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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Hawthorn
Serious minded people only please. Here to have fun Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

A dominant woman looking for a submissive man to have fun with and train in the old ways of BDSM


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Get Ready to Make a Splash with My Irresistible Profile: Unforgettable Connectio.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

Charming soul, ready to unleash , here to connect, match and hook up


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sunny hearted with a touch of moon light Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

If you are interested in communicating with me, then I just want to say that I don't want endless conversations, I believe that this site is just the first step of getting to know each other, and the best way to get to know each other is a real meeting, I hope you understand me.


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New mistress looking for an obedient sub, interested in chastity in 24/7 control.. Female 21 from Melbourne, Australia

I love people commenting on how I look, honestly and respect are a must and I need to be in control.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Pegging

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Fun couple looking Looking for fun Couple 45, 43 from Mernda, Australia

Fun couple looking for fun and excitement with likeminded couple


Straight, Straight

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Randomly found this sight so unsure of it’s purpose especially after the questio.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am active lady, kind, sympathetic, open, cheerful and purposeful


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Im an experienced mistress looking for a submissive to train to the lifestyle . Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

My fantasies are bondage , humiliation , inflicting sweet bearable pain , body worshipping and lot more


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Seeking for a long term relationship Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Seeking for live and a tasty love  … looking for a good man


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Looking for, ages 37-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples

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Baby momma needing some direction and some discipline. Female 39 from Marong, Australia

Doing as I’m told and hiding who I really am for my dom. It’s for him and only him


Straight

Looking for, ages 29-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sub

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Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her dom.. Female 37 from Bendigo, Australia

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


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Starting something new , we are both so excited to share crazy life adventures... Couple 52, 33 from Mulgrave, Australia

Watching each other enjoying life's pleasures , being a part of something so special is just so amazing!


Straight, Straight

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I wont honest man to enjoy life together Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

I will like to enjoy my life with honest man have some nice time


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A communicative and safe space for submissive to explore their desires and fetis.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

As a dominant, I am a confident and assertive individual who takes control and leads with a firm hand. I have a deep understanding of power dynamics and enjoy exploring the boundaries of pleasure and submission. I prioritize communication, trust, and consent in all my interactions, ensuring a safe and consensual experience for both myself and my submissive partner


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Elegant. Authentic. Experienced. Professional Dominatrix & Alpha Goddess! Female 29 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

I am vastly experienced in correcting male wrongdoing and offer role play scenarios ranging from a good smacked bottom from a matriarchal/ strict stepmom/ authoritative auntie figure to judicial canings from a uniformed officer.
My punishment room has a large, and greatly varied selection of disciplinary implements. The range is as eye-popping as their effects are eye-watering! !
Straps, tawse, plimsolls, floggers, belts, paddles, and My favorite Canes.
Lots and lots of canes. I adore canes, maximum effect, minimum effort. My backhand is well-practiced, too. Let's have beautiful stripes on both cheeks.
If all this seems a bit too severe.

My right-hand offers a spanking experience that will give You a warm glow for days.


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open to seeing what happens, lets chat Female 43 from Craigieburn, Australia

Kind hearted and cuddly. Love some banter and flirtation, but expect to be shown respect too.

Honesty is respected and appreciated,  if you can't be straight down the line with me, don't waste my time.


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Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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Hi im 29 single finding someone who have patient XX Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

i am very open minded person love to meet an older men and maybe someone to explore XX


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Hi, Im Mistress Sophia I leaves in Melbourne, Australia. Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 55 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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Horny couple loving our BDSM journey and seeking to take it to the next level, m.. Couple 48, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

READ THIS - Only interested in genuine people who are here to share good times FREELY. No prostitues or pimps should waste your time and ours asking us to pay for anything, we’re verified! OMFG - Saints and Sinners, so fucking  We’re dipping our toes, fingers and tongues and more into you, because sometimes one tongue, hole or hard cock just isn’t enough. Add some extra brains, toys, ropes, clamps, slapping, flogs etc. and it just goes to the euphoria and ecstasy level. Seeking a fun submissive for safe BDSM adventures. We both love squirting!


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub, Webcam

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Just make a move and lets see what happen Female 47 from Melbourne, Australia

Oh, about me! What more can i say, I think i have said so much on my profile so i do not know what else to add. Anyway, I am a simple lady, a positive person and a good listener to be with and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I am looking for someone to have fun are you down for it Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

I just recently got out of a long term relationship. so I am looking for wild fun and just to meet someone nice and have a good time are you cool with it?


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Im here to have fun and have a good time, Im open for friends with benefits an.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 30 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 75.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Group Sex, Mature, Sex Talk, Sub

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Hi Im Taylor looking for something real and long term. Female 29 from Laverton, Australia

I'm looking for something long term...if that's not you please move along


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction

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Hi my names Clarissa . I am open to exploring everything. I’m really kinky and I.. Female 23 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m young and want someone to teach me. I like to beg …


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking to explore and enjoy. Not strangers to the scene Couple 34, 34 from Lavington, Australia

Down to earth couple. Enjoys a drink and a laugh and lots more


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 24-44. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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Im looking for someone to build great time together. do you like coffee? cats? .. Female 29 from Wodonga, Australia

I'm a strong independent woman, has a job and still single and has no family despite the age, but still looking for someone to be with. I'm not so strong if I'm alone. I'm open to  a lot of ideas and willing to explore a lot of stuffs for fun. Ain't a time waster please so do you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, ASMR, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Active member locations

  • Wallan /
  • Craigieburn /
  • Ringwood /
  • Saint Albans /
  • Laverton /
  • Hallam /
  • Eltham North /
  • Mornington /
  • Grovedale /
  • Mernda /
  • Broadford /
  • Corinella /
  • Werribee South /
  • Saint Kilda /

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