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Curvy Goddess looking for someone to give a little pleasure and little pain, I’.. Female 32 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a Demi Pan, so looks never bother me. I’m pretty open to ideas on hook ups (short and long term), friends, something serious, a play toy (if your into that sort of thing).
Likes leather, toys, a little pleasure and a little pain


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Looking for, ages 18-49. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

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Im looking for someone to build great time together. do you like coffee? cats? .. Female 29 from Wodonga, Australia

I'm a strong independent woman, has a job and still single and has no family despite the age, but still looking for someone to be with. I'm not so strong if I'm alone. I'm open to  a lot of ideas and willing to explore a lot of stuffs for fun. Ain't a time waster please so do you.


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Young looking girl looking for long term or short term RS Or Fun , Kindly messag.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

Petite 5.7 got tattoes brown eyes easy funny girl looking for some fun , what ever it takes , im bored ! message me lol


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Hi I person who was to explode my sexual side, with male or female. With 2 men o.. Female 58 from Glen Iris, Australia

What makes me happy is doing things that make other people happy, and what’s gets me excited is when I get all the attention and watching porn all porn


Straight

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Use me how you want as long im safe and I prefer the real thing. Female 26 from Broadford, Australia

Am looking for some fun and new experience here and meetups. Still exploring in shape and attractive. Into intelligent,clean with a sense of humor. Open minded and super laid back


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Were a young couple in a long term relationship looking to spice things up in t.. Couple 25, 23 from Griffith, Australia

We're looking for either a threesome with another male or female
Single sex partners
Sex with another couple


Straight, Straight

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Outgoing, confident & energetic. Love building deep connections, always the .. Female 27 from Tarneit, Australia

All about excitement, from exploring new places to diving into thrilling adventures. Alongside adrenaline rushes, I find joy in simple moments with loved ones and pursuing my passions. Happiness, to me, is about embracing every moment, big or small.


Bisexual

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I’m looking for my soulmate. Anything goes Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am flexible, kind, generous, responsive, humorous, ambitious, sociable, emotional, sensitive. I want to create a family with a like-minded person with whom we have common goals and interests,I am very outgoing male,get in touch and  we can start to get each other known.


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Hey, looking for someone to have fun with. Preferably online or app first and se.. Couple 32, 32 from Bendigo, Australia

Happy married couple looking for guy for wife to flirt/play with


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I get excited about crazy  freaky things and exploring new things. Being crazy a.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm all about having fun, being freaky crazy , and exploring new things. I love to learn and I'm always up for an adventure.


Straight

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Im sure a beautiful sexy woman. I have ambitious goals in life Female 28 from Melbourne, Australia

I am kind and fair. I love sincerity, simplicity and just humanity in people. I do not forgive betrayal. I came to the dating site to find my destiny and the desired man


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’m a Dominant woman I’m looking for a discreet relationship with a  loyal and h.. Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sissy the basic needs that makes him a real sissy. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it.


Bisexual

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Irish Professional Dominatrix visiting Melbs for a short time only. Female 37 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a saposexual, don’t bore me with basic introductions!


Bisexual

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Beeekind couple seeking female Couple 44, 48 from Clayton, Australia

Bubbly hugs fun happy giggles I’m one of the lucky people who love what they do.. I wake up and can’t wait for my day and hopefully I can share my  infectious fun and have a laugh
.., I love new shiny people.. lm now with an exciting partner to double the fun.. I love eating both sex’s ..I’m adventurous loves to play and watch sexual partners let go and enjoy .. My partner loves giving to women and wants me to have a girlfriend to satisfy my sexual choices. . let me play with you and explore your turn ons .. or just have a drink and talk about it I’m cruisey  either way .. or a little dirty talk if it flows and we’ll go with the flow lol Do you want to be played with ? Or want to be played with with the focus on you? send a message if you want to explore what I or we can do.. no pressure just fun and laughs I don’t take life to serious or sweat the small stuff x


Bisexual, Straight

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I am very single. I am not seeing anyone at the moment. I am one man woman and a.. Female 61 from Syndal, Australia

I find  the right person it's a possibility. There is nothing more fantastic than having your best friend as a partner to lean on, love, admire, and share everything with. I am in no rush


Straight

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Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her dom.. Female 39 from Bendigo, Australia

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


Straight

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Hey Boo, where are all the realMen in the building, let hit it off and vibes tog.. Female 43 from Australia Plains, Australia

Simple calm, sexy stunning pretty lady, newly here and new to the lifestyle, here to explore the fun and beauty of this lifestyle


Straight

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Let me be your sexy submissive . I love to tease & please, obey & play & to be .. Female 43 from Mount Martha, Australia

I havnt watch tv in 8 yrs instead I listen to music it’s so good for the soul .
Music is life .


Bisexual

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Newbie to BDSM and want to try being a sub. Female 19 from Melbourne, Australia

I have learned about BDSM through books that I have read. Bondage and being restrained is something that excites me. I want to explore more about my desires as try being a sub.


Bisexual

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Looking for a Dom that can handle me. Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

Making you happy, makes me happy. Connection also makes me happy.


Straight

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Hi I’m a super curvy girl . Who can fuck me tonight? I’m a bit chubby and fair. .. Female 24 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m 24. Chubby girl . I want to have sex tonight ( anal ) . Any one interested? I would like to do it with gym man. Hub


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A communicative and safe space for submissive to explore their desires and fetis.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

As a dominant, I am a confident and assertive individual who takes control and leads with a firm hand. I have a deep understanding of power dynamics and enjoy exploring the boundaries of pleasure and submission. I prioritize communication, trust, and consent in all my interactions, ensuring a safe and consensual experience for both myself and my submissive partner


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Im 39 years old, living in the Doncaster region. Female 39 from Doncaster, Australia

I'm 39 years old, living in the Doncaster region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 79.


Straight

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I’m a single and kinky lady who intends on enjoying and discovering new pleasure.. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I’m a dominant woman in search of a kinky man I can enjoy lots of pleasure with.


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Im looking for a straight man or a cross dresser to train as My sub Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a Mistress looking for a willing sub whom I can utilize my skills effectively with


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