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Im 49 years old, ready to enjoy life again Female 49 from Oakland California, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Santa Cruz region. Female 39 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,


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l am looking for a love trust and a good man to make some fun together and make .. Female 38 from Modesto California, USA

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Single and seeking for that one man to build a serious relationship with . Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I am honest, energetic, easy-going, sociable, optimistic, purposeful, kind, sincere, sensitive, serious, self-confident, responsible, open, active, and loyal , loving man to build a relationship together .


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Am really honest sincere and trustworthy i do treat people how i want to be trea.. Female 46 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am outgoing person,like shopping,going to beach,visiting nice places


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LA lady, Midwest baby with time also spent on the East Coast. I love my work and.. Female 37 from Los Gatos California, USA

My animal rescue work is what nourishes my heart and soul. I’m very passionate about animal rescue and rights, if money didn’t matter, I’d “work” in rescue full time.

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Hello and how are you doing on here Female 42 from San Jose California, USA

Hello am new on here seeking for a long term relationship


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As a female dominant on this BDSM site, I am a confident and experienced individ.. Female 52 from Santa Clara California, USA

I’m blonde and powerful, with a commanding presence that demands attention. My voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black and purple leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a woman


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nothing good comes easy so I always kept looking since I will one day find a man.. Female 49 from California City California, USA

I think my goal in this life is to make people happy and enjoy life. I really enjoy helping others and feeling their gratitude. I am as delicate as a flower, but I need a man who will help this flower grow and bloom. In a relationship, I like to share love and passion and get it from man. I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue with my future husband. I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.


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Im 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Female 51 from Santa Clara California, USA

I'm 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
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Always have faith in you and never give up in life Female 36 from Fremont California, USA

I'm single looking for my soulmate i mean someone who's honest and ready to love me for who i am. Am not here for any head games so if you know that's what you're here for please don't message me. Thanks !!!


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Im 34 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Union City region.
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Im 33 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im very honest and caring seeking the same in my man Female 51 from California City California, USA

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Im looking for friend with benefits Female 43 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m looking for friend with benefits with someone serious and matured


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I am looking for an older special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

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Hello am looking for a serious relationship Female 43 from California City California, USA

Well am new here and am looking for a serious relationship that will be ending in marriage, but best friend first to know more about each other and see where it goes from there


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Im 37 years old, living in the Universal City region. Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Universal City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 85.
I'm White / Caucasian  


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Your 27-year-old stonergirl next door. Female 27 from Sheridan California, USA

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I am Misstress Iva, lovely to meet you Female 32 from California City California, USA

Everything excites me, but knowing I will be your mistress excites me even more


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I am a kind and debonair person. There is always a smile on my face. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

My friends say my biggest demerit is that I can see only the good sides of a person. However I think it is one of my best merits!


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I am looking for a decent, kind, intelligent man without bad habits to spend unf.. Female 43 from Walnut Creek California, USA

An inspired dreamer. Creative and talented. My life is like a raging river, rapid and filled with various events, laughter, great mood, sincere feelings. I always follow the call of my heart, strive for my desires and believe in my dreams, do not obey my fears and boldly do what I like


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Hi how are you doing today it nice to meet a good man here Female 34 from California City California, USA

Am a good woman with a beautiful faces and want to be with the right one here


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