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George, 38 from Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal

Very clean Indian,looking for discreet fun.any woman out that is looking for same please msg me.

Tammy, 39 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Spunky couple looking for fun. No pushy guys and only with hubby to join.

Mechelle, 34 from Northern Cape

I am a big girl looking to have some fun

Saads, 32 from Sandton, Gauteng

I'm vibrant fun and confident. I keep fit and work out..Love pleasure..I have no hang ups and not clingy. I want to meet Caucasian individuals that are good looking,open minded, sexy, athletic or muscular physique with a relative amount of substance and personality . You should have class and confidence. .i will be unapologetic for implementing these filters. Please do not ms me if you do not fall within the above factors...I am not here to settle .....I'm here to make hot steamy fantasies with hot ppl. .. any abs and vee muscles will get preference..

Bittersweet, 31 from Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm a fairly intelligent, open-minded professional woman who is looking for discreet sexual fun. I am a bbw and proud of it. Besides sex I love swimming, long drives, exploring new places, crime series and good coffee.

Charger, 48 from Gauteng, Gauteng

I live in both Cape town and JHB. I am free to entertain at home when in JHB.

Ashi, 30 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

looking for nsa fun, hot sex

Kim, 50 from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

Hi. Been here before....and before that. Still looking for a really nice, down to earth, unbroken man person, that wants a long term relationship. I don't do nsa, ons, and married uns. Nor do I want to meet under 45 year olds nor cross racial or religious boundaries. Yes....a lot to ask for, but a girl can only try. I am a mature 50 year old, in fairly good shape, looking for someone who needs an a.n.other for awhile. Thanks for reading.....

Karren, 49 from Randburg, Gauteng

Are you the one who is going to make my heart skip a beat... looking for a decent guy with a bit of an edge....and lots of chemistry! (no married guys and same race only please - sorry)

Dragon, 37 from Pretoria North, Gauteng

i am not the girl next door

Plaaspoppie, 34 from Witbank, Mpumalanga

Plaaspoppie has yet to add her profile.

Berenise, 41 from Hout Bay, Western Cape

I am married, but interested in some fun. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot guy is how I like to spend my spare time.

Jeanette, 67 from Northern Cape

Ek is 'n Afrikaans sprekende, alleenlopende vrou wat n alleenlopende (non attached), nie rokende, man soek wat naby my bly om op 'n gereelde basis te kuier en om mee uit te gaan, na flieks, braais, ens. om die eensaamheid te verdryf. Nie noodwendig om te trou/of saambly nie. Maar ek soek ook nie one night stands nie. Hy moet hou van cuddle ens. Ek bly in 'n Estate langs Roodeplaat dam waar die diere tussen die huise rondloop en hier is nie eintlik mense van my ouderdom om te ontmoet nie. Ek stap elke dag en kry gewoonlik bokke, zebras en af en toe kameelperde op my roete, maak my eie gesondheids kosse. Hou daarvan om meer van die rekenaar te leer, werk in my klein tuintjie, groei so bietjie van my eie groente, en kyk TV.

Arnold, 40 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Looking for something long term. Singles only please. Definitely not just looking for a friend with benefits or a one night stand. Would like to meet a discreet friend. Definitely for a more "exclusive" friendship. I'm a honest, patient, kind and gentle friendly white single guy with lots of self confidence, easy to talk to, clean and descent. I have a awesome Sense of humour..... We go out for a romantic dinner. I would like to be in an uncomplicated long term sexual relationship. Respect to my Lady is very important at all times, good manners, a good heart and I'm a great listener. I know how to please a Lady in all aspects of love making with long mind blowing multiple orgasms. Love foreplay and love giving oral to my Lady.

Poison, 26 from Northern Cape

Hiiii all I'm not a straight girl but I am lesbian who likes to make friends and sometime do stuff with only if I feel like it I live in pta, east lynn...

Peter, 42 from Sandton, Gauteng

I am single, horny, energetic, like to experiment. Treat woman with respect and like to spoil, tease and please. Looking for NSA adventures to enrich my memories!

Bedazzled, 27 from Northern Cape

ONLY over 45s sugar daddies who knows how to treat women hit me up. The rest breath. Am Fun, saucy, sweet, spicy, beautiful and i aim to please. The older the jucier. Come on - lets make each other happy.

Angel, 31 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I don't always bite, but when I do you will enjoy every nibble. Although I like the colour black it does not suit me very well nor does lite brown. I dont like the taste of chocolate, but for nougat...I will go the extra mile. X xx

Noone, 24 from Ekangala, Gauteng

I just want to have fun.. NSA ..just good SEX and I aim to impress in bed. I want to provide your every sexuall desire. love the taste of clean pussy..I'll make it WET 4 days. I want 2 fuck a mum soo badly I'm willing to do anything on their body for a good time..any cougars out there. let me take u out of this world through my dick or lip or finger whatever your preference. give me chance I won't disappoint xxx . let's fuck like your favorite porno clip

Jhbwoman, 47 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I need to have more fun and adventure in my life. Do fun things together. Enjoy the outdoors. Travel, going away over weekends. Not imterested in married men, Multiple partners or one night stands. Would like to have ONE partner that I can see on a regular basis. I live in northciff. Dont have my own place. Nothing personal but I prefer white males.

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