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Fantazycatz, 49 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Fantazycatz has yet to add her profile.

Licious, 53 from Northern Cape

Seeking just a WHITE GENT, preferably between 45-60 for a long term relationship. Friendship first. For whatever the reason I'm here, I hope to succeed for that reason. I've lived my life, love what I have accomplished in my life, trials and tribulations, scars included. If u looking for a super model, or a FLAWLESS person, then just pass me by. I'm very comfortable with myself. NOT INTO OUT OF TOWN VISITORS OR RANDOM ENCOUNTERS Please respect my preference.

Kea, 20 from Northern Cape

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Plaaspoppie, 34 from Northern Cape

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Hendrik, 36 from Middelburg, Mpumalanga

I'm a hard working 36 year old man, recently divorced who's looking for someone to spend time with (who don't expect an engagement ring within the first week) and have fun with

Jamie, 26 from Northern Cape

Sex orientation 1; Rookie means that even if you don't know anything, there's room to learn. 2; commando level means u're getting matured and are a master of the fine art of sex and different bodies...at that that stage, It's like u have a PhD and now the bones of ur body can't take the level of your expertise anymore... I hope that I answered u very well Tnx

Pv, 37 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

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Tammy, 39 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Spunky couple looking for fun. No pushy guys and only with hubby to join.

Amanda, 28 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Amanda has yet to add her profile.

Phindie, 37 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Hook up with me, matured, open mimded and funny..you'll love every moment. Must be NSA and very discreet. Love to explore anything possible.

Mirvin, 52 from Northern Cape

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Thapelo, 32 from North Riding, Gauteng

Hello, I'm not one for long chats, I prefer calls and/or meetings I'm here NSA for steamy NSA encounters.

Angelique, 51 from Northern Cape

I have frequented this site for almost four years now and have experienced all that such a torrid place has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry Boys, but there is no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and even fallen in love....with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman, who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this forum purely by accident, I have honed more than my literary skills during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, the sign around my neck, now reads: Girlfriend Available, as I am not wired for NSA nor being the Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with my needs having changed, it is time to look elsewhere, for whom and what I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will return occasionally to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather ambivalent and need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere..... LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!

decapote, 30 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Trish, 28 from Paarl, Western Cape

I guess its only da married men who treat woman well...lok yes in tawking from xpierience after meetin a married gent.....eeeerrrrrrr....wat does a lady say abt herself....dat I'm a single inf female lookin for tlc .love romance n I love being loved .... i work in tourism and am between dbn jhb n capetown...

Alichia, 21 from Eastern Cape, Eastern Cape

Alichia has yet to add her profile.

Truly-Sweet, 28 from Northern Cape

I'm just a lonely bored woman who needs to be entertained throughly, completely. Stimulate my mind with your intellect and will surely stimulate other parts of me.

Jhbwoman, 47 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I need to have more fun and adventure in my life. Do fun things together. Enjoy the outdoors. Travel, going away over weekends. Not imterested in married men, Multiple partners or one night stands. Would like to have ONE partner that I can see on a regular basis. I live in northciff. Dont have my own place. Nothing personal but I prefer white males.

Uvee, 44 from Northern Cape

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Bedazzled, 27 from Roodepoort, Gauteng

ONLY over 45s sugar daddies who knows how to treat women hit me up. The rest breath. Am Fun, saucy, sweet, spicy, beautiful and i aim to please. The older the jucier. Come on - lets make each other happy.

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