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Oh yes I’m a pretty, glorious Mistress in search of a Sub. Mistress will train .. Female 50 from Geelong, Australia

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i am here looking for love fun and sex Female 63 from Melbourne, Australia

i wanna me that man who will love me and make me happy


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Sub, Im a newcomer. I like sm and like to be humiliated and slapped. Female 19 from Doncaster, Australia

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Looking for a devoted sub who is willing  to do what it takes to please his mistress


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Hi a dom but will swich lol hardcore Female 59 from Carrum Downs, Australia

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Im 24 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 24 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
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Im young mistress Nichole. Im 49 year old sexy mistress, I will never break a p.. Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

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I’m new on here seeking for honest and caring man to settle down with him , some.. Female 40 from Phillip, Australia

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I AM LOOKING A MAN WHO WANTS TO MEET UP Female 35 from Melton, Australia

I  WOULD OPEN ANYTHING FOR YOU SO YOU WILL MAKE HAPPY


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My heart is full of love and happiness Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

Love Thrives on confidence and Dignity and survives on wisdom and Honor


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A submissive sub looking for a master to searve Female 40 from Geelong, Australia

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Im 27 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

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I seek a true,obedient, loyal sub, willing to do everything to please and cheris.. Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

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Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship Female 41 from Bendigo, Australia

Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship


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Well get along if you are funny, open-minded and can carry a conversation. We m.. Female 26 from Werribee, Australia

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Bisexual

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Hey, looking for someone to have fun with. Preferably online or app first and se.. Couple 32, 32 from Bendigo, Australia

Happy married couple looking for guy for wife to flirt/play with


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Im 25 years old, living in the Pennsylvania Furnace region. Female 26 from Phillip, Australia

I'm 25 years old, living in the Pennsylvania Furnace region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 31 and 90.


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Im a dominant lady I’m here searching of a loyal submissive man for a long ter.. Female 33 from Melbourne, Australia

Be bold to Ask me and I’ll tell you more about myself and my policies


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Greek Goddess from Melbourne. Fun, curious, adventurous, 61 year old. Female 61 from Carrum Downs, Australia

writing Erotica, sailing the seas pretending to be a mermaid, meeting new people.


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im happy to be here and im looking for a nice person Female 58 from Melbourne, Australia

i'm a nice person looking a nice man who will  be my


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If you are looking for a true experience, the possibilities are endless and I lo.. Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

I will like to train objects that are ready to be submissive under my supremacy. I have been training objects my whole adult life and I enjoyed fetish sex and the whole idea of having a man under my leash, so for me, no permanent markings or bruises, i am not much into pain rather i am more into kinky role play and bondage play LTR. Please note I always abide by safe, sane and consensual play.


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