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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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Im interested in communicating and knowing more of you if you dont mind. Im a.. Female 44 from Los Angeles California, USA

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I’m a cool lady looking for a love one Female 24 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Im Melissa by name i am 31 years old, i was born in Netherlands and grew up in .. Female 35 from Santa Ana California, USA

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Im 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region. Female 41 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region.
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Were a couple but just me here and looking for a versatile guy to play with. Yo.. Couple 33, 55 from Westminster California, USA

Couple here. Looking for a 3rd guy to add into the mix, preferably a versatile guy.


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My name is Erica. Im a Mistress and a Model. I like to meet new people and get .. Female 24 from Oceanside California, USA

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Well my name is Rita but my friends called me beauty new on this dating site I d.. Female 49 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 49 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Looking for a sub to have fun with Female 28 from California City California, USA

A happy mistress that willing to train my sissy slut


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Looking for my soulmate and hope you are here? Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!


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Here for a good time, not a long time. Looking to meet new people and have fun Female 27 from San Francisco California, USA

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My name is Rebecca ,i am 50years Old,I am Single (five years ago), black hair,B.. Female 45 from Los Angeles California, USA

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The sky and the earth, The night and the light, The heat and the cold, The rain .. Female 37 from California City California, USA

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Seeking a submissive male for a long term. Female 34 from San Diego California, USA

I would consider myself to be a Caring Dom with a bit of a sadist streak in the right dynamic. I'm looking to have some sort of emotional connection to the person I'm in a d/s relationship with, whether it be romantic or otherwise. I'm not interested in only dominating someone physically. The emotional connection needs to be present as well.


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Im all available for anything fun Female 33 from Long Beach California, USA

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I am full of energy and passion for life. My heart changes with every emotion I .. Female 39 from Los Angeles California, USA

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Single and seeking for that one man to build a serious relationship with . Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

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I know you will never read this, but I want everyone to know that I love you wit.. Female 47 from California City California, USA

I am quiet new to this and not good at it and am out here on the app considering the fact i am exhausted with loneliness, just tired of being alone and would like to be happy with my life again, Any real man out there to get acquainted oneopheliatgnale leave me a short note if you’re smart enough to figure out the my personal contact to get a hold of me ASAP


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Im a good communicator and believe that trust and respect are essential in any .. Female 40 from Oakland California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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Hi im laurel on here for hook up Female 29 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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Not that innocent as I look, just try and see Female 27 from California City California, USA

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Im 43 years old, living in the Santa A. Im honest new here looking for anythin.. Female 43 from Santa Ana California, USA

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