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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.

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Eddie, 43 from Barksdale Afb, LA

be with you ! seee how our chemistry flows

B, 46 from Ponca City, Oklahoma

Playful female when relaxed and treated very well. I can be shy at first however, once you have let me know how desirable I am to you.....I may be the bold woman telling you what I need or want! Wants to be spoiled and I am willing to come to you as you want me then make it happen! * Have the flexibility to be that erotic encounter so bring me to you!* I am putty in your hands and you are the craftsman. I love sex. I love watching a man stroke himself and I enjoy your cum...

Brittany, 27 from Central Brooklyn, New York City, NY

I like big black dick

Renee, 46 from Ponca City, Oklahoma

Hi! I'm a happy, spontaneously, professional woman looking for a professional man for a discrete relationship. I'm looking for some excitement and mind blowing sex from someone who knows his way around the female body. A good friend with benefits would be ideal.

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