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Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

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True love first Female 25 from American Canyon California, USA

I'm Sweet girl and lovely as well...I'm lookin' for relationships


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Im seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone special to captur.. Female 40 from Herald California, USA

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I am here for fantasy fulfillment Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

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looking for a partner i cant wait to have Female 53 from Sonora California, USA

A partner in everything and always. I think that men are looking for their woman to become best friend, faithful lover, a partner in everything, and always. Would you add to this list so that your woman is a caring housekeeper? Why not! I am ready to act! And you?


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I am a good entrepreneurial and very educated woman, I like to give my best ever.. Female 45 from Pittsburg California, USA

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I am hida babe, just new here,I want a mature man for serious friendship Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

My.name is Hida, i am born  American citizen, but still single though


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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, I'd love get to know you better but i'm not always online here. text me…


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Cant wait to explore so many things with my match Female 32 from San Francisco California, USA

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I just want to be adored and spoiled. Female 25 from San Francisco California, USA

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Am here seeking for serious relationship Female 28 from Vallejo California, USA

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Hi there. Im Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years . I gu.. Couple 48, 53 from Antelope California, USA

Hi there. I'm Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years,  I am bi/pan sexual and enjoy the time i can have with a woman, my husband only wants me to be happy. We are fairly new to this as well. All we would want is for you to be comfortable. We would love to get to know you better and maybe enjoy an evening together.
Please feel free to reach out


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Im 37 years old, living in the Universal City region. Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Universal City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 85.
I'm White / Caucasian  


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Dominant Lady Seeking a Worthy Submissive Greetings, potential admirers! I am a .. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 60.


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A BEAUTIFUL MISS WANTS TO EXPLORE HER FANTASIES Female 34 from Fremont California, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

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Just checking things out really wanna meet more like minded people Couple 54, 54 from Martinez California, USA

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I am an active person, so I prefer to travel in my free time. I like to cook. I .. Female 43 from San Jose California, USA

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