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Thandi, 26 from Northern Cape

Lots of safe fun and a lot of adventure

Bonie, 29 from Umtata, Eastern Cape

I'm a single lady, who's looking for some NSA fun. My sex life is very boring I just want to explore and try new and exciting things. I'm open minded, naughty and wild. I'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious. If you have something to offer me inbox me and we'll take it from there....

Carley, 31 from Magalieskruin, Gauteng

I'm open minded and fun to chat to, love chatting and meeting new people

Joe, 56 from Rosettenville, Gauteng

Hi looking for NSA relationship

Shiphra, 41 from Pietermaritzburg, Kwazulu-Natal

I love satisfying a man in bed

Kim, 37 from Milnerton, Western Cape

Just wanting some good sex.

Mem, 54 from Pretoria, Gauteng

I'm a open minded fun loving person.Love to take a walk on the Wild Side.

Curious, 39 from Pretoria, Gauteng

Seeking Discreet Relationship with a Mature Lady. ONLY WHITE LADIES PLEASE

S, 27 from Northern Cape

I hav always had an interest in nudism, but have always been shy, the community does not seem to be too open toward singles. Looking for someone experienced that I can have fun with exploring or someone as new as me so that we can explore together. Very inexperienced but eager to learn and do new things, very curious.

Sarah, 47 from Table View, Western Cape

I am an attractive professional woman, who has been divorced for a while, who is looking for one person to explore with. Please see the following requirements before you contact me: -STD free! -age preferably between 40-55; -hygiene is important to you and you take care of your body; -non smoker; -no married men or men who are attached in any shape, size or form (please read that again); -you are available for and enjoy weekends away; -no pictures of genitals showing; -if you are looking to increase your bed post notches- please pass on; - please do not use mixit language such as 'dat' and 'u' - poor grammar is just an equal turnoff as the pics of your genitals! - If you expect a wink or saving me as a favorite to catch my attention, it's not going to work- implies we will not have more than two sentences to say to each other. If you meet the above requirements, I do look forward to hearing from you.

Cuckoldgirl, 39 from Goodwood, Western Cape

Happily married girl who love to cuckold her hubby. Love it when hubby takes pics and make vids of me fucking sexy guys

Hotchoco, 25 from Northern Cape

Hotchoco has yet to add her profile.

Raven, 34 from Northern Cape

I'm a professional guy that just loves the female form. Can get wild in the bedroom and enjoys giving more than taking. Looking for clean ladies to have some dirty fun.

Mondes, 39 from Germiston, Gauteng

Mondes has yet to add her profile.

Gideon, 46 from Northern Cape

hello girls i am from bonnievale small town in the platteland 2 hours from cape town and 2 hours from george say and i am there ,if u are looking for a guy that got a 26 cm tool (mine i think only 20)or a perfect 6 pack or a model face or 1.80 high , sorry i am not that guy,i am a normal plain ful of life and fun to be around with tipe of guy ,i am a easy going ,openminded about things in life ,i am romantic ,flirty and know how to treat a woman with respect and how to spoil them ,l love the outdoors,see,bush and karoo,love to travel around, love cofeeshops, lunches at wine estates ,romantic redwine dinners ,i am easy to talk to can be a girl 's best friend 2 ,i join this site for to meet woman ,although i am not lonly and i am not desperate,but to meet woman because i love woman, thin ,voluptuous ,short ,tall ,maki saak ni ,to me u are all interesting and georges and different stories ,i like the smell of ure perfume,how u dress and ure blue or pienk toe nails,i am not looking for a relationship but friendship with benefits for now,nsa tipe of thing ,first dinner and see how things develop after that ,i am very sexual person love fore play and like to tri new things ,life to short to be boaring ,so girls if u are looking for a mature , respect full, sexual,know how to treat a woman in bed and public alike tipe of guy message me and lets hook up and have some fun and wine xxx

Nicolene, 38 from Bloemfontein, Free State

I am divorced, looking for some fun, mabe friends or more. I love

Leroux, 36 from Bloemfontein, Free State

Leroux has yet to add his profile. Ask Leroux for more info.

Tumi, 29 from Johannesburg, Gauteng

Looking for sex partner...matured and reliable...

Natty, 41 from Phalaborwa, Limpopo

I am a 41year old married white female, blonde hair and dark brown eyes and I love sex, I have only had one man in my life so this is a first for me too. I am looking for attractive white men between 39 and 50 who wants to chat and maybe more...

Tido, 29 from Durban, Kwazulu-Natal

Tido has yet to add her profile.

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