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Mathew, 38 from Vereeniging, Gauteng

Well mannered, good looking gentleman looking to exchange some physical attention with a like minded lady. Enjoy oral pleasure? The pleasure will be mine! Your age, size and shape does not concern me (you don't need to look a certain way for us to have fun together), only that you respect me being a non-smoker. If u got curves, flaunt them! If you worry about which way your nipples point, don't, come and point them at me! If all we got time and place for is some back seat play, I'm game for that too. I'm easy going. Looking forward to hearing from you! Xxx

Desiree, 39 from Northern Cape

I like it often. Uninhibited.

Zuzan, 36 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Looking for harmless fun NSA. Single LADY. Chat, message, exchange pics. Respect is a must, not negotiable. Rude people are a turn off. If u think I'm here because I'm desperate, don't even try to contact me.

Justine, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Accept others 4 who they are and the choices they have made even if you have difficulty understanding them. Lonely woman

Nic, 69 from Northern Cape

Naughty and doesn't care how old i am

Conroy, 38 from Northern Cape

Conroy has yet to add his profile. Ask Conroy for more info.

Anthony, 42 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

Hi I'm just a down to earth guy looking for some great fun ..yes I know this is a fucking site but I would like to get that one woman who will knock me of my feet Who will take time out to sit with me next to the beach and fishing have fun times in the bedroom and how can take charge of a situation I'm staying in the northern areas of booysens park in PE and works as a Forencics Investigation for the Road Accident Fund I'll be going to cape town tomorrow night

Chantal, 43 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

I am a fun loving woman looking for discreet fun and possibly making good friends. It's not just about the sex bt sex is what we all here for so let's chat and see where it goes. Guys if you are not interested be man enough to say so. That way I will not try to contact you.

Bianca, 26 from Centurion, Gauteng

I am an outgoing lady looking to have some naughty, raunchy encounters with like-minded sexy men;)

Ready, 50 from Centurion, Gauteng

I am a independent,professional and very discreet individual, wanting friendship and a NSA relationship.Exercise regularly outdoors to keep fit. Looking for a gorgeous beautiful women that has the right chemistry and is trustworthy. Enjoys kissing, touching, four play and must have the passion for stimulating sex. Love and enjoy the sheer intensity of the KAMASUTRA, which allows both partners to explore love and meaningful sex. It's a technique that balances the body and mind holistically. I'm seriously up for the challenge are you?

Amanda, 26 from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape

I just wish someone could come inside of me. Someone with a thick and long cock.

Swazzy, 36 from Sandton, Gauteng

Simple, natural African lady, outgoing somebody, love loving and to be loved, love sex, open minded, am very fun to be with.

Janine, 37 from Northern Cape

Alright, so here goes. I love to laugh. I can find the humour in almost anything. If you have a kick ass sense of humour, you'll surelly grab my attention. Looking for NSA ... BUT feel it's important to connect intellectually first before even a coffee meeting.... I pride myself in having standards and being a professional, well educated woman. I'm not looking for a relationship, but hoping to find a long term and genuine FWB...(and who knows..?) I've always been the more sexual partner. So let's see if i can meet my match? Ps* only really chat to men older than I am xx

Lizl, 49 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Ek is 'n alleen lopend hardwekende jong van gees dame. Sal graag iemand wil ontmoet wat saam met my die lewe kan geniet.

Bunny, 20 from Boksburg, Gauteng

Kinky BBW student. Homebody. Interested in men of any race and much older than me. Typically available daytime during the week and sleepovers can be arranged. I don't host. Weekends are out. Long and intellectualy stimulating conversations are a turn on. Keen on being wined and dined. (all pictures are mine) please don't bore me with "hey how you's" Get to the point. Keen to hear from you guys :)

Roseline, 31 from Krugersdorp, Gauteng

Good looking, smart and passionate lady with respect for ppl

Ronel, 51 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Are you fit, good to look at and have lots of stamina? If so you might be my knight in shining armor

Sal, 36 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

I am an interesting woman, looking for someone to keep up with interesting conversations. Wherever they may lead. I prefer people who use full sentences when they chat and can at least reply with more than one syllable. You will draw my attention by being original and standing out from the crowd.

Tinks, 53 from Kempton Park, Gauteng

Seeking WHITE gent 45 and above, long term, just one person. Not ALL whites will cut it for me, just as I won't be cut out for every person I chat to, but chat will determine that. I will respond if u have a completed profile. I'm not perfect, but I am me and very happy with my BIG n BOLD BODY, scares included. Please respect my CHOICES. NOT INTO BLACKS. Happy travellers , I'm not here to keep u entertained whilst u visit Gauteng.

Scoundrel, 50 from Cape Town, Western Cape

Sing with your soul ......dance with your feet...don't forget to let your heart beat to the rhythm you find yourself in. ... And if all else fails ...PANIC!!... slowly... Looking for more than a one nighter If you are looking for fun and adventure and a friend with benefits... Send me a message...

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