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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Melbourne
Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

Having fun discreet enjoy the moment and to explore


Gay, Gay

Looking for, ages 45-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys

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I am your Queen, your serious Lady, your one and only! Female 35 from Somerville, Australia

You will always find me approachable and understanding. I live my life embracing sensuality, which naturally brought to to this exceptional world of companionship, passion, intimacy, and adventure. The idea of having subs really turns me on. I love what I do and who I am.


Straight

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STRAIGHTFORWARD AND LOVING..BE GOOD AND KEEPDOING GOOD.SERIOUS MINDED ONES PLS. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

I am here for a serious relationship.i believe like minds think alike .lets get serious and make good convo.


Straight

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Hey I name Chloe I am bbw I want to be used Female 34 from Warragul, Australia

I love my job I want a master to own me all over  thank


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Come play hold sleep eat.i Ill cook breakfast,if U stay again Female 48 from Healesville, Australia

Very open minded .big heart .dirty minded and loving


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Hi, looking for casual fun times Female 50 from Geelong, Australia

I like to socalize and have fun. I have never been with a girl before, but I do prefer men but it just depends on the situation I guess.


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Just looking for some fun Open to new adventures New to this have always wanted .. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m unique and addictive in personality. Looking for someone with an amazingly funny sense of humor and up for some fun and maybe more. Open to trying pretty much anything - how you gonna know if you like it if you don’t at least try it.


Bisexual

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I want a man who will love me, appreciate, respect, cherish Female 27 from Richmond, Australia

I really enjoy life in all its manifestations. But do you know how incomplete life is without second half


Straight

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Domination has been a lifestyle for me, and many at times misunderstood by other.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

Like a sailor, I’m on a voyage of discovery, so if you think you possess what I’m after, you can reach out. Don’t be shy, I don’t bite!


Straight

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Hey Im a respectful handsome stocky 39yo bi Male from the Mernda area looking t.. Couple 39, 54 from Mernda, Australia

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Mature lady looking for fun with others.. Female 56 from Saint Marys, Australia

Hi, my name is Judy. I am looking for males to have some fun but I am new to this environment. I am also possibly looking for a female to join in with a friend of mine and myself in a 3some.I am 55, and love exploring my sexual side to the limit and am happy to meet. I am adventurous, spontaneous, easy-going. Hoping to meet soon.


Straight

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Mistress Ava seeking a loyal submissive Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle


Straight

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Looking for a partner to explore my sexy naughty and kinky intentions with Female 43 from Hoppers Crossing, Australia

I want to explore my kinky thoughts with someone responsible and naughty at the same time ,badassmistress you'll ever find ,I got everything you need and I'll give what it takes to get what I want from my submissive man let's explore in my fantasy kinky world


Straight

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We are sexually active mature couple looking to explore delights of bondage Couple 63, 57 from Frankston, Australia

We are looking to expore our sexuality
We are very active mature couple who wish to meet like minded persons for fun and sexual pleasure


Straight, Straight

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Huge geek. Also likes cats and old music. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

Huge geek. Also loves cats and old music. . . . . .


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-29. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Hey. A middle aged lady after casual sex Female 46 from Yass, Australia

Sucking and licking for great foreplay to involve both partners


Straight

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DOM looking for a submissive sub to explore the lifestyle with, Im 43years old .. Female 23 from Melton, Australia

Let's delve into the lifestyle and I will train and teach you how to be a good sub. Looking for something special and LT


Straight

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I am an ordinary girl who would like to become a loving woman in the future, and.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

Watching Netflix, Hangout with friends, Shopping Camping, Hiking, Ice Skating, Travel


Straight

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Not here for jokes,only serious people. Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a dom,I also enjoy Bdsm lifestyle and ready for new experiences.


Straight

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lets start a new happy. message me ! Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

if you grab me for a fight i will fight you back .


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish

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I act with discipline and care Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I loves toys and tools for my admirable self and me


Straight

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I am a Goddess,look for a loyal sub who can obey me Female 26 from Richmond, Australia

I am a Goodess Looking for a loyal sub who is willing to serve me


Straight

Looking for, ages 37-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

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I get excited about crazy  freaky things and exploring new things. Being crazy a.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm all about having fun, being freaky crazy , and exploring new things. I love to learn and I'm always up for an adventure.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging

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I am a busy, bossy mistress who wants too use you for my pleasure, my needs and .. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

What makes me happy is someone under my total control, I want money, power over you and no complaining. I get happy when you do my chores and make everything about me. Simple as that do as I say and keep me happy.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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New to this site but not new in the lifestyle,i am 24/7 sub seeking for the righ.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am singlr,mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listener, and a positive person.I am a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality and the wonderful sensations that my body,mind and spirit can produce..I have a good sense of humor and a willingness to explore not only what life has to offer but what am capable of experiencing both physically and mentally..


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sub

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