Mybedoryours woman header
Find casual encounters and NSA sex nearby
Sign up helper
Let's get started
Mybedoryours featured

Browse our members in Nsw

The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Nsw based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Find local sex partners in Nsw and all over Australia

Are you looking for a bit of fun rather than a long term partner or a serious relationship? Times are changing. More and more people now use the internet to meet new people for sex or fulfil their sexual fantasies.

For many people, a serious relationship or long term commitment just aren't what they want. The reasons for this vary from being too busy with a demanding career, being fresh out of a long term relationship and not wanting to jump back into another one to simply enjoying lots of sex with different partners. My Bed or Yours gives our users a secure and discreet way to meet new people looking for the same things as you. Finding a horny girl or guy in Nsw is easy. You can search for people in Nsw or search nationwide then arrange to meet for sex with no complications, commitment or drama.

Finding local sex, swingers or even a naughty affair in Nsw is almost too easy with My Bed or Yours

Search our members. It's easy to get started and find your match.

My Bed Or Yours Members Around Nsw
I’m never free I just make time Female 41 from Emu Plains, Australia

Friendship that turns into a relationship would be amazing. Def looking for love




Straight

Looking for, ages 39-51. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 50 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 50 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 50 years old, living in the Canberra region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 81.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Curves, Feet

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Sub newbie wanting to explore this lifestyle. Looking for Dom only in the bedroo.. Female 42 from Belconnen, Australia

Likes a good spanking, tie me up and push my limits. Praise me for being good.
Can be a bit of a brat.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 41-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Just a thick girl learning to love herself.. Female 29 from Goulburn, Australia

I’m looking for a connection with someone that will accept every part of me.
- submissive
- BDSM
- role play
- online fun


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Someone Else
I am very kind, charismatic and open, with a good sense of humor girl. I really .. Female 45 from Canberra, Australia

I want to meet a caring, understanding, kind man who will understand me and my profession.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, MILF, Nylons, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Hi, Wanna please guys! You looking for fun buns..xo Female 45 from Palmerston, Australia

I'm a clukky sort a girl, I'd Love to know you beneat you r pants you sexy juicy thing...


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Group Sex, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Hi there just a bicouple looking ifor a a bi male .A wife wanting to fulfil her .. Couple 46, 46 from Orange, Australia

Music and good company makes us happy,we are addicted to game of thrones atm amazing life’s just great


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 35-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I am a calm, tender, affectionate, kind and responsive person. The time spent wi.. Female 39 from Canberra, Australia

I am a calm, tender, affectionate, kind and responsive person. The time spent with my family is very important to me. I am an open person. I am very ingenuous in expressing my feelings; I easily get acquainted and get along with people. My friends say I am impressionable and feel the mood of other people very well. At the same time I can be careful with giving my trust to somebody though I think I am a trustful person. I really feel the need in attachment and protection. The attention of the surrounding people really inspire me and like to be emotionally involved in what is going on around me, to feel, not only to think. I understand other people very well, I am flexible and I can change my views, to look for the compromise but I have my main significant life principles and they shouldn't be put in doubt and stay the same for me as they are the part of my character. It is difficult for me to understand people who change their major views depending on some situation. I need to feel


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Exhibitionism, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 37 from Fitzroy Falls, Australia

I'm 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Sex Talk, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Very passionate and I take every action seriously Female 29 from Dubbo, Australia

When your totally submissive and ready to give it all you got


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple, Someone Else
I’m a dom looking for an obedient sub willing to serve Female 33 from Canberra, Australia

I’m a dom looking for an obedient sub willing to serve


Straight

Looking for, ages 24-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I am 39 female, with a daughter ...never  been married...56 feet tall,143 weig.. Female 40 from Canberra, Australia

I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is  important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities  together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well..I am not interested in games or drama.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-82. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Just a married couple looking to experiment ❤️ Couple 26, 25 from Orange, Australia

We are a married couple who loves some down time watch movies and are looking to experiment with a 3rd.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 20-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple
Am a Dom looking for a sub. Are you willing to be submissive Female 25 from Canberra, Australia

Can I be your mistress. I'm a Dom are you willing to be submissive


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sexual Massage, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Couple seeking a 3rd person Can host Couple 41, 41 from Nowra, Australia

Open to any potential meeting
Can host
Drink and a bbq


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female
Im 38 years old, living in the Canberra region. Female 38 from Canberra, Australia

I believe that life is too short to not savor every moment and create lasting memories. If you're someone who believes that age doesn't define the potential for a deep and meaningful connection, if you value love, laughter, and shared experiences, then I'd be delighted to get to know you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Toys, Sub

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
I don’t bite you can reach me out Female 49 from Bomaderry, Australia

I am a woman who sparkles with a variety of interests and hobbies. I am dreamy and romantic, with a soul that craves beauty in every aspect of life. My heart is open to adventure, love and sincere passion. My spirit knows no bounds when it comes to sports and an active lifestyle. From yoga classes and swimming to exciting mountain hikes, I find joy and harmony in movement and communication with nature. Traveling expands my horizons, allowing me to absorb the cultures of the world, their culinary delicacies, and discover new places that enrich my soul. Learning languages for me is a bridge to the global community, an opportunity to communicate and interact with people from different parts of the world. On this dating site, I am looking for a partner who can share my hobbies, understand my dreams and create a life full of love, mutual understanding and harmony with me. A man who values a life full of passion, warmth and shared adventure.


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 25 from Canberra, Australia

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
fitness, tennis, travel, love doing fun thing , exploring other place. Female 29 from Canberra, Australia

Hi I love my life, I love the people around me, I love this world. But I have such a big heart, full of emotions .I'm always very cheerful and don't like to argue. I am honest and serious. I like to enjoy life and I want to enjoy it together with the person I love! I am ready for a change in my life, I am ready to move in with my husband I am ready for a quick date and dating


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Webcam

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Couple
Good Morning There Sweetie How are you? Female 37 from Canberra, Australia

I am an interesting and versatile girl who has many fascinating interests. Starting with romantic poetry and embroidering paintings and ending with the fact that I can drive a combine that weighs nine tons. I am quite active, but at the same time I can stay at home and spend a cozy and quiet evening. I love traveling and exploring other cultures. The last thing I discovered was Japanese. Also, I like learning new languages and meeting new people.


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bondage, Lace, Outdoor Fun

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Good looking couple. Wanting to try new experiences come check us respect and co.. Couple 43, 43 from Penrith, Australia

We are a couple that are in an amazing relationship just wanting to find the right vibe for more experiences.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple
Single lady looking for some fun. I love to meet new people and gain new friends.. Female 47 from Dubbo, Australia

We love seeing each other enjoying the moment and being so turned on. And to have 2 ladies being able to play with each other and enjoy each other's company is the biggest turn on for my partner ❤ and I admit I like it also.


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male, Female, Couple
A very kinky devil in a sexy body willing to bring to you the wildest experience.. Female 35 from Canberra, Australia

I'm looking for a like mind sub willing to explore his kinky side


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Hi there! I’m Debbie and I believe that life is all about exploring your inner .. Female 55 from Canberra, Australia

I would describe myself as an independent woman, I am very perceptive, sensitive and have been told im very sensual . I am up for most things and enjoy life . I am newbie here and would like to find a nice couple to introduce to the swinging lifestyle.  Thanks in advance xxx


Bicurious

Looking for, ages 47-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Threesomes

Member profile image
Looking for: Male
Im 31 years old, living in the Australia Female 31 from Canberra, Australia

I'm 31 years old, living in the Australia. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 90.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Member profile image
Looking for: Male

Active member locations

  • Girilambone Australia /
  • Forbes /
  • Dubbo /

Married members welcome

Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Don't delay, create your own free profile today

Take advantage of our free photo profile account offer right now to secure your opportunity to meet willing sex partners every week. Registration takes less than a minute, your personal details are never displayed on the site and you will gain instant access to all our sexy members with no waiting for your account to be created or verified.

Why should you join My Bed of Yours?

At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

Verified Profiles for Peace of Mind

We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

Discreet & Safe Sex Dating

Privacy is paramount to us. We understand the importance of discretion, especially when it comes to intimate connections. Our commitment to anonymity means that your personal information is always kept confidential. Our in-house security team works tirelessly to ensure that your privacy is protected.

Security & Data Protection

Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.

At My Bed or Yours, we're dedicated to providing you with a safe and enjoyable online dating experience. Join us today and discover a community where you can connect with confidence.

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?