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Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!
Bicurious
Looking for, ages 35-45.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-71.
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I need a family-oriented man who is dreaming and wants to be a forefather, who is really looking for a real, true, honest relationship where two partners are devoted to each other, to make each other stronger on the way to the same goal to have a successful, happy, healthy life
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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I'm ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to Dominate
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-64.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I'm looking for a new submissive to please and serve me.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

I am 45 years older single, never married,I am an open minded woman with a heart of gold who love life to it’s fullest
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Sub

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it. I have my own business. I love new experiences and new challenges. I am sure I will also give you a lot of surprises when you get to be together with me. Do you think I am a type of your lady? Come and get to know
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable' You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Him: Athletic, charismatic, dominant, very hung, fun, outgoing, social, seductive.
Her: athletic, big ass, fun, submissive, slutty, very outgoing.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 26-46.
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Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Threesomes

Well, I'm just your lowkey woman, living life to the fullest! I'm a lover of all things cozy – you'll often find me curled up with a good book and a cup of tea. I'm passionate about my hobbies, like gardening and baking, and I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, whether it's hosting dinner parties or going on outdoor adventures. Overall, I'm just trying to make the most of every moment and spread a little joy wherever I go
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-72.
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Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

We're interested in concerts, traveling and making new memories.
Lesbian, Lesbian
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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Interests,

I'm 27 years old, living in the Sheridan region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I am ready to begin sincere and open communication, without hiding anything. In any endeavor, and especially in love and relationships, in order to be successful, you need to give 100%, and I am ready for this.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Sex Toys

I’m easy going and very optimistic and free to talk and communicate with I don’t underrate anyone.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-88.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Feet, Fetish, MILF, Nylons, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

I'm 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Oral sex and sex toys make me happy because I cum quick through oral sex or sex toy. i love to give oral sex too and would love to 69 often
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-72.
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Interests, Anal, Cuckold, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I have the zeal for the BDSM lifestyle, not every woman should be a Mistress. I am here to rock your kinky world and take you on a long ride in my UNIVERSE.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

I'm 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive sub aged between 40 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust....again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will lookgfforward to every day...
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-84.
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Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sub

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Self control and take good care of my hygiene, love to kiss and get spank I love to cook and listen to some sweet jazz and blue music,love swimming and camping , i can be very romantic and passionate lady
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-89.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Sub

I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Sexual and family-oriented lady. I like to bring home comfort and hospitality. I prefer romantic atmosphere more. I am a very positive person, cheerful and I look forward to a new day, giving thanks to God. I do believe in a real love and I genuinely believe, that I can meet my love here, on this site. I am very active person. I am interested in everything that gives me pleasure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Oral

What makes me happy? A big dick and honesty..Equal attention to all 3 holes. Having my nipples sucked. Strength to lift all 160lbs of me and authentic aggression..(no longer married and do not have or want offspring)If I cannot see your face I cannot respond
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, S&M, Sub

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