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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?


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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Couple 23, 23 from Oakland California, USA

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.


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We all know what you’re here for Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m a Goddess, I want to have all the fun and none of the consequences… Tell me what’s on your mind…. Findom whisperer


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Im a Dominant Tranny mistress and I train sissies and sluts and Im available f.. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm open to tryout new sluts and sissies, I love to train them, my name is queen Rayalla


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I’m Taylor I do meet ups if you’re dtf no games no bs Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

AM DOWN FOR MEETUP  I Wanna fulfill your widest sexual fantasies My Service are erotic lick eat & GFE &new 69 style &BBBJ+BJ &body to body Nuru oomassage &shower together &kissing and touch me & B2B including sex


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I’m here seeking for something special Female 38 from Santa Cruz California, USA

I’m here seeking for something serious, With no games nor drama


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Im 32 years old, living in the Marina region. Female 32 from Marina California, USA

Im interested in Women and Men. Im a burn survivor so 85% of my body is covered in scars and i embrace them and feel beautiful which took some work to feel this way about my. I'm 32 years old, living in the Marina region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.


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I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a loyal sub/slave. If you willing t.. Female 40 from Sacramento California, USA

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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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I am hardworking, honest woman and a big dreamer. My biggest dream is to find a .. Female 36 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Loving, caring, truthfully and responsible Female 34 from Lodi California, USA

I prefer you to ask me if you really want to know instead of making it public


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Beautiful Goddess seeks a male submissive to explore her fetish and kinks Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

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I love all my lovely friends and family Female 38 from Union City California, USA

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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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Curvy and Nerdy woman searching for a Sir/master/dadd y. Is in an open relatio.. Female 32 from Oakland California, USA

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.


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Hi! I don’t know what to say but hi Female 22 from Merced California, USA

I’m a switch, I like to be in control sometimes but I loved also being told what to do. I love being chocked and fucked


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Write me if you are interested in me. Female 56 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 56 years old, living in the Arizona City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 90.


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I’m new here to meet new friends and lovers to get to know more Female 37 from Union City California, USA

I like when a man has a good sense of humor. I am very talkative so we will find a lot to speak about. You will never be bored withe me! If you are every bored or upset, I hope you will like my kisses. I do not have any special requirements to my man. I just want you to be yourself and open your heart to me!


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Hi handsome how are you doing today my name is Alisa looking for serious relatio.. Female 38 from Union City California, USA

Looking for a long term relationship or soulmate am also here for friends with benefits


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Hey, Lets chat and see where this will lead too Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

Love going to the beach and love going out to high on whiskey


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Seeking for a subto serve in a long term domination who is willing to please and.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm into feminization, bondage, submission, pegging, domination, discipline, and many other sub


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New here looking for someone to love Female 47 from Atherton California, USA

I'm very dow to earth , God fearing and caring at heart ready to love and settle for good


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am looking to explore and play with someone who is also inexperienced so I dont.. Female 26 from Tracy California, USA

I am into most of them, bondage, humiliation, toys just to name a few. However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance


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Im 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 60.


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We are looking for a woman that is willing to join us in a polygamy relationship.. Couple 38, 24 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 25 and 40.


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