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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Vic based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Vic for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Vic
Hi guys how are you on a 50-year-old blonde slim good looking down to earth old .. Female 50 from Frankston, Australia

I like to pamping my my man and I love to give them nice massage and I love to just pleasure him and go out and have fun and meet and greet and enjoy each other's company like best friends no s*** no two timing


Straight

Looking for, ages 41-66. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

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Attractive and hung bi men for threesome fun Couple 36, 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Attractive and adventurous couple looking for fun times.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

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SWer looking for a sub to assist in duties around the house i.e. hoovering, dish.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

I like to be served and worshiped. I want you to show me what a good boy or girl you are.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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I dont want a perfect relationship: I want someone to act silly with, who treat.. Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

I want someone who I can kiss in the pouring rain.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Im 42 years old, living in the NSW I region. Female 42 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 42 years old, living in the Sydney region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 32 and 90.


Bisexual

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Looking for the perfect man to explore all my sexual fantasies with Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a kinky lady looking to find a like minded man


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Dominance is not all about overpowering its all about empowering. Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

The dominant roles is to guide,protect and cherish submissive.
Hope to find a serious minded person.


Straight

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Im just the way I am. I like to laugh. I love very open people and they often t.. Female 33 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm just the way I am. I like to laugh. I love very open people and they often tell me that because of my smile, the day becomes brighter. I know what care for a loved one is and I know what true love is, but I already want to love and be loved.


Straight

Looking for, ages 38-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

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Hello lets have fun whos next and available ? Female 35 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 35 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 80.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Lingerie, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

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We are a married couple in our mid 50s and are looking for a willing female to .. Couple 56, 56 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 56 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 41 and 66.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 41-66. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship Female 41 from Bendigo, Australia

Hello there i am here looking for a serious and a long term relationship


Straight

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I’m looking for my soulmate. Anything goes Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am flexible, kind, generous, responsive, humorous, ambitious, sociable, emotional, sensitive. I want to create a family with a like-minded person with whom we have common goals and interests,I am very outgoing male,get in touch and  we can start to get each other known.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m not insearch of a perfect partner as long as you can obey me and worship my body, I’m willing to accept you as mime. If you’re a first times who wish to be dominated by me you should message me away


Straight

Looking for, ages 28-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Elegant. Authentic. Experienced. Professional Dominatrix & Alpha Goddess! Female 29 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

I am vastly experienced in correcting male wrongdoing and offer role play scenarios ranging from a good smacked bottom from a matriarchal/ strict stepmom/ authoritative auntie figure to judicial canings from a uniformed officer.
My punishment room has a large, and greatly varied selection of disciplinary implements. The range is as eye-popping as their effects are eye-watering! !
Straps, tawse, plimsolls, floggers, belts, paddles, and My favorite Canes.
Lots and lots of canes. I adore canes, maximum effect, minimum effort. My backhand is well-practiced, too. Let's have beautiful stripes on both cheeks.
If all this seems a bit too severe.

My right-hand offers a spanking experience that will give You a warm glow for days.


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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We are new and wanting to explore Couple 43, 43 from Melton, Australia

Whisky fun happiness play getting to know new people


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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a gentle loving dom seeking a sub who wants to experience his fantasies and k.. Female 25 from Mernda, Australia

looking for a devoted sub who is willing  to  do what it takes  to please


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Cuckold, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Oral, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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Hello Dom/sub x message if interested Female 23 from Mulgrave, Australia

Only message me if this is what your looking for. xx


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

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Im 28 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 28 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 38.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-38. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

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Bi female single Open minded loves a beer or 5 Female 41 from Melbourne, Australia

Hi Mel here am bi female 40 single
Am open minded and looking for like minded people
Will come back to this


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-55. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im 63 years old, living in the Yutan region. Female 64 from Vermont, Australia

I'm 63 years old, living in the Yutan region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 59.


Straight

Looking for, ages 49-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Full Swap

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Hi, its Mistress Amelia. Im 48 years mistress, I live in Sydney, Australia. Female 48 from Parramatta, Australia

I'm in need of a loyal,honest and obedient Sub, must be willing to travel.


Straight

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

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New here! Ready to meet someone Female 44 from Melbourne, Australia

I like to hike and visit the tourist sites to explore and also learn new things. I enjoy walking by the beach side as well but just have not found anyone to walk hand in hand with.


Straight

Looking for, ages 64-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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Gay couple open ready to meet new people and friends Couple 53, 53 from Drouin, Australia

Having fun discreet enjoy the moment and to explore


Gay, Gay

Looking for, ages 45-56. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Toys

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I am a strict mistress looking for a loyal sub to serve me in real life Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

Hello future submissive, You need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 9 years experience with a great lifestyle and I have crazy fun ideas


Straight

Looking for, ages 43-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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Live your life the way you want it Female 31 from Melbourne, Australia

Good food, good conversation, good sex. Just positive things


Straight

Looking for, ages 36-68. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub

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Active member locations

  • Port Melbourne /
  • Werribee /
  • Adelaide Lead /
  • Warragul /
  • Wyndham /
  • Sunbury /
  • Frankston /
  • Acheron /
  • Craigieburn /
  • Clayton North /
  • Altona /
  • Wallan /
  • Murchison /
  • Maddingley /

Finding casual sex is easy with My Bed or Yours, the safe, discreet matchmaking system for open minded adults. Simply sign up using our quick registration form above to get instant access to all out naughty members, start searching for local adults in Vic or anywhere else in Australia or just fill in some basic information and let our automated profile matching system do the work for you.

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Stop wasting your time and hard earned money on boring dating web sites which are not suited to your needs. The majority of members on the popular dating web sites are not interested in simply meeting for casual sex and many would be highly offended if you suggested swinging or partner swapping. You may even be blocked if they found out you were married. Not on My Bed or Yours. Our members are open and honest about what they want which for many is not a serious boyfriend or girlfriend or any commitment.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

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