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Jenny, 57 from Yucca Valley, CA

Married woman looking for a single person to join our open relationship. Must be unattached currently and able to accept being in a polyamory style relationship.

Angelina, 38 from Royal Ridge, San Antonio, TX

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Cain, 32 from Cleveland, TN

I am a very easy going guy that loves to have a good time. I am very easy to talk to. I enjoy dirty texts and would even possibly love to meet the right girl for a good time. I want to be very upfront and honest with everything. I am married. My wife does and always will know of everything that I do. I am not just a guy out here trying to cheat. If we chat and see that we click you will be more that welcome to speak with her and see for your self.

Jae, 70 from Maplewood, Minnesota

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