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I am a dominant woman,who Enjoys training men in bdsm lifestyle and Hookups Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

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New to swinging. Hope to meet some interesting people Couple 53, 53 from Melbourne, Australia

We are new to swinging.
We are looking for a bloke to give wife a erotic massage


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Oh yes I’m a pretty, glorious Mistress in search of a Sub. Mistress will train .. Female 50 from Geelong, Australia

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Im married so Im looking for some discreet fun, NSA, ONS, FWB :) Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

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Hi a dom but will swich lol hardcore Female 59 from Carrum Downs, Australia

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Unicorn So I’ve Been Told...?? Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

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Looking for harmless sexy fun and to make good friends Couple 43, 43 from Camberwell, Australia

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Mistress is not here for games. Serious people only Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a Dominant woman who enjoys training men the true old ways of BDSM relationship


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Am a Dom looking for a sub that is willing to serve Female 37 from Camberwell, Australia

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I enjoy the eroticism of BDSM, the power exchange and the control I command over.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

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I am adult girl ready to take care of myself but indeed the most wanted thing is.. Female 43 from Fitzroy, Australia

I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way. In my life I have everything I need - my favorite job, my friends, and my family, but the only part is missing is my partner of life, my love and my destiny


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Looking for a bit of extra fun. Couple 45, 53 from Lovely Banks, Australia

Exploring and trying new things. Would like to explore with another couple.


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looking to rekindle my lost flame in the glorious bdsm lifestyle Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

Spontaneous,open minded,kinky and looking forward to explore more


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Seeking someone serious and honest Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

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Looking for someone serious and romantic Female 45 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a fun loving and laid back girl  who is easy going. I love the simplest things of life and i try as much as I can to be an optimist no matter what life throws at me.


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I am a gorgeous and fierce mistress looking for an agile sub to bend to please m.. Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

Mistress with crazy fun ideals,likes sub with energy


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Mistress Ava seeking a loyal submissive Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle


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Bring the heat and I will me you there. Partner with me for a life of passionat.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

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Simply, Kind, humble. I dont chase, I attract. Female 30 from Werribee, Australia

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Hi, Im Mistress Sophia I leaves in Melbourne, Australia. Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 55 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


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Live and learn to be me Explore Female 55 from Frankston, Australia

To be desired and feel cherished,
I am a submissive female
I search for a naturally dominant male
Please single men only
No pic no play, you see me, I want to see you. Looks for me are not important but feeling a connection is everything.  
Attraction desire chemistry with the possibility of a relationship is what I seek
NO MARRIED MEN OR MEN WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS


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Hey handsome wanna have some fun? Im a hot sexy naughty lady available for fun Female 33 from Frankston, Australia

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Im 63 years old, living in the Yutan region. Female 64 from Vermont, Australia

I'm 63 years old, living in the Yutan region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 59.


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Im looking for a straight man or a cross dresser to train as My sub Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a Mistress looking for a willing sub whom I can utilize my skills effectively with


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