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I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
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Im looking forward to meet my soulmate..! Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

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I'm 26 years old, living in the Wyndham region.
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Mistress Ava seeking a loyal submissive Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle

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I’m a Demi Pan, so looks never bother me. I’m pretty open to ideas on hook ups (short and long term), friends, something serious, a play toy (if your into that sort of thing).
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I am adult girl ready to take care of myself but indeed the most wanted thing is.. Female 43 from Fitzroy, Australia

I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way. In my life I have everything I need - my favorite job, my friends, and my family, but the only part is missing is my partner of life, my love and my destiny

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I am naughty as well as intelligent and family oriented Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I am not an Angel, not all girls would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony, some laugh when we cook together or walk together, lots of kisses are included.

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I’m new on here …Write me and let’s get to know each other more… Female 36 from Syndal, Australia

About my past relationship, I have been into relationships and those are also my only sexual partners I have ever had.
of my relationships ended because of my partners betrayal and infidelity (cheating) and the other ended because the love was not there to grow. I know this sounds strange to you but as I wrote above I have not been sexually active now for years!!!!. I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in a relationship with them and my last relationship ended over years ago. …….

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I have experience in training and education men in the pleasures of submission, .. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

Once you've been taken in and found worthy, our sessions and scene will occur as regular as our schedule permits...you will draw so close to me that nothing else will matter apart from pleasing me and serving beneath my feet, we will have multiple session act and play, each one with a different exploration, we will become one

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Married couple looking for female or couple to join in fun. Bondage, role-play, .. Couple 39, 45 from Melbourne, Australia

We are looking for females or couples to enjoy some fun with. My husband is new to this so I would like to start of slow with him as he has never experienced much in his life till he meet me. Im a very adventurous women and love experimenting in the bedroom. Happy to travel no meet will be at our home. Happy to meet for a drink and see what happens. My husband is very nervous so please be kind

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Im 27 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Couple 27, 42 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 27 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 57.

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Im kind and lovely person just ask anything I wont bite. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for something new in my life I want to experience everything here.

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