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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Vic based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Vic for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Vic
Make to join heterosexual couple Couple 53, 53 from Melbourne, Australia

Adventurous respectful couple looking for another couple for fun.   My man likes to watch so also looking for a single male for male on female


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 30-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Send naked pics, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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Baby momma needing some direction and some discipline. Female 39 from Marong, Australia

Doing as I’m told and hiding who I really am for my dom. It’s for him and only him


Straight

Looking for, ages 29-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sub

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We are sexually active mature couple looking to explore delights of bondage Couple 63, 57 from Frankston, Australia

We are looking to expore our sexuality
We are very active mature couple who wish to meet like minded persons for fun and sexual pleasure


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 50-72. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im a dominant woman in search of a loyal submissive for a long term of ecstasy,.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm Bell but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing. I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M

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Im lilian31 years old lady(56 tall and I weigh 140bls) single and never been m.. Female 44 from Geelong, Australia

I'm Regina,31 years old lady(5'6 tall and I weigh 140bls) single and never been married. I am a very warm,extremely Affectionate lady with a good sense of humor , Ambitious,Very caring,God fearing, , Good Listener, Loving , Open Minded and self respectful.


Straight

Looking for, ages 48-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

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Im 36 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a cool,kind and loyal person and I love people


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Petite, Sub, Temperature Play

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Hey Boo, where are all the realMen in the building, let hit it off and vibes tog.. Female 43 from Australia Plains, Australia

Simple calm, sexy stunning pretty lady, newly here and new to the lifestyle, here to explore the fun and beauty of this lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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Keen to meet fun couples for friendship or more Couple 44, 42 from Kilsyth, Australia

Would like to attend events or meet privately with other couples.
Open to most things.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Just a happy couple looking to bring a bi male in for some occasional fun, we ar.. Couple 40, 40 from Phillip, Australia

My partner wants to watch me fuck an get fucked this goes both ways we are up for an experience with all people envolved  having a pleasurable time


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 40-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, Dirty Talk, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd.. Female 33 from Melbourne, Australia

How horny can you be? What can I can do about it? How can I control you? You want to find out? message me.


Straight

Looking for, ages 23-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Im 54 years old, living in the Shepparton region. Couple 54, 44 from Shepparton, Australia

I'm 54 years old, living in the Shepparton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 58.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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DOM looking for a submissive sub to explore the lifestyle with, Im 43years old .. Female 23 from Melton, Australia

Let's delve into the lifestyle and I will train and teach you how to be a good sub. Looking for something special and LT


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay

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Im looking to meet a newbie to explore my dominant side. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm an experienced Dominant mistress seeking a good submissive partner to explore my dominant side. I'm sure my experience in this lifestyle will guarantee a sufficient and successful training of my submissive partner to become a good sub for himself and desirable to any Dominant Mistress who wishes to own him. I'm beautiful, strict and all my fluids taste good for those brave enough to enter their sub space in my cruel and dictatorial presence. Interested, Intelligent and handsome subs who desire full attention to all their fetishes must apply. Feel free to write me a message if you're interested to explore your submissive side under my servitude as I will be glad to discuss a possible meeting with you.


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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I am a dominant woman looking for that one devoted sub that is ready that is rea.. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a loving caring lady that has a wild mind
I love a kinky lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Looking for someone to explore new place with.. and too share a cold on with! Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

Adventure seeker who captures momemt through the lens and enjoys sipping on fine brews


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

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We are a happily married couple that are sexually open and adventurous Couple 52, 52 from Derrinallum, Australia

Spontaneous sexual encounters
Like minded people looking for some fun


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 42-62. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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The right timing is very important of having some fun. Female 29 from Talmalmo, Australia

I want to saw if you are good for me. A man who can show me the right path.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Dom, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Threesomes

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Erotic, sexy, sweaty porn sex is whats on order. Female 46 from Seaford, Australia

Good ppl with a gd vibe only. I'm into trying new things, hot boys and girls, soft BDSM, rope play and pretty much go with the flow.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Lingerie, MILF, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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A good partner that knows how to have a good time Female 31 from Bendigo, Australia

Come to my scared dun space let me make you a perfect crawler


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im here to bring all your fantasies to reality and trust me youd be thrilled a.. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm as naughty as I can get and being dominant is one trait I possess. I seek a submissive man that will give me lots of pleasure, a man that loves himself! Open! I love real men


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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SWer looking for a sub to assist in duties around the house i.e. hoovering, dish.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

I like to be served and worshiped. I want you to show me what a good boy or girl you are.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with one submissive.. Female 45 from Melbourne, Australia

45 year old single female, educated, articulate, tall, great shape, work out regularly, average build, safe, sane, healthy, ddf, fun.


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Cum FAP with me! ...and ON me! Couple 37, 37 from Lavington, Australia

30-something, M/M long term partnership, wanting to explore sexually with other men, women, couples or groups


Bisexual, Bicurious

Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Voyeurism

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Into kink and bdsm, want to explore and make regular tantalising experiences. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

Wow I really have no idea what I should put here. My deepest darkest fetishes? The things that give me so much pleasure they will never be spoken of? My favourite movies? My favourite thing to do for my partner sexually?


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 28-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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Hello just love life looking for a bit of fun in life Couple 67, 67 from Echuca, Australia

What makes me happy.meeting people. Travelling all parts of the world


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 57-77. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Exhibitionism, Sexual Massage

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Active member locations

  • Melbourne /
  • Clayton North /
  • Pakenham /
  • Craigieburn /
  • Reservoir /
  • Cranbourne /
  • Glenroy /
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Finding casual sex is easy with My Bed or Yours, the safe, discreet matchmaking system for open minded adults. Simply sign up using our quick registration form above to get instant access to all out naughty members, start searching for local adults in Vic or anywhere else in Australia or just fill in some basic information and let our automated profile matching system do the work for you.

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Stop wasting your time and hard earned money on boring dating web sites which are not suited to your needs. The majority of members on the popular dating web sites are not interested in simply meeting for casual sex and many would be highly offended if you suggested swinging or partner swapping. You may even be blocked if they found out you were married. Not on My Bed or Yours. Our members are open and honest about what they want which for many is not a serious boyfriend or girlfriend or any commitment.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

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