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Ready to embark on a romantic adventure together? Its inviting, positive, and .. Female 45 from Merced California, USA

Passionate traveler with a swing on the greens! Exploring new destinations and teeing off on the golf course are my perfect escapes. Looking for a partner who shares the love for adventure and a round of friendly competition. Let's create unforgettable memories on the road and on the fairway


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Im a DOM seeking for a sub to explore this lifestyle with. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

I love to explore alot, you should join me, Dominant in nature.


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I am soft, sensitive, sincere and sexy. I crave for moments of intense passion t.. Female 25 from San Jose California, USA

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I’m looking forward to exploring kinky desires with an older subordinate male an.. Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

Living the alternate bdsm lifestyle with an older subordinate male is really what gets me excited.


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Looking for naughty romantic man with good heart. Female 61 from San Jose California, USA

I'm honest, caring, naughty, romantic, easy to get along with and i also love 69...In short, i love sex so much and am open to anything.


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Im 33 years old, living in the Lodi region. Female 33 from Lodi California, USA

I prefer you to ask me more about myself rather than making it public


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Hello, Im currently looking for someone to have some fun with here Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

Single and I love to go out, hiking, camping and beaches, name it!


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New here looking for someone to love Female 47 from Atherton California, USA

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Oh raa Life is all about fun,lets explore our turns on. Thats rad!! Female 30 from California City California, USA

Gets happier when I have you check on me all the times.
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A caring and honest lady seeking for a true love Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

lovely and caring want my own soulmate who wont hurt me


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Im 38 years old, living in San Jose. CA Female 38 from San Jose California, USA

I'm Professional Dominant i teach and train how to exhibit 100% of your submission as you will be tied and trained with my wet pussy and ass hole in your mouth ,Spanking, Paddling, whipping ,erotic s, role playing and Humiliation 38 years old, living in the San Jose CA. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 77.


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Looking for the kinksters like us to enjoy life! Couple 51, 51 from Sacramento California, USA

Hey Fellow perverts! Mature and secure couple looking for couples and select singles for regular play in and outside the bedroom that are d.d.f We are an easy going couple with experience in the lifestyle but don’t let that intimidate you newbie’s   as we are no pressure but ask you to be as genuine as we are. We like a few different dynamics of play so hit us up and see if it clicks with your type of kink? Wife is a Sexy and classy submissive vixen that is very Fun! If this sounds like your style hit us up and let’s make it happen. Happy hunting fellow kinkster!


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Single lady ready to mingle with a caring man and also i am looking for a long t.. Female 39 from Fremont California, USA

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Hot sexy fun to be with loving Female 38 from California City California, USA

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seeking for a serious relationship with the right man . Not here for games pleas.. Female 38 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm easy going lady, love to cook, work alot because i own my work. I love to go out with my man love fishing as well.


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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I am a dominant woman So are you here now to submit yourself to me, to serve me?.. Female 37 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I'm into feet fetish. I'm basically into a lot of kinks. Very open minded


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I am a new member and Im an outgoing person who enjoys making new friends and .. Female 39 from California City California, USA

I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person. I am an honest, loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.


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I am a gorgeous dom in search of a loyal and submissive sissy male to bring me p.. Female 33 from California City California, USA

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37 subby and 57 cucky husband in the Daggett region. Couple 37, 56 from Daggett California, USA

~~under construntion, come back later! ~~uh... not really sure what to say. My husband and I want a bi Dom to tease and pleasure us both. husband is bi and cucky, but vanilla otherwise, and im a subby, bratty, girl so it doesn't really work as well as we would like. and i know hes capable of so much more. just sort of browsing right now. he's new to the scene so have to be gentle lol. im a little more experienced, but I wouldn't know the first thing about making a vanilla into a dom, so now I seek wisdom from the Elders, or whatever lol ~~oh, i am fat now, but I'm already started on my weight loss journey, so i expect to be more attractive very soon...ish.... husband is stoic and needs to learn a thing or two, like how to give in ~


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Wanna be a dominant and have control Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

Need a loyal and humble sub to have control and willing to serve me all of his life


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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with


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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

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In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.


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Life is too short for inhibitions, right? Im all about living in the moment and.. Female 28 from Bakersfield California, USA

Need to spice up my days. I'm a nympho. Pleasing is my biggest kink. Don't be gentle. And I'm seeking for anyone who's interested to have intense fun.


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I would like to tell you a bit about myself. I am woman of strong character and .. Female 46 from San Jose California, USA

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