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Adult dating is for people who don't want a full on relationship - or for those who want to spice up an existing one. Fancy seeing your partner with another girl? We help people find the right adult relationship for them. Our discreet service lets you find the people that are going turn the heat up on your sex life. You can take things slowly - flirting on our social media messaging service. Or dive right in and arrange to meet someone. It's up to you what you do and who you do it with.

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It's a crowded market out there, and that's just dating sites. Once you factor in online personals pages on local news sites or mobile hookup apps it gets hard to know what you're getting into. It sometimes seems like everyone and their dog is setting up another quick dating service. We've been around long enough to see people come and go, which should be enough to reassure you that we might just know a few tricks of the trade by now.

Where most of our competitors fail is in trying to trick their members with fake profiles, or not taking enough care of their customers' security and privacy. They usually then skimp on the whole concept of customer service, making a toxic mix that drives them straight back out of business. That's not how we do things.

We don't make sample profiles. Instead, every single person registered on My Bed or Yours is a real person, just like you. They've come here with the same agenda as you: to have fun. They might be just wanting to flirt at first, but everyone here is looking for someone to meet up with, or spend time online with. When everyone's here for the same reason, there's no stopping the party.

We're here to keep the party going, and that means being serious about your security and privacy so that you can concentrate on having a good time. Our support teams are available all week, if you're not happy we can help out.

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It's a sad fact that so many adult dating sites are just plain dodgy and just out for your money. Of course we would like you to pay for our service but we think you should pay because it's a good service not because we are forcing it out of you. Our goal has always been to provide a safe, fun, trustworthy adult dating experience. We have full time members of staff you can actually call if you have a problem. We don't ask for any credit card details until you are actually ready to pay for something.

We offer a free photo verification service. Ever seen a picture on someones profile that looks too good to be true? You can submit your pictures to our staff verification team to have it hand verified and stamped. Seeing that you are who you say you are gives potential dates much more confidence in you and they are far more likely to send you a message. Which means you're far more likely to end up in bed!

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Marie, 45 from Melbourne

Well Hi thanks for stopping an looking at my profile, I have not much to say about myself, I like hanging with mates, I enjoy making people happy an laugh, cause if they are happy i am happy. i am kind an careing person, an i love to please other people. I dont like people that play games, an also ones that play mind games. I am not here just for a root i want to meet new people have new friends. Also if you have to picture dont bother contacting me cause i wont talk to you, i...

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