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Newly single and looking for some fun Female 33 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a lady by day but a deviant by night. Looking for like minded people


Straight

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Good vibes only but I’m very new at this and just want to meet like minded peopl.. Female 39 from Prahran, Australia

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This Dom is seeking a loyal sub for punishment, pleasure and training to be a go.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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Looking for hookup and more that are into BDSM Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

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easy going and i have a goodheart Female 33 from Frankston, Australia

i like to be around positive people to make life together even in a worse time , i love to do what make me happy


Straight

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Looking for a hottie to join my husband and I. Couple 34, 40 from Pakenham, Australia

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I'm 40 years old, living in the Syndal region.
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A couple looking for all sorts of fun. Up for pretty much anything with good peo.. Couple 34, 33 from Stawell, Australia

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Into kink and bdsm, want to explore and make regular tantalising experiences. Female 29 from Melbourne, Australia

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Just a couple looking for some fun! Couple 29, 29 from Melbourne, Australia

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I am an ordinary girl who would like to become a loving woman in the future, and.. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

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Straight

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Im a Legitimate Sovereign Mistress Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for that older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly. I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way. I will only accept true servitude with integrity.


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Im looking for someone to build great time together. do you like coffee? cats? .. Female 29 from Wodonga, Australia

I'm a strong independent woman, has a job and still single and has no family despite the age, but still looking for someone to be with. I'm not so strong if I'm alone. I'm open to  a lot of ideas and willing to explore a lot of stuffs for fun. Ain't a time waster please so do you.


Straight

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Were a young couple in a long term relationship looking to spice things up in t.. Couple 25, 23 from Griffith, Australia

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Single sex partners
Sex with another couple


Straight, Straight

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Beautiful, sexy, looking for a humble and obedient sub that is ready and willing.. Female 36 from Bendigo, Australia

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Straight

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Do not let my angelic and youthful face deceive you. What I may lack in years, I.. Female 43 from Geelong, Australia

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Straight

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Fun couple looking Looking for fun Couple 45, 43 from Mernda, Australia

Fun couple looking for fun and excitement with likeminded couple


Straight, Straight

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Mistress Ava seeking a loyal submissive Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Traveler, loves hiking, seeking for a loyal sub to train in the bdsm lifestyle


Straight

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hello how are you doing am felicia Couple 67, 67 from Melbourne, Australia

hello how are you dear am looking for a serious relationship


Straight, Straight

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Elegant. Authentic. Experienced. Professional Dominatrix & Alpha Goddess! Female 29 from Adelaide Lead, Australia

I am vastly experienced in correcting male wrongdoing and offer role play scenarios ranging from a good smacked bottom from a matriarchal/ strict stepmom/ authoritative auntie figure to judicial canings from a uniformed officer.
My punishment room has a large, and greatly varied selection of disciplinary implements. The range is as eye-popping as their effects are eye-watering! !
Straps, tawse, plimsolls, floggers, belts, paddles, and My favorite Canes.
Lots and lots of canes. I adore canes, maximum effect, minimum effort. My backhand is well-practiced, too. Let's have beautiful stripes on both cheeks.
If all this seems a bit too severe.

My right-hand offers a spanking experience that will give You a warm glow for days.


Straight

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Newbies, looking to have fun and explore Couple 45, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for excitement and fun to spice things up.


Straight, Straight

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New to the scene and looking for a play mate. MFM. Needing to be shared and fuc.. Couple 41, 41 from Carrum, Australia

We are looking for a playmate.  She will be responding, not me. She likes to please and wants the excitement of worshipping two cocks. Take the lead while I watch it join as she loves the cock.   Must be respectful and not pushy. Get to know her before meeting as connection is a must.  She is not here to entertain and send pics,  genuinely looking for a third . Both are straight, no MM. She enjoys a full load, and gets excited, wanting more...


Straight, Straight

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Looking for a man to join couple for threesome. Gotta know what you are doing an.. Couple 39, 34 from Mildura, Australia

We are open minded couple looking for fun. I'm 32 and my man is 36. We are keen for men or couple only who want serious meets not people who want pics we want hard sex or man to join husband fuck his wife


Straight, Straight

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New to this site but not new in the lifestyle,i am 24/7 sub seeking for the righ.. Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am singlr,mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listener, and a positive person.I am a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality and the wonderful sensations that my body,mind and spirit can produce..I have a good sense of humor and a willingness to explore not only what life has to offer but what am capable of experiencing both physically and mentally..


Straight

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