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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Melbourne
I am adult girl ready to take care of myself but indeed the most wanted thing is.. Female 43 from Fitzroy, Australia

I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way. In my life I have everything I need - my favorite job, my friends, and my family, but the only part is missing is my partner of life, my love and my destiny


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Curves, Feet, Outdoor Fun

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Hey I name Chloe I am bbw I want to be used Female 34 from Warragul, Australia

I love my job I want a master to own me all over  thank


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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My heart is full of love and happiness Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

Love Thrives on confidence and Dignity and survives on wisdom and Honor


Straight

Looking for, ages 58-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature

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Im a very kinky woman looking to satisfy my desires Female 26 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for someone who shares same sexual interest as I do


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-72. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Feet, Roleplay

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I am strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 9 years experience with a great lifestyle and I have crazy fun ideas


Straight

Looking for, ages 42-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetish.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for LTR, of fun, chills, ecstasy, wildness and more.  I love to explore with my Sub, and I’m excited to meet a real loyal submissive, must be very energetic and hygienic, and daring.
Love Light bondage, pegging, Ass worshipping, pussy worshipping, role plays, impact plays, collaring,whipping, and mistress loves being served by a clean and hygienic Sub. Looking for a naughty Sub for discreet meets.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

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Dirty persian slut luv sucking cock while rubbing ny pussy Female 37 from South Morang, Australia

Persian woman live alone independent home owner business owner I know what I want thick large


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-46. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal

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I AM LOOKING A MAN WHO WANTS TO MEET UP Female 35 from Melton, Australia

I  WOULD OPEN ANYTHING FOR YOU SO YOU WILL MAKE HAPPY


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello lets have fun whos next and available ? Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 80.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Lingerie, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

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Professional couple looking for discrete adult fun, with non pushy people. D&D f.. Couple 53, 46 from Fawkner, Australia

We are not newbies nor are we hardcore but we will never meet and play on the same night, so if you are looking for a quickie we would not be able to satisfy your wish. We prefer to chat first to see if we will get along and then agree to meet up for a drink and if all agree proceed from there to a time when we are all available.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 29-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

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Mistress is not here for games. Serious people only Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a Dominant woman who enjoys training men the true old ways of BDSM relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hi we are new to the swinging thing we are very out going I’m 35 and my partner .. Couple 35, 43 from Maddingley, Australia

Hello we are enjoying the swinging and cuckold scene


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 25-45. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Beeekind couple seeking female Couple 44, 48 from Clayton, Australia

Bubbly hugs fun happy giggles I’m one of the lucky people who love what they do.. I wake up and can’t wait for my day and hopefully I can share my  infectious fun and have a laugh
.., I love new shiny people.. lm now with an exciting partner to double the fun.. I love eating both sex’s ..I’m adventurous loves to play and watch sexual partners let go and enjoy .. My partner loves giving to women and wants me to have a girlfriend to satisfy my sexual choices. . let me play with you and explore your turn ons .. or just have a drink and talk about it I’m cruisey  either way .. or a little dirty talk if it flows and we’ll go with the flow lol Do you want to be played with ? Or want to be played with with the focus on you? send a message if you want to explore what I or we can do.. no pressure just fun and laughs I don’t take life to serious or sweat the small stuff x


Bisexual, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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I’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and .. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 46-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hello Dom/sub x message if interested Female 23 from Mulgrave, Australia

Only message me if this is what your looking for. xx


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

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Ready to find someone I can truly submit to again. Female 46 from Melton, Australia

I am submissive to my core but only to one. I am a pleasure-seeking, service submissive with an out-of-control oral obsession. I love rope and the freedom it gives me and thrive under rules and rituals that please and serve a Master.
I have been Owned by Sadistic humans.  I never sort them out and am not a lover of pain but a lover of pleasing and caring for someone else's needs.


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

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Bi couple looking for orgies and parties… Couple 45, 45 from Warragul, Australia

Cocks are so much fun!
Long term couple, not new to the scene, very much in Love, Open minded & fun loving, looking to push some boundaries and satisfy some curiosities. We understand what it’s like to want to explore more, experience with mmf bi not always necessary. You have to start somewhere …
Please be patient, it can take some time for us to message back, life and work commitments keep us very busy.

We are down to earth people, looking for easy going, respectful, discreet, men to meet up over a drink and help us to explore our kinks. We are patient, genuine & ready to play. Happy to message to get to know each other, happy to meet promptly with the right person.

Don’t be shy, reach out if you’d like to chat.


Bisexual, Pansexual

Looking for, ages 20-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am Goddess and I deserve attention. Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

I am true believer that we only live once and life is too short not to enjoy new things. I have a good life and nice career I am a very confident woman who love hiking I love walks on the beach with a serious man.


Straight

Looking for, ages 51-77. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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New on here and looking to have find a soulmate Female 49 from Portland, Australia

I'm 49 years old, living in the South Carver region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Mature, Nylons, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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Authentic Sub Seeking Genuine Connection, No Games Female 39 from Carrum, Australia

In the world of BDSM, I thrive on discipline, embrace power dynamics, and find excitement in objectification. Privately, there's a deep dive into the intricacies of humiliation. At my core, it's all about authentic service without getting caught up in clichés.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for fun. A bit insecure but am willing to try new things Female 21 from Broadmeadows, Australia

Very chilled back and open. Looking for a new experience


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-30. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Cuckold, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Video themselves

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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Look for that special older one,  who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship.
Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Oral, Roleplay, Sexual Massage

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Couple looking for two guys to fulfil wife fantasy Couple 44, 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I like the idea of my wife groaning with sexual pleasure


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 24-32. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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I am a dominant figure seeking a loyal sub in real life Female 40 from Glenroy, Australia

I’m a well experienced mistress and lover of bdsm, I can get you to your next sense of pleasure


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im 37 years old, living in the Canadian region. Female 37 from Canadian, Australia

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Straight

Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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