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I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-56.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm a cheerful woman, I am an eternal romantic, shy and sincere. I am the kind of person who could never deceive. I am very sensitive.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-84.
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Interests,

People who make me happy all the time and around me always
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I would like to find my soul mate, somebody who will treat me perfect as I will treat him!
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests,

I'm 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Curves, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

Couple here. Looking for a 3rd guy to add into the mix, preferably a versatile guy.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

You're already here, might as well cum on my ass lol
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 49 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

A happy mistress that willing to train my sissy slut
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore…pegging and so on
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-65.
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Being treated right, and being cherished and loved
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-90.
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Interests, Dom, Sub

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

All happy girls are alike; every unhappy girl is unhappy in her own way. My kind of unhappy is full of self-deprecating humor, double IPAs, and Is actually pretty rad.Let me know if you want to be miserable together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-78.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sub

My name is Rebecca ,i am 50years Old,I am Single (five years ago), black hair,Black eyes, 5' 9", 141 lbs.,Long Hair and a healthy Lady. I am self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

But the road,
The road is my mistress.
Devious and open,
Harsh and nurturing,
She seduces me with love
And dares me with death
In equal measure.
Just like any good woman.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-70.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I would consider myself to be a Caring Dom with a bit of a sadist streak in the right dynamic. I'm looking to have some sort of emotional connection to the person I'm in a d/s relationship with, whether it be romantic or otherwise. I'm not interested in only dominating someone physically. The emotional connection needs to be present as well.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

Let talk thing out if possible you might be interested in me
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-80.
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I am very calm woman,God fearing woman ,never married before
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-80.
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Interests, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk

I am single and seeking for an honest and caring man that is ready for a long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-79.
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Interests, Crossdress, Curves, Mature, Outdoor Fun

I am honest, energetic, easy-going, sociable, optimistic, purposeful, kind, sincere, sensitive, serious, self-confident, responsible, open, active, and loyal , loving man to build a relationship together .
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-84.
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Interests,

I am quiet new to this and not good at it and am out here on the app considering the fact i am exhausted with loneliness, just tired of being alone and would like to be happy with my life again, Any real man out there to get acquainted oneopheliatgnale leave me a short note if you’re smart enough to figure out the my personal contact to get a hold of me ASAP
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
Lesbian
Looking for, ages 39-75.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

Im a pretty soul nice person to be with and keep my words
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-85.
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Interests,

Serious minded person, open to everyone
I'm a lover of fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

Very calm and lovely soul to be with , I put trust and hope in everything I do to succeed.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Age play, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sexual Massage

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