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Im a 46 year old mistress based in Australia Female 47 from Australind, Australia

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My approach to domination is rooted in trust, communication, and mutual respect... Female 29 from Perth, Australia

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Im new in Town. Looking for something real. Female 49 from Perth, Australia

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Im 37 years old, living in the Australind region. Female 38 from Australind, Australia

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Hi there, I never thought I would belong to the bdsm community, however, Ive be.. Female 29 from Perth, Australia

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Looking for a loyal Sub from the age 35-70, Im very adventurous and I love to t.. Female 26 from Australind, Australia

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Unleashing passions with a whip and a smile, dives into the world of BDSM, embr.. Female 44 from Perth, Australia

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Chunky couple that aim to please Couple 40, 33 from Rockingham, Australia

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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 31 from Australind, Australia

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Straight

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