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Im 46 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 46 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 89.


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My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.
I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.
I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.


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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, I'd love get to know you better but i'm not always online here. text me…


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Im 34 years old, living in the Livermore region. Female 34 from Livermore California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Livermore region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


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Just want to have fun and friends with benefits. I can give you all the pleasure.. Female 27 from California City California, USA

Just want to have all the fun, and play with the big boys. Be careful, I can be so naughty sometimes ❤️


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I seek to find fun relationship and a partner who appreciates the richness of a .. Female 43 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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Looking for findom let’s chat and seek out some opportunities Female 27 from Union City California, USA

5’5 curvy and love to chat and go shopping and have fun


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Looking for a loyal and trustworthy playmate Female 25 from California City California, USA

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed playmate to discreet my hookups lifestyle, distance is not a problem if we understand each other


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Think about what you have to offer in a relationship. Mistress looking for a su.. Female 26 from California City California, USA

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I am looking for a right man to love for the rest of my life Female 38 from California City California, USA

What am I looking for? Looks, background and age are not as important as finding someone who is honest, kind and tender, who is full of life and loves to smile and laugh. I am looking for someone who can be an equal partner in a life together. With an equal partner, the joys are twice as good, and the sorrows half as bad!!


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I particularly enjoy hearing about my sub male fantasies Female 41 from Silver Springs Nevada, USA

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I love traveling and discovering new places. I enjoy of nature, hiking and sing .. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

I am light, kind person but still serious and self-condident. By my character, I am wise, well-balanced woman and by my heart. I am sweet, tender and helping. Would love to have a nice dialogue and show my qualitites in more private way. I love music, dancing, spending my free time in nature, by the sea, thinking about life or dreaming. I always try to live in pleasure. I am a woman who looks after herself, does fitness and spiritual development.. I love photography and movies


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Hot sexy fun to be with loving Female 38 from California City California, USA

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Capricorns have more fun, it’s true Female 42 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Text me Now! If you would love to explore your kinky side with Mistress. Female 35 from Belmont California, USA

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I am a very simple person, hope to find a simple man. You dont have to be rich,.. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

I am looking for a humble, kind, and traditional man who values love, family, and mutual respect. A man who believes in the power of partnership and cherishes the little moments we can share together. I appreciate someone who is supportive, understanding, and has a strong sense of loyalty. If you're a man with a good heart and a warm smile, who enjoys life's simple pleasures and can appreciate the effort and love that goes into building a relationship, then I would be thrilled to get to know you better. Together, we can explore the world, learn from each other, and create a beautiful, lasting bond.


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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

We’re looking for couples who share our perspective on intimacy and are open to exploring a variety of sexual styles. We appreciate partners who prioritize taking care of themselves physically and emotionally and value open communication. We’re drawn to gentle and considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. If you enjoy a diverse approach to sex and are open to exploring new experiences, we’d love to hear from you.


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My name is Traci, I am new to all of this and Im hoping to be able to enjoy my .. Female 42 from Sacramento California, USA

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experienced dom looking for an occasional BDSM playmate. Female 46 from San Francisco California, USA

i always enjoy being in control enjoy teaching you to behave. you know how much you love to be pleasing


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Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Im 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region. Female 33 from Vallejo California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the Vallejo region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 54 and 99.


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Walks , going out for dinner, Female 40 from California City California, USA

Walks , going out for dinner,


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Handsome … I will be very happy to know more about you … Female 25 from San Jose California, USA

Handsome … I will be very happy to know more about you and if you really very interested in me because I want someone who is ready to make me feel like a woman and also a very supportive person who ready for me as we both help each other in terms of needs and wants handsome … but it is very important to meet up for real .. so please get in touch with me here so that we Can make it happen for real


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never married and had no kids, i am here looking for my soul mate to build a lon.. Female 38 from California City California, USA

I would also like to find an honest and good christian who we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as cooking ,swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as sharing his interest with me too


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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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Hey everyone new sub is here ready to serve Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a sub seeking for a lot of things I don’t mind any type of relationship I’m interested


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