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Nicole, 31 from Bakersfield, CA

I have the best outgoing attitude towards life and I love sex more then most men

Doris, 39 from Fayetteville, AR

I like doing all outdoors activities fishing hunting camping swimming hiking jogging

Alishaheed, 34 from Glassboro, NJ

i just a man looking for new friends & a very good time. im open for new things.

Kris, 43 from Trooper, Pennsylvania

I just recently learned about dogging and I love the idea of it, I don't know how I have never heard about it until now! The thought of going somewhere, sitting on the door of my car and having men jack-off and fuck me really turns me on. I have a "friend with benefits" I have talked to about this & would love to have him watch and record it. If you have experience with this- please let me know how this works :) I have also never had a threesome with 2 guys - very interested in that...

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