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Fun couple...Come play with us!... Female 47 from Melbourne, Australia

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I am strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

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I am a sincere and honest woman. Maybe you can think that I am strange, but I am.. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

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SWer looking for a sub to assist in duties around the house i.e. hoovering, dish.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with one submissive.. Female 48 from Syndal, Australia

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I am naughty as well as intelligent and family oriented Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

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