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Looking for a partner to explore my sexy naughty and kinky intentions with Female 43 from Hoppers Crossing, Australia

I want to explore my kinky thoughts with someone responsible and naughty at the same time ,badassmistress you'll ever find ,I got everything you need and I'll give what it takes to get what I want from my submissive man let's explore in my fantasy kinky world


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Im young mistress Nichole. Im 49 year old sexy mistress, I will never break a p.. Female 50 from Melbourne, Australia

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Shy but filthy bi curious female seeking double the love Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

I am looking for my first three way to indulge in. I'm getting very bored with just hooking up with only one person, very interested to see where this goes. Also, i'm single just got out of a long term relationship.


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Fun couple...Come play with us!... Female 47 from Melbourne, Australia

Attached and keen to watch my bi boyfriend play with another bi guy.Love meeting new people...Let's have some fun!


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Blonde, young & tattoo’d, juicy titties I am a dom so if you don’t like that I w.. Female 27 from Rockbank, Australia

I'm 27 years old, living in the Rockbank region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 85.


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Well my name is Rebecca I am new to this online dating I am here seeking for a l.. Female 67 from Melbourne, Australia

I am single seeking for a relationship and good sex


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Loving couple looking to have some fun sexually. Looking to add another man/coup.. Couple 47, 48 from Melbourne, Australia

Loving couple looking to have some fun sexually. Looking to add another man or couple for a fun sensual sexy night.


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Im here to have fun and have a good time, Im open for friends with benefits an.. Female 30 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 30 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 75.


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Hey guys just feeling the site out see if it’s for us come say hi make us feel w.. Couple 45, 44 from Frankston, Australia

Both love sex if it were a Olympic event we’d be pick with out hesitation not our first rodeo and hopefully more fun to be had come say hi see if we click.


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Im married so Im looking for some discreet fun, NSA, ONS, FWB :) Female 38 from Melbourne, Australia

Outgoing and a bit wild with piercings. I feel like I have a pretty nice body. I love watching movies and TV shows. Love to chat/flirt so if you are interested, write :P


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Live and learn to be me Explore Female 55 from Frankston, Australia

To be desired and feel cherished,
I am a submissive female
I search for a naturally dominant male
Please single men only
No pic no play, you see me, I want to see you. Looks for me are not important but feeling a connection is everything.  
Attraction desire chemistry with the possibility of a relationship is what I seek
NO MARRIED MEN OR MEN WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS


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Not here for jokes,only serious people. Female 53 from Melbourne, Australia

I am a dom,I also enjoy Bdsm lifestyle and ready for new experiences.


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Bring the heat and I will me you there. Partner with me for a life of passionat.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

"Bring the heat and I will me you there. Partner with me for a life of passionate adventure and a happy family home."


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Welcome to my world of sensual domination, divine bondage, discipline and fetish.. Female 40 from Melbourne, Australia

Looking for LTR, of fun, chills, ecstasy, wildness and more.  I love to explore with my Sub, and I’m excited to meet a real loyal submissive, must be very energetic and hygienic, and daring.
Love Light bondage, pegging, Ass worshipping, pussy worshipping, role plays, impact plays, collaring,whipping, and mistress loves being served by a clean and hygienic Sub. Looking for a naughty Sub for discreet meets.


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Looking for anything fun and safe meet up, down for relationship and hookups as .. Female 43 from Melbourne, Australia

Love to explore more about life, i dont if im into a long term thing, all I know is im into something interesting.


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I get excited about crazy  freaky things and exploring new things. Being crazy a.. Female 27 from Melbourne, Australia

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Im looking for a straight man or a cross dresser to train as My sub Female 39 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm a Mistress looking for a willing sub whom I can utilize my skills effectively with


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Im 34 years old, living in the Melbourne region. Female 34 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm 34 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 35 and 99.


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I am a person who is always in a good mood, has a positive mindset, and is funny.. Female 56 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm looking for a man who knows how to love, protect, and provide for his family. A man whose words nurture, instead of hurt. Even if we have fights and misunderstandings, he won't lay a finger on me because he respects me despite our differences. I appreciate someone who always has time to be with his kids. I can offer him my unconditional love and understanding and assure


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Voyage of Discovery: The next step Couple 61, 61 from Melbourne, Australia

We have been looking at polyamory and all these 'new', 'modern' ideas and we like them.


Straight, Straight

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Simply, Kind, humble. I dont chase, I attract. Female 30 from Werribee, Australia

Pay for my attention or you won't have it. My energy and time is worth it


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Am a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 34 from Camberwell, Australia

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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Im a dominant woman in search of a loyal submissive for a long term of ecstasy,.. Female 36 from Melbourne, Australia

I'm Bell but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing. I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.


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We are looking for new friends, drinks, good chats and group fun. Couple 31, 36 from Shepparton, Australia

We are both in Brisbane let's have some Bi fun, if you're interested get in contact.
He's a younger guy but doesn't act it, full of energy and so am I.
Looking for like minded people who can relax with a drink or two.


Bisexual, Bisexual

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Look at yourself — a desperate, thirsty pig craving a goddess like me! Female 28 from Morwell, Australia

Only message me if you plan on making it worth my while


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