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Hello I’m new here let’s do this fair Female 57 from Melbourne, Australia

Single  let’s play a fair role I’m into anything


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun

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Hello my dear my name is cecili i just registered bako.com am looking for a so.. Female 43 from Port Melbourne, Australia

Hello my dear
my name is cecili i just registered bako.com
am looking for a soul mate
for a serious relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Bondage, Electro Play, Petite, Sub, Voyeurism

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I am a dominant woman,who Enjoys training men in bdsm lifestyle and Hookups Female 49 from Melbourne, Australia

Mistress is not here for games,Serious people only


Straight

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Couple looking to have some fun. Open to most things. Maybe start with swapping .. Couple 40, 40 from Melbourne, Australia

We enjoy sharing photos and dirty talk. Once there is a level of trust she loves 2 cocks at the same time I’m happy to help and when it’s my turn to pick she loves to eat pussy while I play with it


Straight, Straight

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Im looking for someone to build great time together. do you like coffee? cats? .. Female 29 from Mildura, Australia

I'm a strong, independent woman but open for what ever makes our lives exciting! hit me up if you're interested! I'm open to explore a lot of things, Have experiences but please handle me with extra care. kind of dom but let you hit me off if you can really tame me well


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

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Im a Legitimate Sovereign Mistress Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for that older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly. I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way. I will only accept true servitude with integrity.


Straight

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Just a couple looking for some fun! Couple 29, 29 from Melbourne, Australia

We are both very outgoing love meeting & trying new things!


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 19-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Live and learn to be me Explore Female 55 from Frankston, Australia

To be desired and feel cherished,
I am a submissive female
I search for a naturally dominant male
Please single men only
No pic no play, you see me, I want to see you. Looks for me are not important but feeling a connection is everything.  
Attraction desire chemistry with the possibility of a relationship is what I seek
NO MARRIED MEN OR MEN WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

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I AM A GODDESS WAITING FOR YOU TO PLEASE ME Female 33 from Geelong, Australia

Im looking for a worthy sub who is ready to commit to My control for real time


Straight

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fun couple into most hot fun,we enjoy fmfmmm most lol Couple 52, 54 from Brunswick, Australia

we like to meet fun none pusy people, we love playing with other /f couples nd extra guys


Straight, Straight

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Mistress is not here for games. Serious people only. Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a dominant woman who enjoys training men the true OK ways of BDSM relationship


Straight

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Looking for the perfect man to explore all my sexual fantasies with Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a kinky lady looking to find a like minded man


Straight

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Hi, Im Mistress Charlotte Im 49 years of age Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

I love to train those that are willing to learn and also willing to travel.


Straight

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Elegant. Authentic. Experienced. Professional Dominatrix & Alpha Goddess! Female 29 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

I am vastly experienced in correcting male wrongdoing and offer role play scenarios ranging from a good smacked bottom from a matriarchal/ strict stepmom/ authoritative auntie figure to judicial canings from a uniformed officer.
My punishment room has a large, and greatly varied selection of disciplinary implements. The range is as eye-popping as their effects are eye-watering! !
Straps, tawse, plimsolls, floggers, belts, paddles, and My favorite Canes.
Lots and lots of canes. I adore canes, maximum effect, minimum effort. My backhand is well-practiced, too. Let's have beautiful stripes on both cheeks.
If all this seems a bit too severe.

My right-hand offers a spanking experience that will give You a warm glow for days.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Well get along if you are funny, open-minded and can carry a conversation. We m.. Female 26 from Werribee, Australia

What can I say, I'm fun, playful, open (not just my legs) and so honest some people hate me for it. Hygiene is important to me. I very much prefer to receive. Love to be worshipped. My sex drive is HIGH for at least 2 out of 4 weeks of the month I want someone who is in tune. I enjoy being tied up. I like sensory play. I have to feel totally safe and comfortable with you. I like being spanked, whipped, cropped but I don't like anything extreme. I'm not into S and M. I LOVE receiving oral. I enjoy butt play with the right person. I love toys, especially those that vibrate...Strongly. Vibrating butt plug or anal beads and clit lickers and stimulators are some of my favourites. I LOVE Shibari. I love a firm hand, wrapped around my neck, I like a little breath play. Guys must wear a condom. Quite shy at the thought of group play but open to it. It is hard for me to find time to actually go out, and when I do, I'm lucky to get four hours to myself before I must return to my homely duties.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 22-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sub

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New to swinging. Hope to meet some interesting people Couple 53, 53 from Melbourne, Australia

We are new to swinging.
We are looking for a bloke to give wife a erotic massage


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 40-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Sexual Massage

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Serious and matured people only. Here for fun Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a dominant women looking for a submissive man to have a good time and fun with


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

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Attractive and hung bi men for threesome fun Couple 36, 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Attractive and adventurous couple looking for fun times.


Straight, Straight

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Irish Professional Dominatrix visiting Melbs for a short time only. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a saposexual, don’t bore me with basic introductions!


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-65. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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A mistress and more, whip in hand and compassion in the heart, with me its about.. Female 25 from Ultima, Australia

Come to me on your knees willing to worship and I shall satisfy your desires with pleasures hearts knee to trying new things


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Communication is key! Let’s have some fun! Female 36 from Geelong, Australia

Lover of dirty literature and lazy Sundays. Great sense of humour and even better banter. Want to connect both physically and mentally so if you not in for more then one night, move on please.

Lets start out with a bit of fun and if the connection is there, see where it goes.

If relationship status is complicated or married please don’t message me!


Straight

Looking for, ages 27-47. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

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Fire in Sydney.. lets enjoy our sense together Female 38 from Homebush, Australia

Hot queen passionate in bed with lick and suck.. lets us rock together


Straight

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Hello I’m Jessica. I love exploring my mind which leads to exploiting our bodie.. Female 49 from Geelong, Australia

When I want you…. I crave you
When I crave you…. I can’t get you out of my mind


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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My heart is full of love and happiness Female 55 from Melbourne, Australia

Love Thrives on confidence and Dignity and survives on wisdom and Honor


Straight

Looking for, ages 58-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature

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Let me control you. Sensually, emotionally, sexually and mentally. Give up every.. Female 30 from Frankston, Australia

Let me control you. Sensually, emotionally, sexually and mentally. Give up everything and submit your body to your mistress. I will control everything including your dick eg., when you cum etc


Straight

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