduce my mind and my body will follow. Please remember: Looks, size and ability DO NOT nullify common courtesy, even on an adult chat site !! I am financially independent and I expect the same. Life can be such a fantasy if you want it to be. I am not your Honey, Dear, Sweetie or Darling. Don't assign me 'pet-name' unless you get to know me first. Do NOT send me your BBM / Whatsapp / phone number / email / Satellite Dish Code / Dogs date of Birth. I will no contact you off site unless I get to know you first.... very well !!!

Steve, 47 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Single professional gent looking to meetup with like minded ladies in CT area. Hope to hear from you soon xxx.

Nicky, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

White young men only for NSA I am a high maintenance kind of lady. If your profile is fake do not message me I have no time for childish games.

Hlonni, 34 from Soweto, Gauteng

Loving,caring,respectul,luv to hv fun nd enjy lyf!DNT ASK ME WHATSAPP NOR BBM NMBR CAUSE I'm NT INTERESTING IN ADDING U ON IT

Pamela, 54 from Sandton, Gauteng

Too many sexual fantasies to fulfill before hubby retires in two years, then I am back to a sexless marriage. Not into well endowed, I am petite and of very small built, prefer small to medium size. Any open-minded young guns in the twenties age group who want to join me on a cruise to the world of pleasure. Allways wanted to do it in a cablecar at Harties, or some fun under a restaurant table... my apetite is endless...

Audry, 42 from Northern Cape

WHITE Only.....MMF or FFM. Love it. CFNM, great, tease men, watch them in the heat of passion, playing with themself... Great. Hubby always to watch, but always love him to join. Any woman that whants a permanent lady friend, with occasional man to assist, this is the place to be. No complications or jealousy.

Dina, 54 from Hartbeespoort, North West

Ons is n paartjie wat opsoek is na n interessante verhouding. Eerlikheid, netheid en n gesonde lewens uitkyk is n vereiste. Ons is opgeruimd, vriendelik, lief vir die buite lewe, braai en respekteur opregte vriendskap,

Janine, 34 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Fun loving couple always exploring , we do everything with love and Awesomeness

Joanne, 52 from Klerksdorp, North West

I once had sex in my friends lounge, no doors..................... I would like to meet fun friends online that doesn't want strings attached. Chat only. No calls. No meetings yet. Yes im not single, but I do like to have sex, but "oupa" don't! I would like to get naughty online, and would like to talk to someone who cant see my face, and give him a dream of a blowjob!! The prize? If he tells me he had to go and clean up after he had a awesome orgasm!

Crayton, 42 from Randburg, Gauteng

I am a 38 year old blk man . Married but needing a bit of NSA fun . I prefer fuller figured mature women.

Parabellum, 37 from Northern Cape

Parabellum has yet to add his profile. Ask Parabellum for more info.

Sarah, 32 from Northern Cape

I am 32 years old,sexy n beautiful, with a 6 years old son,staying with my fiance.

Lisa, 43 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Lots of NSA attention to give to the right kinda man

Candy, 30 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

Looking for a man who is lovely to spend time with & treats me like a woman :) maximum satisfication guaranteed. You will ask for more :) Tight & wet :) Always ready :) xoxoxo

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