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Sav, 21 from Fleming Island, FL

hey... looking for a younger man preferably 26 and younger im a female sub. and im always down to try new things. white guys ONLY no offense

Suzie, 59 from Sierra Oaks, Sacramento, CA

I'm a switch with a love to sensation play and a deep desire to have things go my way. I love subspace and want to find a play partner to get me there. No jerks or assholes, please.

J, 24 from Stella Mann, Tucson, AZ

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Kat, 22 from Garden City, Kansas

I have a huge sex drive. Would you like to help me satisfy it? Let's see what happens ;)

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