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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Looking for, ages 35-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

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I particularly enjoy hearing about my sub male fantasies Female 41 from Silver Springs Nevada, USA

Welcome My pets. I invite you to take a look into My life as a Pro Dominatrix, FemDom Goddess, and Fitness/Fetish Model. Inside My DM, you will find many intriguing erotic fetishes, kinky videos and glamorous/fetish photo sets. Immerse yourself in a interactive, unforgettable experience with a highly respected internationally known Domina.


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Seeking for a stable like minded relationship which can lead me to something ser.. Female 39 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I need a family-oriented man who is dreaming and wants to be a forefather, who is really looking for a real, true, honest relationship where two partners are devoted to each other, to make each other stronger on the way to the same goal to have a successful, happy, healthy life


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Webcam

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I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to Dominate


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Real looking to find fun let’s get it together Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I love having fun making new friends serious minded people here


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Im single dominant mistress.. Female 34 from Roseville California, USA

I'm looking for a new submissive to please and serve me.


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Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for that special man who is ready to love and beloved Female 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am 45 years older single, never married,I am an open minded woman with a heart of gold who love life to it’s fullest


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Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it. I have my own business. I love new experiences and new challenges. I am sure I will also give you a lot of surprises when you get to be together with me. Do you think I am a type of your lady? Come and get to know


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I’m looking forward to meet a honest and caring sissy to serve, trained and plea.. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

consider my self as a strict but also a loving mistress, To me, A male/sub as the case may be has to be 'malleable'  You have to be capable of adjusting your self to satisfy  your mistress wants , It could mean a different things to peoples  depending on the situation, As a good sub, you have to be ready to relinquish your WILL and CONTROL into the hands of your mistress


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We are new to the lifestyle. Very curious to explore new things together. Very o.. Couple 36, 34 from Sacramento California, USA

Him: Athletic, charismatic, dominant, very hung, fun, outgoing, social, seductive.

Her: athletic, big ass, fun, submissive, slutty, very outgoing.


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Lost both parents due to Covid. I’ve learnt to grow and believe in myself whatev.. Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

Well, I'm just your lowkey woman, living life to the fullest! I'm a lover of all things cozy – you'll often find me curled up with a good book and a cup of tea. I'm passionate about my hobbies, like gardening and baking, and I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, whether it's hosting dinner parties or going on outdoor adventures. Overall, I'm just trying to make the most of every moment and spread a little joy wherever I go


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LOOKING FOR A NICE TIME GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND HAVING SOME FUN. Couple 39, 46 from Rohnert Park California, USA

We're interested in concerts, traveling and making new memories.


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Your 27-year-old stonergirl next door. Female 27 from Sheridan California, USA

I'm 27 years old, living in the Sheridan region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Let get to know each other and explore fantansies Female 57 from Berkeley California, USA

I am ready to begin sincere and open communication, without hiding anything. In any endeavor, and especially in love and relationships, in order to be successful, you need to give 100%, and I am ready for this.


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys

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Id love to explore the possibility of a connection between us. Lets chat and s.. Female 38 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m easy going and very optimistic and free to talk and communicate with I don’t underrate anyone.


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Im 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 29 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.


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Im 34 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

Oral sex and sex toys make me happy because I cum quick through oral sex or sex toy. i love to give oral sex too and would love to 69 often


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I don’t want time wasters and unserious sub. Female 37 from San Francisco California, USA

I have the zeal for the BDSM lifestyle, not every woman should be a Mistress. I am here to rock your kinky world and take you on a long ride in my UNIVERSE.


Bisexual

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Im 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. Female 43 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive sub aged between 40 and 90.


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As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not.. Female 28 from California Hot Springs California, USA

As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust....again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will lookgfforward to every day...


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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Better days ahead let talk now Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

Self control and take good care of my hygiene, love to kiss and get spank I love to cook and listen to some sweet jazz and blue music,love swimming and camping , i can be very romantic and passionate lady


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Darkness is not just about what we can see, it is a lifestyle we all need to exp.. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?


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I am a gentle, easy-going woman Female 49 from Aromas California, USA

Sexual and family-oriented lady. I like to bring home comfort and hospitality. I prefer romantic atmosphere more. I am a very positive person, cheerful and I look forward to a new day, giving thanks to God. I do believe in a real love and I genuinely believe, that I can meet my love here, on this site. I am very active person. I am interested in everything that gives me pleasure.


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Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Oral

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I aim to please on my knees. I like a *firm hand* to put and keep me in my place.. Female 43 from Walnut Creek California, USA

What makes me happy? A big dick and honesty..Equal attention to all 3 holes. Having my nipples sucked. Strength to lift all 160lbs of me and authentic aggression..(no longer married and do not have or want offspring)If I cannot see your face I cannot respond


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