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Apple, 31 from Finke, NT

looking for casual chat and flirting to build my confidence .Im very honest and a good girl but would like to see if my naughty side is still present xx

Catherine, 55 from Eltham, VIC

I'm a sexy, sensual woman, who is looking for some fun. The world's a pretty messed up place; and a bit of relief would be, hmm, well great. I am confident with my sexuality and enjoy a variety of things; one of course is pleasing you! No married men please; nor anyone younger than 45. A smart man (deep voice a bonus !) who can laugh with me. I'm left of centre, and usually get along better with people with same ideals.

Sharon, 39 from Lakelands, WA

Seperated from a 17yr marriage.. Ive forgotten who i was during that time and need to find myself again.. I very much need and want sex alot.. High sex drive.. Im 5''7 tall. Hazel green eyes.. Size 10/12 I have a couple tattoos. And love tats on my men.. I have Short hair.. 12c breast.. And a nice arse

Dean, 35 from Pines Forest, VIC

hi i am a 34 y o dte guy who is singer song writer self taughtguitarist who is looking for a bad girl or couple to help me push the boundaries of my sexuality I am extremely openminded and adventurous used to work iin adult entertainment industry doing live sex shows for years so I know how to pleaseure a woman or couple I am into just about anything as long as it feels good I am into making home pornomoviwes so feel free tic video us if you wish I am such an exhibitionist and love pleasuring others...

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