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I am searching for someone special and adventurous who would love this type of B.. Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

I'm a dom and I train subs to serve, i am searching for a submissive kinky sub to serve me in a serious long/ short term permanent M/s D/s relationship and he must have a good heart, open minded, truthful, caring, honest, loyal, obedient, respectful, straight, kinky, listens, submissive, etc. Someone special and adventurous who would love this type of BDSM scenario.


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The mistress will kiss the bear goodbye when he sleeps in his own bed. Female 37 from California City California, USA

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Hi am farra am single funmy amd caring i wosh to have a man like the way i will .. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
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we are looking to explore i want to find her a bull but a female ok too or coupl.. Couple 28, 38 from Sun Valley Nevada, USA

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Looking for someone to have fun with , leave a contact if you’re interested Female 58 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

I’m interested in ongoing FWBs 2-3x/mo on wkends w people who r fit n physically active outdoors, n into pleasurable, safe sexual exploring. Sound like a match for you? My pics are from past 2 yrs. I value kindness, respect n honesty. Some of my interests are horseback riding; hiking (4-6 mi); kayaking; billiards; grilling/cooking; sensual, erotic, sexual n kink explorations. (Gender Neutral means I can be both receptive n proactive. I enjoy wearing sexy, accessible clothing n I also enjoy initiating and/or guiding pleasurable experiences.)


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I am an active person, so I prefer to travel in my free time. I like to cook. I .. Female 43 from San Jose California, USA

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I like to take control and give pain and pleasure then we can switch and have fu.. Female 25 from Sacramento California, USA

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Life is to short to waste time , ready for district affairs and few relationship.. Female 40 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Im 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region. Female 40 from West Sacramento California, USA

I'm 40 years old, living in the West Sacramento region.
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Im 31 years old, living in the Sonoma region. Female 31 from Sonoma California, USA

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However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th.. Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

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I am looking for that special oolder one who will rekindle the flame of passion .. Female 26 from California City California, USA

BDSM lifestyle enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive to me


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Im 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. Female 43 from Atherton California, USA

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Hello nice to meet you here guys hope you have a great day Female 38 from California City California, USA

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. Therefore, I am looking for a healthy, comfortable, harmonious relationship wi.. Female 51 from California City California, USA

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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

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I am looking for someone who is honest and not into head games. Female 29 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 85.


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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?


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I am a wonderful, single Lady of 26 with a heart of gold, a Lady you would love .. Female 27 from California City California, USA

I am a wonderful, single Lady of 26 with a heart of gold, a Lady you would love to meet and even spend the whole rest of your life with as am also willing to meet that special Man God has sent to me, that i will be with


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