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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

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I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and also satisf.. Female 36 from Rocklin California, USA

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Im 45 years old, living in the Union City region. Female 45 from Union City California, USA

I'm 45 years old, living in the Union City region.
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Im dominant mistress down for hookup and available to train a responsible males.. Female 37 from Santa Clara California, USA

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I’m BBW looking for a man who will always spank me Female 63 from San Jose California, USA

I’m a very loving person but lately my Libido has been crazy. I would like to find a man who is affectionate a great kisser and knows how to please me so I’m begging for more! I Love going to the movies day trips and love the rain and want to be made love to by a fireplace! Thanks for reading my profile! I’m not looking for a long distance relationship unless there’s great potential!


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I’m looking for that man who is ready to {“Suffer the pain of discipline or the .. Female 29 from San Jose California, USA

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I am a loving, caring, honest, passionate, intelligent, affectionate woman with .. Female 35 from Healdsburg California, USA

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Lost both parents due to Covid. I’ve learnt to grow and believe in myself whatev.. Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. Female 36 from San Francisco California, USA

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Caring Pet looking to take care of Sir Female 47 from Folsom California, USA

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Surrender to temptation and explore a world where pleasure knows no bounds Female 27 from Danville California, USA

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Are you still out there for me Female 35 from Sunnyvale California, USA

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I’m a dominatrix and I’ve led this lifestyle for quite some time now Female 37 from San Jose California, USA

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I’m friendly to chat with feel free to contact me Female 47 from Rohnert Park California, USA

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