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Janine, 37 from Northern Cape

Alright, so here goes. I love to laugh. I can find the humour in almost anything. If you have a kick ass sense of humour, you'll surelly grab my attention. Looking for NSA ... BUT feel it's important to connect intellectually first before even a coffee meeting.... I pride myself in having standards and being a professional, well educated woman. I'm not looking for a relationship, but hoping to find a long term and genuine FWB...(and who knows..?) I've always been the more sexual partner. So let's see if i can meet my match? Ps* only really chat to men older than I am xx

Sunae, 28 from Northern Cape

I'm very shy but wild when I get down...I just need a friend with benefits...r you the one?? I love sports and nature, if you wanna hv fun I'm ur girl.. Oh n one last thing my hips don't lie...

Ronel, 51 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Are you fit, good to look at and have lots of stamina? If so you might be my knight in shining armor

George, 41 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for some excitement and discreet relationship with a like-minded woman, preferably also married or comfortable being with a married man - no strings attached.

Justine, 36 from Northern Cape

Accept others 4 who they are and the choices they have made even if you have difficulty understanding them. Lonely woman

Bianca, 26 from Northern Cape

I am an outgoing lady looking to have some naughty, raunchy encounters with like-minded sexy men;)

Roseline, 31 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

Good looking, smart and passionate lady with respect for ppl

Frank, 33 from Hillcrest, Kwazulu-Natal

I am here to experience new things. i am energetic, sporty, respectful, clean, naughty, kinky and very discreet. i am not here to mess anyone around, just here for pure fun, and hope for the same in return. i am not looking for multiple partners, rather one regular partner to share in some fun on a regular basis, im also not looking for a relationship. rather a friends with benefits kind of thing. i will also not be posting any face pics on the site, due to the nature of this site, i will however, be willing to share a face pic once we start chatting. please respect my decision, as i will yours. i am serious about meeting up with some special ladies, i hope you are too. looking to have a good time and spoil some special... i wont string you along.

Chantal, 43 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a fun loving woman looking for discreet fun and possibly making good friends. It's not just about the sex bt sex is what we all here for so let's chat and see where it goes. Guys if you are not interested be man enough to say so. That way I will not try to contact you.

Byron, 29 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Byron has yet to add his profile. Ask Byron for more info.

Desiree, 39 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I like it often. Uninhibited.

Swazzy, 36 from Sandton, Gauteng

Simple, natural African lady, outgoing somebody, love loving and to be loved, love sex, open minded, am very fun to be with.

Jimmy, 55 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am a single male seeking female company. Good conversation over a bottle of red wine always goes down well. Local ladies welcome to contact.

Christien, 68 from Middelburg, Mpumalanga

Christien has yet to add her profile.

Phillip, 40 from Northern Cape

HI I'm a single man. Looking forward to meeting very good looking ladies. If you think you are the one you can massage me. Please not to this ladies how asked money for transport or petrol please. I'm not a charity case

Amanda, 26 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I just wish someone could come inside of me. Someone with a thick and long cock.

Zuzan, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for harmless fun NSA. Single LADY. Chat, message, exchange pics. Respect is a must, not negotiable. Rude people are a turn off. If u think I'm here because I'm desperate, don't even try to contact me.

Pamela, 56 from Sandton, Gauteng

Too many sexual fantasies to fulfill before hubby retires in two years, then I am back to a sexless marriage. Not into well endowed, I am petite and of very small built, prefer small to medium size. Any open-minded young guns in the twenties age group who want to join me on a cruise to the world of pleasure. Winks, and tattoos an absolute no-no ! Allways wanted to do it in a cablecar at Harties, or some fun under a restaurant table... my apetite is endless...

Sal, 36 from Northern Cape

I am an interesting woman, looking for someone to keep up with interesting conversations. Wherever they may lead. I prefer people who use full sentences when they chat and can at least reply with more than one syllable. You will draw my attention by being original and standing out from the crowd.

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, just as I won't be cut out for every person I chat to, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. I'm not perfect, but I am me and very happy with my BIG n BOLD BODY, scares included. Please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , I'm not here to keep u entertained whilst u visit Gauteng.

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