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I am intuitive by nature. While I am not a mind reader, I am frequently asked ho.. Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im dominant mistress down for hookup and available to train a responsible males.. Female 37 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Looking for naughty romantic man with good heart. Female 61 from San Jose California, USA

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Lovely to be with and I love meeting new people and had some fun Female 31 from Sacramento California, USA

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Hello, Im looking for someone to have some fun with! send me a message Female 27 from San Jose California, USA

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Am young and strong lady who is ready to settle with someone who is ready to set.. Female 50 from Fremont California, USA

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I am hardworking, honest woman and a big dreamer. My biggest dream is to find a .. Female 36 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Im 35 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Hi I’m new to all this dating stuff and am single looking for a serious long ter.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

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I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a loyal sub/slave. If you willing t.. Female 40 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im 54 years old, living in the Mountain View region. Female 54 from Mountain View California, USA

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Im 34 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Union City region.
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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
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Freaky sexy woman , new here ! no points to meet a chat but focus here Female 45 from Fremont California, USA

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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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I am a good entrepreneurial and very educated woman, I like to give my best ever.. Female 45 from Pittsburg California, USA

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Mistress is here and hopefully to meet a loyal submissive Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

Mistress is special, dominant and hot awaiting her first loyal submissive online.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 45 from Union City California, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Union City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Manteca region. Female 28 from Manteca California, USA

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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Oakland region. Couple 33, 33 from Oakland California, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 50 and 90.


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