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Down to earth, looking for what I really want here Female 38 from Modesto California, USA

Very free spirited, down to earth, humble and can be nast…y


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Slim beauty looking to fulfill your fantasy Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m a beginner Willing and ready to learn new things.


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Im 37 years old, living in the Universal City region. Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Universal City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 85.
I'm White / Caucasian  


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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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I’m looking forward to exploring kinky desires with an older subordinate male an.. Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

Living the alternate bdsm lifestyle with an older subordinate male is really what gets me excited.


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Im 45 years old, living in the French Camp region. Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the French Camp region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 56.


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Text me Now! If you would love to explore your kinky side with Mistress. Female 35 from Belmont California, USA

I’m a professional  mistress who demands strict obedience loyalty at all time Come to me for your training I will make your dreams of being owned by me a reality for you Be at my feet worship me as the Goddess you have always fantasized


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Loving, caring, truthfull, willing and responsible Female 33 from Lodi California, USA

I prefer you ask me about myself rather than making it public


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A friend, girlfriend, lover. . . wife. . . . i am looking for long term relati.. Female 38 from Vallejo California, USA

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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

Fairly obedient pet with a bad girl streak looking for experienced Dom to mutually push each other’s limits .


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Are you still out there for me Female 35 from Sunnyvale California, USA

I am fun to be with and easy going so I tend to find someone who I will enjoy life with


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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

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heyyy im Erin and im always kinky Female 18 from San Francisco California, USA

im always horny and kinky ;) You can use me whenever


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Well would like to meet new men on here truthful to me Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

Am truthful and honest lover like to meet same as I am


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Im 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Be a good one at whatever you do Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

Just an exciting lady looking to have some fun and explore


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We are new to the lifestyle. Very curious to explore new things together. Very o.. Couple 36, 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im 39 years old, living in the Santa Cruz region. Female 39 from Santa Cruz California, USA

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,


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Freaky sexy woman , new here ! no points to meet a chat but focus here Female 45 from Fremont California, USA

I am a lot missing a bedroom play, cuddles , good touch and romantic sex through the nights.


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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 34 from Stockton California, USA

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Im 29 years old, living in the Redding region. Couple 30, 30 from Redding California, USA

Looking to try new things and explore a little bit


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Hey there everyone! I am new here. i am a sound and open minded woman, i am qui.. Female 35 from Sheridan California, USA

I love to go for walks on the beach. I have quite a few likes. I am open to dinner nights and movies as well. I love reading too.


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I just want to be adored and spoiled. Female 25 from San Francisco California, USA

I just want to be adored and spoiled. Can you do that for me? Looking for a sissy boy I can dress up so we can be little dollies together.


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Im 49 years old, ready to enjoy life again Female 49 from Oakland California, USA

I am a great widow .Open minded and easy going,hoping to explore and make a great lifetime !


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d with my most important method LOL Im very cheerful and kind, but I can behave.. Female 44 from Sacramento California, USA

Hey there, I'm Katya, I came here to find a victim for surgery, can I be your sexy nurse? hahaha I have many ways to treat diseases in patients, but you will be delighted with my most important method LOL I'm very cheerful and kind, but I can behave like a naughty girl and sometimes I need to be punished, you know what I mean?


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